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COLDR: AS7E03: Draguation Speeches & Total Ru-quest Live

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon commence with their opinions on the next episodes of All-Stars. As the legends reach the halfway point of the season, listen in as the guys totally digest the queens while they give inspirational speeches, take us back in time 20 years and present a thousand Dollys.

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 7 Wikipedia

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

  • [Damon] – Serve: Nostalgia Train, Swerve: Odd Challenge, Nerve: The Viv
  • [Gary] – Serve: Trinity the Train & Ross, Swerves: Veil..?, Nerve: Beads, Original Runways!

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Mrs Pelosi! / Monet’s Dolly  
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… friendly drama?
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Forced drama?
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… NEVER do that again
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COLDRAS: S2E07: Family That Drags Together

coldras-s2e7In this week’s episode of COL Drag Race T-Time, Gary, Damon and Chester breakdown this emotionally sickening show. As family come to the workroom, the drama kicks it into high gear just in time for the finale. Sistuhs these gurls are not, as it’s every queen for herself! Who becomes the rotten fruit on this family tree?

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 2 Episode 7

  • Maxi Challenge: Drag Family Vogueing
  • Runway/Main Stage: Drag Royal Family

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Makeovers….again
  • [Damon]: There’s a definite vibe…
  • [Chester]: Alyssa looks concerned

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: It’s the Emotional Challenge
  • [Damon]: Rising to the Challenge
  • [Chester]: Alaska wins! Power to the people?

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Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Stars Burn Out
  • [Damon]: Real family can matter
  • [Chester]: Katya should be VERY concerned

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Detox’s Vogue
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Alaska.
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Katya’s Mother
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Alaska’s trainwreck
  • [Chester]: Snaps for… The Moms!
  • [Chester]: Eyerolls for… Fuck RoLaskaTox?

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Krazy vs Rolaskatox
  • [Damon]: Who Do You Think Will Win?
  • [Chester]: Team Katya

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COL347: WYR1: Sex Edition

WYR_SexEdIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we introduce something new for the new year. We present to you: WOULD. YOU. RATHER?! And to start things off, let’s talk about sex. Listen in as the cubs make some choices about their sex life in a this vs that game show.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Other games
  • Damon – How to run an event
  • Gary – Cha-cha-changes

Did I Do That?

  • Gary – It lives!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • bitchplosion – An explosion of bitchiness; when someone/something pushes you so far that you just bitchplode

Dude… I was just joking and then she just had a massiv bitchplosion

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Would You Rather: Sex Edition

  1. Would you rather have sex with a guy in athletic gear or in a bondage outfit?
  2. Would you rather be in a relationship with a totally submissive partner or a totally dominant partner?
  3. Would you rather have sex with just one person watching, or would you rather have sex with 50 people watching?
  4. Would you rather pursue a life where you could only ever have sex with one partner in the same position in the same bedroom or have sex with a completely different person every time?
  5. Would you rather sleep with someone much older than you, or simply never have sex during your entire life time?
  6. Would you rather remain a virgin from now until marriage and have a spectacular sexual partner, or would you rather remain unmarried for the rest of your life and have a ton of great sexual partners who never love or commit to you?
  7. Would you rather only ever have sex in bed or only ever have sex outside the bedroom?
  8. Would you rather proposition a complete stranger for sex (one who was exceptionally attractive), and face the possibility of being rejected, or would you rather receive guaranteed sex from a very unattractive individual as many times as you wanted?
  9. Would you rather be blind and sleep with the most attractive men in the world as often as you wanted or would you rather have your vision and be the same person you are now?

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COL311: Summer Blockbuster Pre-release

COL311In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs take a look at the upcoming summer blockbusters of 2015 in a throwback to COL Movies. Listen in as we break down the movies, from superhero smackdowns to remake meltdowns, AND what we’re looking forward to; as well as what we could care less about and the in between.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – The Doctor and Yu-Gi-Oh
  • Damon – CMC and Broadway
  • Gary – Spring is here-ish

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Urbandictionary.com

Fairytailing :

When a group of straight men go out to gay clubs for the attention. Because they do not get it at straight clubs.

