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COL621: LoR: Creating Your Party

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, we are talking about Creating Your Party. Just like in multi-player gaming, real life can have better outcomes when we select a team of skilled people by our side.

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Landscape of Relationships: Creating Your Party

Charlie T 

“How about parental/in-law relationships? Times where lines were crossed (and boundaries should’ve been set), or picking chosen family that’s actually healthy for you (vs just spoiling yourself)? (honestly I’m out of ideas)”

Tommy H

“Maybe about when it’s time to end a long relationship. Some early advice I got was not to talk about breaking up or divorcing until you were actually ready to do it”

Social Capital 

Pierre Bourdieu (French Sociologist)

Social capital is the sum of the resources, actual or virtual, that accrue to an individual or a group by virtue of possessing a durable network of more or less institutionalized relationships of mutual acquaintance and recognition. 

Robert Putman, political scientist, defined social capital as “Connections among individuals — social networks and the norms of reciprocity and trustworthiness that arise from them.” 

Queer Social Capital and Chosen Families 

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COL575: What’s Going On – October 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of October. This month, the guys celebrate Damon’s birthday while also keeping up with their regular to-dos, with some interesting challenges here and there. All this plus some helpful advice on backing up files, Japanese imports, and computer game nostalgia. We’re only two months away to 2021 folks. Find out if you’re ready.

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  • Jeff: New Opportunity, and a staycation.  
  • Damon: Chorus and Birthday 
  • Gary: Self-Murder isn’t illegal, is it?

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  • COL573: What is…NCOD? By Rangersking669: The nba does a whole bunch of pride campaigns and offer basketball clinics they just don’t make NCOD videos. For example they did one with Reggie bullock and Jason collins recently. The other thing to consider with sexuality is that non binary folx factor into all this too and that can make things more complicated.
  • COL573: What is…NCOD? By TheNaishproductions: Bi now, Gay later, lol brilliant. Great show, lots of big emotions. 

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  • COL572: WGO: September 2020
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COL573: What is… NCOD?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present another “What is…” show. For this episode, the cubs talk about National Coming Out Day, celebrating its 32nd anniversary on October 11th. Listen in as the guys break down the doors of what this special day is all about and how much progress has been made since for the LGBTQ+ community.

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What is…NCOD? – National Coming Out Day

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COL437: Old School Bears Online

On this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by a robed Hadrian to talk about the good ole days of bears online. From sneaking onto erotic newsgroups to the dating apps of today, the cubs take a nostalgic trip through the history of a bear’s online life.  Plus we go on a bit of a tangent about supporting bear services and content.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Usual
  • Chester: Driving for Ubear Eats
  • Gary: one of those weeks
  • Hadrian: Work and Western Exposure

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  • Paul Allen Hobby: RE:COL436: Smokin in the Bear’s Dean: Love this episode. I smoke pipes, cigars, and cigarettes and will absolutely say cigars and pipes are for taste, smell, relaxation, and socializing, cigarettes are pure compulsion.

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Dating Sites of Yore:

  • Bearnet.net
  • Bearbook/Bruizr
  • BearCiti
  • Gay.com “Bear Room”
  • Newsgroups

Dating Sites of Current:

  • Bear411
  • BearWWW
  • BearForest
  • Squirt

Dating Sites that appear to be Rolling with the Times:

  • BiggerCity
  • Chasabl/Grommr
  • HeftyNet
  • BearUnderground

Modernization of Bears Online:

  • Facebook Groups

Dating Apps

  • GROWLr
  • Scruff

Cruising Apps

  • (defunct) Mobli
  • W Bear
  • Instagram

Porn-esque

  • Tumblr

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COL334: I’m Comin’ Out

COL334In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we celebrate National Coming Out Day! To honor the day, we share our insights on coming out and also provide some terminology that will give you LIFE!

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Nothing
  • Damon – Cold Snaps Suck!
  • Gary – Fall Is Here and Kilts!

Urbandictionary with Gary

NCOD – abbreviation of national coming out day

i can’t wait till NCOD so i can tell my family i’m gay

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