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COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).

Show Topic

Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving

  • Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
  • Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
  • What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob?  You know that thing…

The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward

Consent 

  • “An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
  • Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.  
  • Consent is about both parties getting what they want
  • Consent Tea Video 

Asking 

    • Asking leads to intimacy

Receiving 

  • Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
  • How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
  • Show appreciation 
  • Room for improvement 
  • Show appreciation again
  • Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)

NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles

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COL392: LTAK: Cupping

col392In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around, the guys are joined by Pup Dozor to talk about cupping. Seen recently at the Summer Olympics for therapeutic reasons, the cubs talk about the more sensual side of this form of temperature play.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Joys of Napping
  • Damon: Early Holiday Party
  • Chester: MME (Mr. Minneapolis Eagle 2017)
  • Gary: Food Show Coma
  • Dozor: Pre bday pie-hole stuffing

Feedback:

Facebook Likes:

  • Paul Jennings
  • Marty Gabriel

Facebook Comments:

  • Dan McCord, “Happy Birthday, Gary!”
  • Paul Jennings: I have to meet Damon!

Twitter Followers:

Tumblr:

  • xcubbyxbearx: “Thanks for the reblog! Been listening to you boys for quite some time… At least 7 years :)”  
  • Gemini: “What is the most embarrassing story you have about somebody else on the podcast? :)”

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • cupping season: The seasons of Fall and Winter, during which vast amounts of people, who are otherwise content with being single, elect to settle down with a significant other. A “couple” is formed, giving rise to the term “cupping”.
    • “Ashley and Becky just got boyfriends, I thought they were loving the “single life”… “
    • “Yeah, but it is cupping season, after all”

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Cupping

  1. Quick Vocabulary on Types
    1. “Cupping”: to use a suction device on body parts; commonly glass cups which are done with suction or fire
    2. “Temperature Play”: a form of BDSM sensual play where objects and substances are used to stimulate the body’s neuroreceptors for heat and cold for sensual effect
    3. “Fire/Traditional Cupping” vs “Vacuum Cupping”
  2. How the Olympics brought it into homes around the nation, possibly the world
  3. How do ‘cup’ participants find each other?
  4. Social Dynamics
  5. Preparation/Tips/Hints

Cooldown Topics

I’ll Tumbl For You:

Links:

  • Jeff: TableTop Season 4!

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