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COL626: LTAF: The White Stuff

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. In this episode, the guys focus on something thick, creamy and tasty to some…the wintertime favorite eggnog! Whether it’s spiced or spiked, listen in as the cubs pour a glass on this and other festive beverages for the holidays.

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Let’s Talk About Food: The White Stuff

As the winter season arrives here in the United States, a popular holiday drink rises to the top. But what do the hosts think of the infamous Egg Nog? What is it anyways? And are there other beverages at this time of year that deserve some love too?

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COL580: LTAS: Sides

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Let’s Talk About Sex!  The guys are joined by resident Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss “sides”. You know of tops, bottoms, and versatiles; but do you know about sides? Listen in as the cubs define this role in the MSM community and what it means in the sexual spectrum.

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Sides 

  • Definition?

Joe Kort developed the term in 2013 after not engaging in anal intercourse and feeling frustrated answering the “top or bottom” question.  “Can I be a side?”

A side is typically a man who has sex with another man (MSM) who does not engage in anal intercourse or penetration as it is not part of their erotic orientation.  Erotic orientation reflects your sexual fantasies, desires, and sexual behaviors.  

Self-labels (labels used to describe anal sex behaviors….or does it):

  • Top 
  • Bottom 
  • Versatile 
    • What if you don’t fit into any of those groups?  shame…guilt….FOMO…et al. 
  • Sides 

Articles:

Videos: Barry Birkholz

Book: Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment 

Podcast: Smart Sex, Smart Love: Episode 50 Side Guys

  • Awareness?
    • Side Guys Facebook Group  (currently 323 members)
    • Many different presentations of sides 
    • Sex is not just penetration 
    • Navigating conversations about being a “side” 
    • Inclusive language verse exclusive language 
  • Acceptance?

Backlash from gay community…

  • Interest?
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COL565: LTAS: Gloryhole Safety

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys bring you another Let’s Talk About Sex. This time, the cubs get “holier-than-thou” on gloryholes. In this time of pandemic, recent health organizations are promoting gloryholes as a potential safe means of sexual contact and lessening the risk of passing on the coronavirus. Listen in as the cubs dissect the potential of this safer sex habit and share some of their personal feelings on the usage of gloryholes. Is anonymous sex through a wall what gets them going?

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Let’s Talk About Sex – Gloryhole Safety

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COL562: What is… Pleasure?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys continue their “What is…” series with an episode on pleasure. So, what’s your pleasure? What’s my pleasure? Is it a pleasure to meet you or a pleasure to make your acquaintance? Is pleasure just sexual or are there multiple types of pleasure? Listen in as the cubs get to the pleasure principle and break it all down for you. Will this episode be pleasurable to you?

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What is… Pleasure?

Definition: noun a feeling of happy satisfaction and enjoyment. Adjective – used or intended for entertainment rather than business. Verb – give sexual enjoyment or satisfaction to.

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COL314: LTAK: Consent and Respect

consentIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by several guests (returning guests Ms. Tammy, Ches and Shutter as well as new guests Shelby and Stickpup!) in another Let’s Talk About Kink! This time around, we let some pups speak about the role they play in the community and move beyond that to the issues of consent and respect.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Avengers
  • Damon – It’s Official
  • Gary – Owwww…..

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Facebook Likes:

  • Adrian Valdez
  • Charles Key
  • Derek Martin Stark
  • Douglas Bridges
  • Jacob Osito
  • Rinaldo Bertucci
  • Rusty Young
  • Ünder Bear

Urbandictionary:

Pupsticle Course – The act of having to step over dogs sleeping on the floor in your or a friends home.

Mike: Butch come here a minute please, I need your help.
Butch: Coming.
Mike: What’s taking so long?
Butch: Sorry, I had to deal with a 3 dog pupsticle course.

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion: Consent and Respect.

Cooldown Topics

I’ll Tumbl For You:

Links:

  • [Jeff] – Atomas – iTunes – Google Play
  • [Gary] – 20 Facts About The Muppets (feat. The Muppets!) – mental_floss on YouTube – List Show (309)

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