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COL705: WGO: July 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of July. As Summer heats up, the cubs get hot & bothered with concerts and home and work drama. It’s been quite the month for the guys, so get caught up with them.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Collateral Damage
  • Damon: House(s) Drama / Announcement
  • Gary: P!NK and downtime

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  • Sesar Cadavedo
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Patreon Updates

  • Shoutout to Daniel C who joined us 8/1/22 last year, happy one year anniversary!
  • Round of applause and belly rubs to David T. who joined us 7/10/18, congrats on supporting us for over five years!!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
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    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL700: WGO: June ‘23
  • COL701: LTAS: Mpox 2023 Updates
  • COL702: LoR: Sex After 50
  • COL703: LTAF: State Fairs ’23 – Part 1
  • COL704: LTAF: State Fairs ’23 – Part 2

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COL689: WGO: March 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of March. As Spring begins, listen in as the cubs refresh us on their goings-on. With the first quarter of the year closing, the guys are busy as bees. But with all that buzz, they wonder where has the time gone.

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  • @pandabearx67
  • @cubby_shawn1999
  • @kkoidsy
  • @goodboyx10

Facebook Follows & Likes:

  • Jeff Jack
  • Roy Lewis
  • Holly Boy
  • Calvin Mayshack
  • Stephen Flanigan
  • Baddo Rajpoot
  • Tony Anthion
  • Evan Dame
  • Chris Edward
  • Aidan P Mohahan

Patreon Updates

  • Happy FIVE Year Anniversary to Ubher patron Q on March 14th! 
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL686: WGO: February 2023
  • COL687: LTA…Aging
  • COL688: LoR: Sexual Desire
  • About last week… COL689: LTA… LGBTQIA Modeling

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COL643: LTAF: Childhood Cereals

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. This time around, the cubs get nostalgic and reminisce about the sugary sweet cereals from their childhood. From Saturday morning cartoons to binging on a familiar flavor, listen in as the guys bowl you over with their flaky crunchy faves.

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Let’s Talk About Food: Childhood Cereals

Yo Yum is a Yuk for Me [something you disliked that is/was popular]:

Wish You Could Have Again [discontinued, no longer available]:

Still Enjoy Today [have when the nostalgia strikes]:

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COL641: ATNS: The Disney Conundrum

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another All T, No Shade show. For this episode, the guys debate regarding the recent news regarding Disney and its original silence then missteps regarding the “Don’t Say Gay” Bill in Florida, due to be signed into law in July 2022. As a beloved international corporation, what happens when it steps into a pile of political crap? Can and should the LGBTQ+ community continue to support their business when they once again reveal they are not as supportive back? Can the House of Mouse fix their LGBTQ+ problem? The cubs share their thoughts and opinions on this and more in this heated discussion.

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ATNS: The Disney Conundrum

The challenge of when an international corporation with multiple loved IPs steps into a pile of political crap. Can the House of Mouse fix their LGBTQ+ problem? Can we support the land where dreams come true when villains threaten to destroy the world we live actually in?

 

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COL628: LoR: In-Laws

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. For this episode, the guys discuss the often dreaded in-laws. As media seems to make it seem that most straight couples have to deal with their in-laws and spouse’s families, the cubs review how this translates into the relationships of the LGBTQ+ community. Are they really that different or can similar tactics, communication and boundaries help ease the potential tension?

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Landscape of Relationships: In-Laws

Lots of research and media about how in-law relationships are really difficult.  That may be the case as some research out there says 3 out of 4 couples have difficult relationships with heterosexual in-laws.  Is that the case with same-sex relationships? 

Meeting the In-Laws

  1. Every family is different with a different rulebook that has been in creation for possibly generations.
  2. Possibility for conflictual interactions, difficult pasts, and crunchy presents.
  3. BOUNDARIES!!!!!
    1. Know your values
    2. Stay true to you.
  4. Brene Brown’s BRAVING…specifically the Generosity part.  
    1. Keep those conflict skills in check.

LGBT in-laws (2019) 400 interviews from children in law who identified as gay or lesbian.  Describe relationship with same sex in law parent.

  1. Many of those interviewed struggled with acceptance by one or both of their parents-in-law.
  2. Relationships usually improved with time
  3. While parents-in-law became increasingly accepting, there was often someone else in the family who was not accepting
  4. Acceptance by the mothers-in-law, according to the daughters-in-law, came as more of their friends and social circle either had children who were lesbian or gay, or their friends and social circle became more socially aware.
  5. Feelings of ambivalence toward family members are typical.

Be the subject of your life, not the object.  

  • You become an adult child the moment you set boundaries with your family (and in-laws).
  • What do YOU want to do with your partner in relation to each other’s families?
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