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COLDR: S13E13: Henny, I Shrunk the Drag Queens

April 6, 2021 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon reach into their hot pockets as the queens live their sci-fi fantasy in an acting challenge. The guys share their tiny thoughts and give pocketfuls of shade and tea. Which queens make it to the final lap as the top 4?

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COLDR S11E03: Diva Worship
- Michael Ewing: “If I were on Rajah’s team, I would choose Cher because of Chad Michaels, Madonna or Lady Gaga” & “RuPaul should’ve made them apologize to Mariah Carey for that performance”

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

13 Seasons – 166 Queens
Fan Wiki RPDRS13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – Acting Challenge Redux

[Damon] – You Gotta Take Risks
[Gary] – It’s About Growth

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Haute Pocket

[Damon] – What’s in the Pocket?
[Gary] – Glow Ups and a Week 1 Throwback

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

[Damon] – Snaps for… Rose’ Rising
[Gary] – Snaps for… Gottmik’s Revelation on Trans Barbie/Ken & Scarlett Johansson Married Colin Jost!!
[Damon] – Eyerolls for… Predictability
[Gary] – Eyerolls for… The Outcome, She’s Bound for All Stars

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COL551: Sex Needs vs COVID-19

April 28, 2020 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke of EAC Therapy and COL’s resident sex therapist. For this episode, the cubs acknowledge their thirst due to many states’ social distancing regulations during the COVID-19 pandemic. Because of this, we bring in the good doc to discuss the sexual needs during this crisis. We all have needs and need to find ways to address them safely.

Show Topic

COVID-19 isn’t going away. And now more than ever we’re facing challenges with having our sexual needs met. What’s a person to do?

This is an extended traumatic experience….which means that people are going to have traumatic reactions to this. Here are some common traumatic reactions and ways to address them sexually:

IMPORTANT: Our reactions to this may be different therefore we may have different sexual libidos during this time (that is normal).

Overview:

Trauma reactions and how to help
- Lack of predictability
  - Keeping and maintaining a schedule
- Immobility
  - Date nights
    - 24 Dates You Can Try at Home – Gottman Institute
  - The 36 Questions That Lead to Love – NewYork Times Article
- Numbing out
  - Sex can be an escape….be aware
  - Increased alcohol and drug use
  - Mindful masturbation
    - The Pleasure Chest – Mindful Maturbation Collection
    - Mindful Masturbation for Better Sex – YouTube Video

- Loss of time and time permanence
  - Schedule time with people
  - Scheduling sex
- Safety
- Loss of Connection
  - Intimacy
    - “Intimacy is knowing who you are and letting someone in on the secret”
  - Getting creative
    - Distance BDSM
    - Distance toys
      - 13 App-Controlled Sex Toys for Couples in Long Distance Relationships
COVID-19 safe sex
- Research
Sex needs are valid needs
- Physical touch and skin hunger “Pickle tubs”
- Five love languages-Britney Spears
  - 5 Love Languages as Britney Spears Lyrics – Elite Daily Article

The 5 Love Languages

- - - Physical Touch: my loneliness is killing me
    - Words of Affirmation: I must confess, I still believe
    - Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
    - Gift Giving: Give me a sign
    - Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time
  - 5 Love Languages Quizzes
Suggestions
- Communication and Love Maps – Gottman Love maps Apple app & Gootman Love Cards Google Play Store
- Masturbation
  - Mindful Masturbation for Better Sex -YouTube Video

- Phone Sex
- Video sex
Looking into the future
- Research is seeing a decrease in STI rates
  - Decrease access to testing sites
- Re-entry
  - Sexual risk taking

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COLDR: S10E11: Evil Twins

June 13, 2018 boxtech Leave a comment

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, it’s two…Two…Two Queens in one!! Our trio of cubbish hosts share their thoughts on the devious duo challenge. It’s good versus evil, so find out who gets the halo and who gets the horns.

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WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 10

Mini/Maxi/ Runway: Resting Brunch Face / Evil Twin Looks

[Chester] – Maxi challenge felt disconnected. Unclear objective? Bad editing?
[Damon] – Weird Mini, Personal Maxi
[Gary] – Just not enough

Snatched:

[Damon] – Kameron is FEELING it
[Gary] – Snubbing the celebrity?

Snaps / Eyerolls:

[Chester] – Snaps for… Kameron’s Looks.
[Chester] – Eyerolls for… Aquaria’s “nice” look.
[Damon] – Snaps for… Asia/North Korea
[Damon] – Eyerolls for… Aquaria’s “Win”
[Gary] – Snaps for… “She shakes her Ocelot” pun
[Gary] – Eyerolls for… Predictability

Last Call:

[Chester] – Meh.
[Damon] – Something is missing/Are we being forced?
[Gary] – Top Three or Top Four?

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COLDR: S8E5: Supermodel Snatch Game

April 15, 2016 boxtech Leave a comment

This show is so _____! That’s right, ladies and gents, it’s another episode of COLDR. The category is: SNATCH GAME!! Fill in the blanks as Gary and Damon discuss this iconic episode full of celebrity impersonations, several Madges, and other supermodels of the world.