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COL416: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this first part of a two-part series, the guys describe what consent is and when and how things can go wrong with it.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Farming
  • Damon: 91st BDay,  Poker and Old Friends
  • Chester: Lots of new music! Chainsmokers and Todrick Hall
  • Gary: SSDD on loop
  • Ches: FUCKING MOVING, but I still love my husband, CLAW
  • Ms. Tammy: Judging Contests, Leather Events, Mr. KY Leather, Mom and grandsons, Hammy
  • Ray: Finally taking some time from traveling
  • Brady: Travel!

Did I Do That?

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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COL394: Gay Card Movies

col394In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys get together to talk about movies. In particular, gay card movies. The cubs jump off a list posted by Brian Hill of 619bearcast of movies one should watch as a gay man and follow up with some “research” from Chester to determine some must-see gay movies. Did your favorites make the list? Which ones would you add?

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: A Good Thanksgiving
  • Damon: Back to Work…
  • Chester: Birth-giving, Trip to Columbus
  • Gary: So many movies



  • TankerTUBBS
  • Lovesexandhumor
  • 1jstjk
  • Batnisse

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • gay cardThe mythical figurative membership credential carried by gay men to commemorate the innate knowledge, ability, or sensibility with regard to any subject matter traditionally and generally considered to be the purview of gay men, such as show tunes, color coordination, fashion, hairstyling, interior decoration, or knowing whether any particular man in the vicinity is gay without requiring him to present his gay card.
    • I haven’t seen Rent yet and I can’t make quiche, so take away my gay card.

Weekly Topic

What are your Gay Card movies?

Facebook Post…
Brian Hill watching Mommie Dearest at PECS BAR.
November 22 at 10:55pm · San Diego, CA ·
Putting a list of required Gay Card viewing for youngsters who need schoolin’.

Care to add some???
(h/t to Alonso Duralde who already made a list of 101 in book form)

According to Chester’s poll:
64 Nominations
1st – The Birdcage (12 Votes)
2nd (tied) – Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, To Wong Foo (11 Votes)
3rd (tied) – Steel Magnolias, The Wizard of Oz (7 Votes)

  • After Stonewall
  • All About Eve
  • And the Band Played on
  • Auntie Mame
  • Beaches
  • Bear Cub
  • 20 Centimeters
  • Another Gay Movie
  • Beautiful Thing
  • Before Stonewall/After Stonewall
  • Big Eden
  • Boys Don’t Cry
  • Brokeback Mountain
  • Burlesque
  • But I’m a Cheerleader
  • Cabaret
  • Clueless
  • Connie & Carla
  • Drop Dead Gorgeous
  • Fight Club
  • First Wives Club
  • Fried Green Tomatoes
  • Frozen
  • Heathers
  • Hellbent
  • In & Out
  • Jeffrey
  • Kinky Boots
  • Latter Days
  • Mamma Mia!
  • Maurice
  • Mean Girls
  • Milk
  • Mommie Dearest
  • Moulin Rouge
  • Noah’s Ark
  • Paris Is Burning
  • Pink Flamingos
  • Polyester
  • Priscilla: Queen of the Desert
  • Querelle
  • Rebecca
  • Rent
  • Rocky Horror Picture Show
  • Some Like it Hot
  • Sordid Lives
  • Southern Baptist
  • Steel Magnolias
  • Strictly Ballroom
  • The Birdcage
  • The Boys In The Band
  • The Celluloid Closet
  • The Devil Wears Prada
  • The Ritz
  • The Skinny
  • The Wizard of Oz
  • The Women
  • To Wong Foo: Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar
  • Torchsong Trilogy
  • Trick
  • Victoria Victoria
  • Whatever Happened to Baby Jane
  • Xanadu
  • You Should Meet My Son

Cooldown Topics

I’ll Tumbl For You:


  • Jeff: A Slew of Windows 10 Apps
  • Chester: Pup Trash

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COL294: F***, F$%^, F*&$ity, F$#%: The Best of 2014!

COL294On this episode of Cubs Out Loud, with the new year dawning, the cubs reminisce on the year of 2014. We discuss what we liked as the best episodes, our favorites of COL, and also the highlights of our year. Laugh along with us as we reprise our favorite moments from the year.

What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – Christmas and lack of work
  • [Damon] – Compliments from Strangers and NYE Plans
  • [Gary] – NY Vaca


BU Comments for 293:

  • Johnny Sin

Gabe is the bald bearded one right?  So fuckin sexy

  • CypanArc

Eye glasses with beard. Perfect

FB Likes:

  • Bruiser Wolf Sussex
  • Keith Goshagar
  • Loren Pup Atlas Leonard
  • Matthew Temple
  • Tony Emling

Weekly Topic

Best of 2014 – recap episode: Cover all the usual categories, add a few fun others like best run, best trick, best thing to happen to you in 2014, etc.

COL Moments:

Favorite COL Topic of 2014:

  • [Jeff] – COL275: Power Hour 2 – Jeff’s Birthday Bash

Favorite Link/Pick/Tumblr of 2014:

  • [Gary] – COL244, Jan 12’14 [first episode of the new year] onfire40 comment: to our pick of him for Tumblr. “Cubs Out Loud. Very touched and flattered you guys thought I was hot. My name is Marc and I live in Montreal, Qc. That’s right. French Canadian bear! Lol. You guys totally rock. Gonna make a special pic just for you guys! Cheers boys! Xxxx” which resulted in the infamous underwear with our name on it pic.

Most Downloaded Episode of COL 2014:

Best Thing to Happen to You in 2014:

  • [Jeff] – My Raid Team
  • [Damon] – House Plans
  • [Gary] – Weddings: H/T, R/V

Best Trick:

  • [Jeff] – Mike
  • [Damon] – LA via Portland
  • [Gary] – Indy

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COLSP01: In Memoriam Robin Williams

RobinwilliamsIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the hosts reflect on how Robin Williams touched their lives. From his movies to his stand up, we laugh and cry and remember this amazing talent.

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