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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
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    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S9E11: Gayest Ball Ever

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, who’s ready for a big gay ball? Gary and Damon welcome back Brady to kick some drag balls around. From colorful rainbows and fierce unicorns to a throwback to the YMCA, the gays roll through the fantastical runway looks of the Top 5. Who prances to the top and who ends up getting kicked in the…well, you know?

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 11

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Welcome to the Gay Pride episode…?
  • [Damon] – The SHADE of it ALL!!
  • [Brady] – Colorful, yet fun!

Runway Category Bests:

Rainbow She Better Do

  • [Brady] – Shea!
  • [Gary] – Sasha Velour
  • [Damon] – Trinity

Sexy Unicorn

  • [Brady] – WTF Trinity.
  • [Gary] – Sasha Velour
  • [Damon] – Sasha Velour

Village People Eleganza Extravaganza

  • [Brady] – Shea!
  • [Gary] – Shea Coulee
  • [Damon] – Trinity

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – *rolls eyes* Really, Alexis?
  • [Brady] – No fighting!?
  • [Gary] – Predictable and yet Fashion vs Rules?

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Brady] – They finally made the RIGHT choice.
  • [Gary] – And the pressure increases
  • [Damon] – Bring Your Best

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Sasha’s Rainbow Reveal
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Shea’s ‘Rainbow’ Graffiti & Peppermints Village Highlighter
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Carson’s joke on Sasha’s Unicorn/Joan Small’s read on Alexis
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Sasha’s direction
  • [Brady] – Snaps for… RuPaul!
  • [Brady] – Eyerolls for… Peppermint. KNOW YOUR COMMUNITIES!

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – We’re near the end and I’m ready for finale
  • [Brady] – My prediction was right!
  • [Gary] – Quite possibly there’s a dead heat for Top 2

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COLDR: S9E03 & S9E04: Good Morning, Princesses!

It’s T time again, bitches! Chester, Gary, and Damon wake up to dish on the naughty going ons as they catch up on RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9. The guys “struggle” through  some pretty princesses, some talk show hijinks and some revealing negligee. Which princesses will say good night?

Weekly Topic

We’re back and it’s a new season. Let’s discuss.

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episodes 3 & 4

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Talent Lacking Princesses to Snoozy Bedroom Attire
  • [Damon] – What’s with all the Valentina hate?
  • [Chester] –  Competition is showing its colors

Thoughts on These Episodes:

  • [Gary] – Personalities Come Forward
  • [Damon] – Creativity and Improv/Script, plus I’m going to say it again…
  • [Chester] – Where’s mini-challenge, walkth-Ru?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Kai kais, Speeches, & Disrespect
  • [Damon] – Perspective is Important
  • [Chester] – No alliances, but definite clashing of minds

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary] – Trinity is here to win & Is Aja growing?
  • [Damon] – Loving the Judges
  • [Chester] – Top contenders starting to emerge

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… CuCu IS Explained! & Queens Being Lovingly Real
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Attitude, Attitude, Attitude
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Sasha & Shea in “Good Morning Bitches”
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Kimora’s “struggle”/Charlie
  • [Chester] –  Snaps for… Trinity, may I call your ass Jiggly?
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Queens who don’t do ______

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – There’s a dark horse in the race
  • [Damon] – Are you safe or are you coasting?
  • [Chester] – Keeping a close eye on Trinity and Aja. T on Charlie

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COL361: Hey, What’s Going On?

COL361In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs get back together after a couple of weeks apart and talk about..well, what they have been up to. From jobs and work to taxes and cars, listen in the guys bring us up to speed on their lives.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Pokemon
  • Damon: Saw some theater
  • Gary: Recovery mode engaged

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COL359: LTAS: Food

  • Chester Beltowski‎: Just listening to the latest episode (359:Food) and all I’m thinking about is video… By the way, please tell me Uncle Pete will be on future shows, he’s effing hilarious. 

  • Randall Stratton I agree Uncle Pete was very funny and the show was good

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  • Petronelus is now following 
  • Chris Ransdell: I hope I like the book because it comes in this week!

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  • RJ – Great episode guys…but I must side with Gary Snyder on this one I’d be wondering how the hell to get things out of the sheets to enjoy, but great topic..huge hugs guys

Urbandictionary with Gary

  • hulu and handjobsLike netflix and chill, and amazon and anal but with more sexual activity.

Sharkisha: Wanna come over for netflix and chill tonight?

Quan: Nah..

Skarkisha: How bout some Amazon and Anal?

Quan : No sorry

Skarkisha: Fine maybe some hulu and handjobs?

Quan: Yes of course!

Weekly Topic

WTHB – What the heck bitches

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S8E5: Supermodel Snatch Game

COLDRS8-Ep5This show is so _____! That’s right, ladies and gents, it’s another episode of COLDR. The category is: SNATCH GAME!! Fill in the blanks as Gary and Damon discuss this iconic episode full of celebrity impersonations, several Madges, and other supermodels of the world.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 5

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Bummed
  • [Damon]: What’s with the drama, Derrick?

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: All Bob, All the Time
  • [Damon]: Showboating?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Robbie gets real with Naomi
  • [Damon]: Starts slow/The “Freaks” as AB puts it

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: NY Trio Now a Duo
  • [Damon]: Be Original/GWYG

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Chi Chi’s ingenuity
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Betty’s exit
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Derrick sticking to what she knows/Thorgy’s MJ
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Naomi’s not funny

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Naomi better watch out
  • [Damon]: Bob needs to be careful

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