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COL679: 15 Years and Counting

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs celebrate the show’s 15th anniversary! Many years ago, our producer, Jeff, got the itch to create a podcast and invited his friends to join him. Fifteen years, two generations of hosts, several guests and 100s of episodes later, COL is still going strong. Listen as the guys reminisce about the past and ponder the future.

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15 Years and Counting

Many moons ago, a cub had an idea to get some people together and record their thoughts on dang near everything and anything. They called it Cubs Out Loud. Since then, 678 sequential episodes have been produced, two generations of hosts, thousands of hours for listening/watching guys yammering, and over 450 videos on YouTube. It’s been a wild ride for a decade and half. What comes next? Hell if we know!

 

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COL662: Jeff’s Decade of Delirious Birthdays

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s Jeff’s Birthday (well almost). As the cubs gather to celebrate Jeff reaching the ultimate question of life, the universe and everything, listen in as they share the fun with Lloyd, Grey and Oan! From bingo to trivia to some naughty this or that, the guys have some hilarious shenanigans to commemorate Jeff’s next turn around the sun.

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If you’re interested in our Jingle Jingle Bingo virtual game, below are some details/links to play the same game online. The website myfreebingocards.com allows you to create virtual games with certain limitations but upgrade options for a cost. 

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Share the Virtual Link below with up to 30 friends. They can play virtual bingo on any device or print out their bingo card.

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COL636: LoR: Love Languages

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

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Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

  1. Words of Affirmation 
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service 
  4. Gifts
  5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

  • Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
  • Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
  • Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
  • Give Giving: Give me a sign
  • Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

  • Infodumping
  • Parallel Play
  • Support Swapping
  • Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
  • “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

BDSM and Love Languages  

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COL585: ATNS: LGBTQ Being Messy

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another All T, No Shade show. This time, the cubs spill the tea on some of the messes in recent weeks among the LGBTQ+ community. From partying during a pandemic to thirsting after terrorists, the guys spare no amount of shade and give their honest opinions about their feelings on this misbehavior.

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From circuit parties, secret orgies, to Puerto Vallarta New Years fallout. What do we think of the ‘misbehavior’ by members of our very own community? How much criticism is fair? Can we do better? 

History teaches us. One example is the ‘First they came…’ poem from the Holocaust.

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COL579: What’s Going On – November 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. This month, the guys give thanks for more work, WoW droppings, and, of course, FOOD. Listen in as the cubs quickly catch you up on their goings-on for the 11th month of the year.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: D&D and Shadowlands
  • Damon: Virtual Chorus and FOOD
  • Gary: More relaxation, more work?

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Facebook Likes:

  • Alejandro Ocasio
  • Larry Okeke

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Spiketheslayer6

YouTube Comment:

  • COL578: What is…Gratitude? By Bobby Miller: Sorry I missed the live show. Happy Thanksgiving guys
  • COL577: LTAF: Thanksgiving By Oan R.: “It’s ‘you don’t have to go home, buy you can’t stay here.’”

Twitter Followers

  • @hereroundhouse
  • @California_JimB
  • @jona17768405
  • @twinkbelly
  • @bearwww

Twitter Comment:

  • @acruz197421: @cubsoutloud just finished listening to episode 573, and it brought back so many memories. There are so many good ones as well as numerous bad ones, but they all made me who I am today, #proudgaybear

Recent Shows:

  • COL575: WGO: October 2020
  • FB390: Our Historic 2016 Election
  • COL576: Our Historic 2020 Election
  • COL577: LTAF: Thanksgiving
  • COL578: What is. . .Gratitude?

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https://twitter.com/bearberly/status/1329387714895097858?s=20

https://twitter.com/boycubwonder/status/1330959455148789778

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