The recent denial of a stay in California’s Prop 8 case gets us talking about the quest for equality, while recent violence in DC gives us a reason to worry. We also get into a quick round-up of mobile bear sites…and…Neil Patrick Harris is having twins!
- Recent anti-gay violence shakes Washington D.C.
- Stay to keep Prop 8 alive denied! In effect 8/18, 1700 PDT Proponents do not adequately explain the basis for their belief that marriages performed absent a stay would suffer from a “cloud of uncertainty.”
- Proponents’ intervention in the district court does not provide them with standing to appeal.
- “The evidence presented at trial does not support proponents’ position on domestic partnerships; instead, the evidence showed that domestic partnership is an inadequate and discriminatory substitute for marriage.”
- Proponents claim that plaintiffs’ desire to marry is not “urgent,” because they chose not to marry in 2008. Whether plaintiffs choose to exercise their right to marry now is a matter that plaintiffs, and plaintiffs alone, have the right to decide.
- Proponents also point to the public interest as reflected in the votes of “the people of California” who do not want same-sex couples to marry, explaining that “[t]here is no basis for this Court to second-guess the people of California’s considered judgment of the public interest.” The Governor states that “[a]llowing the Court’s judgment to take effect serves the public interest” in “[u]pholding the rights and liberties guaranteed by the federal Constitution” and in “eradicating unlawful discrimination.”
- The evidence presented at trial and the position of the representatives of the State of California show that an injunction against enforcement of Proposition 8 is in the public’s interest. Accordingly, the court concludes that the public interest counsels against entry of the stay proponents seek.
- How long will it take for equality and are we willing to wait?
- Mobile bear sites. Is Scruff really needed?
- NPH is having twins!
- Kids are back in school already! – Griff
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We get a bit serious this week discussing the homosexual agenda, gay marriage, the Target boycott and discrimination by the bear community.
- Griff catches up from vacation.
- Long letter from FurryCajunCub
- I am 32, 5’10”, 150lb and hairy. I guess I would be considered and otter or a wolf or a cub depending on the term that people feel fits. I am not by any means a bear, but I identify with the premise of the bear community and I certainly love a hot bear…I guess you can call me a chaser.
- I have to say, after all these years in the bear community, I watched it transform from a very inclusive group that would accept just about anyone, to a more exclusive group that has its ideal look.
- Discusses experiences at bear runs
- In my opinion the issue is most gay men are not willing to strike up a conversation with someone they do not necessarily find sexually attractive. This issue is worse online than in person since it is considerably easier for someone to close a window or click the delete message button than to actually shun someone to their face.
- I tend to say hi to everyone. Again, try being a guy that does not fit the typical bear mold and see what kind of response you receive. You guys are a prime example of this, not that I love you any less because of it; I have tried chatting with Jeff, John-John (when he was on the show), and thegriff with little to no success….I am simply making an observation.
- Back before there were websites and people would talk to someone without ever knowing what they looked like, this was not an issue. I remember good old BBC and IRC groups where people would just talk to one another to form friendships.
- The bear community over the 13 years I have considered myself a member, has become allot more exclusive and has gained the twink mentality of shunning people. I think it is time we took a step back and remembered our roots.
- Email From Darnell
Hey Cubs Out Loud,
I have a topic for you guys and would love to hear your opinions on this…Moobs. Now if you don’t know what this is it slang for man boobs. Now as a stocky man myself I am a bit “heavy chested” so I have first hand experience with moobs. I have met guys who love to have their moobs played with and other who don’t. So here is my question, does a guy’s moobs equal a deal breaker or are you willing to hook up with a guy with moobs. Also if you have moobs do you enjoy having them played with? Just Curious….
Ok have a great show.
- Being w/out A/C for a week – Griff
- Anti-Karen Handel ads in Atl – Griff
- Shopska Salata – Tim
- Clear iSpot – Griff
- Pocket Informant HD (iTunes Link) for iPad – Griff
- Write-up from Biggercity – Griff
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- Looney Tunes are BACK! Go See Cats And Dogs to see the new ‘toon, now in 3d! – Jeff
Despite Jeff’s Bah-humbug feelings towards “The Evil Red Holiday”, Griff and JJ have different feelings about Valentine’s day. We discuss Gay Valentine’s Day cards, Google Buzz, John Mayer using the “F” word, Porn Addiction, the next Bearapalooza event and more!
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Hosts: Jeff, JJ, Tim, Griff
With the rampant Anti-Gay Marriage news, the Cubs and Griff discuss happenings from around the country, napkin rings and low cal treats. Be sure to join us live January 24th for our 100th episode!
- DC Judge rules against gay marriage referendum.
- NJ Senate defeats gay marriage bill.
- Rough sex leads to conviction
- No broadcast of Prop 8 trial – discuss.
- We have Brokeback Mountain, what else do we want?!
- It’s our 100th show next week!
- Griff’s on a Diet, you can help.
- Pat Robertson and Rush Limbaugh – Griff
- COL Pilot released exactly 2 years ago today – Thursday, January 17th, 2008