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COL422: LTAS: Playspace Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this topic, we start the discussion about playspace etiquette. Listen in as we give the dos and don’ts about your favorite back bar space, dark room, bathhouse, frolic and mingle rooms. So, should you enter a playroom chatting on your cellphone while eating a plate of nachos?

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Back in Action/W Bear
  • Damon: Glamping Trip
  • Chester: Apt Approved, packing, and Evan’s first drive-in
  • Gary: July is here!

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  • Ches Clark SHOW NOTE [re: COL421]: I realized after the fact that I didn’t get in the whole story about my birthday dinner. (I think I cut myself off because I felt like I was monopolizing and rambling on.) That being said, I wanted to make a small addendum, especially given that I was giving someone who wasn’t present to defend himself a bit of a hard time. Brady *did* sincerely apologize for initiating the song and spectacle debacle as part of owning up to it, and had no idea beforehand that I was so vehemently opposed to that sort of public display. He truly did feel terrible about it afterward, but I was just in no mood to hear it at the time. He was just trying to be playful and funny, and so for those who might be worried about him getting “two black marks in my little book,” have no fear–most of that accounting business is tongue-in-cheek. Brady and I are very much okay with each other. Cheers!
  • Re: COL421: Greg Ballard I would love to do a co host spot someday. Love this channel! Watching right now!

 

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  • Rotundaplomb in re: to COL420: State of the Community 2017
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Weekly Topic

Article from Bear World Magazine website interview re: the W Bear app

Let’s Talk About Sex: Playspace Etiquette

  • You may/will be seen/watched – not possible to be invisible
  • Always be respectful
  • Consent needs to be given, whether subtle or pronounced
  • You know what is best for yourself, not anyone else
  • Keep safety in mind, yours and everyone else’s
  • Be courteous to others in the space
  • Prepare yourself; mentally and physically

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COL384: Title Holder Experience

col384In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by Mr. COL Bear and Mr. NAB 2016 Ray to talk about contests, titles, contestants, and winning (or losing). What does it take to be in a contest? Listen in as the guys tally out the ins and outs of running for–and being–a titleholder.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Too Much To Do!
  • Damon: Another Puppy contest
  • Chester: Busy bee
  • Gary: When your body gets old

Weekly Topic

What experience has taught former title holders others can do to prepare for entering a title contest and then the year following a win.

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COL381: LTAK: Boy vs Pup

COL381In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this one, the guys are joined by Ches (Foxbear), Ray (Mr. North American Bear), and pups Beacon and Dozor to talk about boys and pups. What common features do these roles play under the grander kinky umbrella and where do they differ? Listen in as the cubs break down these two similar, yet very different identities.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Legion has arrived!
  • Damon: IndyFurCon briefly
  • Chester: Mancs Pride
  • Gary: Bestie Time
  • Ches/FoxBear: WORK!  NEED VACATION!
  • Ray: Imperial Court of Indianapolis
  • Pup Dozor: Softball and Hockey end of season! Prep for BtW.
  • Pup Beacon: Busy summer. All the new things. Job, home, car, pup, member of Onyx, etc

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  • Randall Stratton: Just finished listening to the podcast..and I agree with Gary none of these songs did it for me..like it was said on the show they seemed to follow a formula..so I was like..meh next.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Boys vs Pups

COL314: LTAK: Respect and Consent

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COLDR: S8E6: Wizards of Drag

COLDRS8-Ep6Ease on down the road as it’s time for another episode of COLDR. In this week’s episode, it’s a design challenge based on The Wizard of Oz. Gary and Damon spend a little time going through it. Which queens make it to the Emerald City and who ends up with a house on their head.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 6

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: The pressure is on
  • [Damon]: Someone “deserved to go”

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Verbal stress spews forth
  • [Damon]: Remember what the challenge is…/The Question

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Emotional Defensiveness
  • [Damon]: The “odd release”/Payless

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Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Rules vs Expectations
  • [Damon]: Drama No Matter Who

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Naomi’s comeback
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Derrick’s not listening
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Bob making it through
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for… “flattering” Ms. Derrick

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Moving in on the top contenders
  • [Damon]: Stop Saying “You’re Not” and “You Can’t”

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COL357: HNU: Are You Open and Prepared?

COL298In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another hostful news update! For preparing your body for the pleasure of another person’s company, the cubs share articles about manscaping, cleaning out and open relationships. Yes, boys, you too can be ready for that casual encounter with a little TLC to your nether regions.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Way too lazy for my own good
  • Damon: 3-D Day
  • Gary – Bad dreams

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I present to you what a night with Ronald McDonald, The King, Jack-in-the-Box, and Col. Sanders would be like.

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • unicorn ballsAn expression used when you don’t know whether something is amazing or just plain creepy. This can be best described as your mom giving you a lap dance (it may be truly fascinating, but it’s also kinda wtf.)

Guy 1: Hey dude, I heard your mom gave you a lap dance last night!

Guy 2: Yeah… it was kinda Unicorn Balls.

Guy 1: I get what you mean dude

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Hostful News Update:

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  • [Damon]: Every X-Men Ever

  • [Gary]: Adele Medley – Casual Cover – Ronan Scolard & Glenn Murphy Live in Dublin

  • [Gary]: Drinking Brita Filtered Beer, Vodka, Wine, Shame

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