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COL732: WGO: February 2024

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. As winter draws to a close and love is in the air, listen in as the cubs talk about bear runs and going up, down and back again for more. The guys bring you up to speed as they continue their training on the skills.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Once and Future Trainer
  • Damon: NABW 2024 / 20 V-Days
  • Gary: Up, Down, and Back Again

CDC Adult Vaccination Schedule online PDF

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Patreon Updates

  • Happy 6 Year Anniversary to Cubster level Patron Charles! They joined 3/4/18 and we thank them for six years of dedication and support.
  • Happy 2 Year Anniversary to Buddy level Patron Michael! They joined 02/11/22 and we thank them for their continuous support. 
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, and Michael Q
    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL728: WGO: January ‘24
  • COL729: LTA… The Love Bug
  • COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance
  • COL731: Bears in the Future

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COL702: LoR: Sex After 50

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke is back to broach the topic of sex after 50. As one of the hosts is approaching this milestone, Ed addresses and discusses the potential changes to one’s sex drive as they cross that age. From sexual health to sexual desire, listen as the guys boil down what you need to be aware of as you cross over that hill.

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Landscape of Relationships: Sex After 50

Welcome to Your 50s!

Lots of people have healthy and active sexual lives at all stages of life. That being said, here are some aspects of your sexuality that MIGHT change.  

Sexual Health 

  • “The World Health Organization defines sexual health as a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence.”
  • Regular doctors visits; talk to your doctor about your sexual health; bring a list of questions/comments/concerns helps
  • Colonoscopy and prostate cancer screenings
  • Maintain activity levels 

Sexual Desire

  • We aren’t 16 anymore 
  • Medical conditions, lifestyle, mood, hormone levels, medication
  • Spontaneous vs responsive desire 
  • Possible adapt a sexual willingness mindframe

Erectile Dysfunction 

  • Age doesn’t cause ED, but natural aging and illness can impact sexual response
  • ED is a biopsychosocial phenomenon with biological, physical, psychological, behavioral, emotional, and cognitive factors AS WELL AS identity, relationally (interpersonal and socially),  and intimate factors.  
  • Erections are not required for ejaculations or orgasms
  • Talk to your provider.  Again, talk to your provider. 
  • Medication and treatment options

Communication

  • ”Adult sex is interpersonal” – McCarthy and Metz
  • Maintaining sexual intimacy is key; adapting a flexible sexual relationship 
  • Creating 

So remember, 

  • Your sexual experience MAY change as you gets older 

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COL687: LTA… Aging

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About… For this episode the topic is…ummm…aging! While they may refer to themselves as cubs, the hosts have definitely gotten older over time. And with that passage of time, things have also changed for them physically, mentally and beyond. With Gary reaching a milestone birthday later this year, what are some of the new experiences the guys have had in recent years and are there any lessons of wisdom that others could learn? What might younger members of the community have in store for their future? Listen in as these old gays–I mean cubs–wax nostalgia about getting older, but wiser.

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LTA… Aging

While we may refer to ourselves as cubs, it’s been a bit o’time since COL got started. And with that passage of time, things have also changed for us physically and beyond. As Gary leads the pack in reaching a new milestone birthday later this year, what are some of the new experiences we’ve had in recent years? Are there any lessons of wisdom that others could learn from? What might younger members of the community have in store for their future?

 

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COL653: WGO: June 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of June. As Pride Month comes to a close, the guys colorfully express their goings-on. From celebrating pride at home to hitting the festivals and parades, the cubs are learning just how aged they have become.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  WFH, Hybrid, and Internet Issues
  • Damon: Pride Concert/Pride Festival/Heated! 
  • Gary:  Pride, Pride, and Work

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  • Ben Magsino
  • Farhane Mohamed
  • Peter Jenney
  • Navid Salar
  • Marc Whitley
  • Abdoul Aziz Diop
  • Dobos Zsolt
  • K Raymark Theus
  • David Olney
  • Wyatt Sanders
  • Kay Da Bear
  • Tony Ireland
  • Axel Sanden

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • COL651: LTAS: Internet Security – Tony B: “Adorkable? I resemble that comment!”
  • Gabe Horner liked – COLDR: AS7E02: The Realness of Fortune Ball & Fairy Tale Justice 
  • Paul Lanner loved our post – “Hey all! Previous guest Paul Lanner has an event coming up soon and would love to see you there. Check out the info below and head to https://www.hahtheevent.com/ for more information about attending.”

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  • @bitterbearsf
  • @beardybearz
  • @Sean78546421
  • @TransBuildABear
  • @zul_eden

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons! 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. 
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V, and Zack B.

Recent Shows

  • COL650: WGO: May 2022
  • COL651: LTAS: Internet Security
  • COL652: ATNS: Pride in 2022

Reminders: previous guest Paul Lanner has an event coming up soon and would love to see you there. Visit HAH The Event.com for info for support and attending.

Previous guest Joshua Pangborn from SideKick Productions has a new project underway with their film “A Taste of Youth” where a fundraising campaign has been launched with Indiegogo. Consider supporting Queer Horror and Fat Positivity content by visiting A Taste of Youth.com to see how you can help make this horror feature happen.

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COL587: Happy 13th!

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs celebrate the show’s 13th Anniversary! About 13 years ago, a cub named Jeff got some friends together and started this whole shenanigan. Thirteen years later, the show’s still truckin’. Listen in as the guys reminisce on the show’s history and their own grow-ups over the past 13 years.

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In 2008 a little podcast started up and 13 years later, here we are. 

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