Weekly Topic

Discussion of the forth-coming summer movie season.

All movies listed on IMDB.com

Real or Fake 3D

Cooldown Topics

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  • [Jeff] Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice Trailer

  • [Damon] – Cell Block Tango – Broadway Backwards 2015

  • [Gary] – GALADRIEL vs LEIA: Princess Rap Battle (Whitney Avalon ft. Sara Erikson) *explicit*

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COL288: Let’s Talk About Kink – Protocols

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome back Ches and Matt to discuss the topic of protocols in a BDSM power exchange. From examples in their relationship, the cubs get to learn more about what protocols actually are and the benefits they serve the dom/sub relationship

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – Molten Corgi
  • [Damon] – Housebuying…meh
  • [Gary] – FOOD, FRIENDSHIP, and SNOW
  • [Ches] – Went to Makers Mark distillery with the huzbear yesterday; judged Mr. Crossings Leather last night – whip gone missing; getting excited for Midwest Bearfest
  • [Matt] – Too good for AT&T

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From Anthony:

I am in love with this podcast! You guys are super funny and give really good advice. As someone who is young and came out fairly recently you guys have really helped me be informed I never knew I should know about as a gay man. You’re like the gay dads I wish I had. I love you guys a lot, keep doing what you’re doing and I look forward to whats next. ;3

P.S. You guys should do more stuff with Gabe, Matt, and Hadrian. And more on the road stuff with Gary. Please and thank you!

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From Reggie S.

Great job!  I’m really a bit sad I listened to this in the car on my way to work this morning as there were so many things I wanted to write down and say here in the comments.  I still have about 20 minutes more to listen to but I figure why not get it all down while it’s still got that hot french fry feeling!  First of all, thank you for doing this show, you’re providing a great service.  Secondly, thanks for having fantastically educated guests who don’t pull punches but delivered digestible doses of truth and education on a topic I am still coming to understand myself.  I’m still new to my life as a sub; being a black man in the United States who has race play as one of his kinks has taken some getting use to. That being said, your guests made one point that resonated deeply with me and I wanted to thank them and the show for it… Function over Form.  There have been many situations in my life as a gay man where I have felt very “on the outside”. Sir has proven to me that, despite any outside disqualifications I may have to any given group, I do have things to offer. I wouldn’t be so bold as to speak for Sir but he has never denied me. I am his boy. Regardless of whatever preconceived notions I still have of my outside appearance or the validity of this relationship to others, he has never failed to make me feel like his and that has in many ways allowed me to feel what it is like “on the inside”.  Thanks again and keep up the great work.  😀

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Protocol

  • What is Protocol? [Definition, types, examples]
    • Rules, rituals, formalized behaviors
      • hard and fast rules
      • situational suspension of protocol
      • growth, progress and process
    • Immediate service-based protocol
    • Distance protocols
    • Examples
      • Speech/communication/signals
        • use of titles, names, modes of speech
          • interruptions
        • check-ins, reports, being “on call”
        • hand signals, gestures
        • reflection protocol – diary, blog, vlog, etc.
      • Clothing
        • by setting
        • prohibited/required items
      • Body position
        • presentation
        • movement in groups
      • Direct service
        • Sexual service
          • Chastity, orgasm control/denial
        • Situational behavior – social, public, private
      • Prohibited behaviors
      • Assigned tasks/programs of behavior
    • Creating/Implementing protocols in a power-exchange dynamic
      • purpose (narrow vs. broad)
        • personal development
        • communication purposes
        • expression of power imbalance
      • effectiveness (review, feedback)
        • periodic, contingency
      • changes to protocol
        • protocol stagnation, when protocol becomes habitual
      • pacing: too much, too little, too fast, too slow
  • What is it good for? (ie. What does everybody get out of it?)
    • What subs take away from protocols…
    • What Doms take away from protocols…
    • What outsiders take away from seeing the protocols of others…
  • What happens when protocol breaks down?
    • Keep it, fix it or scrap it?
    • Remember to focus on purpose and effectiveness at achieving that purpose

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