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COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke returns and this time we discuss tolerating versus accepting behaviors in our relationships. Do we let the annoying Aunt Ida in?

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Landscape of Relationships: Tolerance vs Acceptance

What is tolerance?

  • Tolerance is the state of “putting up with something without directly opposing it.”  It brings up ideas of enduring or allowing certain behaviors.  But it doesn’t mean embracing or supporting these behaviors or actions.
  • It’s a head thing

What is acceptance?

  • Acceptance is the state of opening yourself up completely to a situation, not how your mind sees it.  Acknowledging the reality of a situation without the need to change it or resist it.  Being open to differences and embracing them through love and compassion.
  • It’s a heart thing

Tolerance 

  • It involves the suppression of difficult emotions.  Can lead to feelings of resentment and anger due to lack of acceptance or understanding.

Acceptance 

  • This process can lead to feelings of love, compassion, and empathy.  The more that we feel connected to someone the deeper our understanding is.  

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DRAIN

  • Disconnect
  • Reactivity
  • Avoidance
  • Inside your mind
  • Neglecting Values

LOVE

  • Letting go
  • Opening up
  • Values 
  • Engage 

“Annoying Aunt Ida”

  • Acknowledge 
  • Allow
  • Accommodate
  • Appreciate
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COL642: What’s Going On – March 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of March. The cubs are a little late this month, but with the ever changing weather and downright procrastination, who could blame them? From D&D to ONYX, listen in as the guys bring you up to speed on the first month of spring.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Procrastination to RTO
  • Damon: D&D & ONYX
  • Gary: Yet again, unpredictable weather

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  • COL639: LTAF: The Bacon Episode: Bobby Miller – “Ha Guys. Great subject BACON!!!!!” “Bacon favor Lube (NO !!!!)”
  • COL640: LoR: Chosen Family: dindin mooshi – “chosen Family is a privileged concept. I think of as a (remote) support group based on choice, circumstance, and shared interests, it is very difficult to make one, and sustain it. This a very difficult subject as people don’t know how to value family, friends, acquaintances, etc..”

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Patreon Updates

  • Welcome our newest Patrons, Michael Vaughn & Zack Baker who joined us at the Buddy level in February!
  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons! 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. 
    • Ubehrs: Dave T., Li, Michael Q, and Tim S.
    • plus our Buddies: Lloyd G., Michael V, and Zack B.
  • Michael Q joined Patreon 3/14/18, as our second Patron four years ago.

Recent Shows

  • COL637: WGO: February 2022
  • COL638: EARN IT Act 2022
  • COL639: LTAF: The Bacon Episode
  • COL640: LoR: Chosen Family
  • COL641: ATNS: The Disney Conundrum

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COL489: What is Dating?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Damon’s away testing the limits of his singing range while Jeff and Gary chat about dating. From the early days of the internet to the modern swipe app tech, they discuss how much technology plays a factor in dating vs hookups. Do dates require a romantic factor? Is it possible to long distant date? Listen in to see if you agree with their answers.

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What is Dating?

  • How do we define it?
  • How has it changed?
  • Are there expectations?
  • Has technology changed it forever?

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COL455: Title Competing

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by Aaron Hudd, Mr. North American Muscle Bear 2017, to talk about title competition. In light of our recent NAB conversations and confusion about the running, the cubs invited Aaron on to discuss the rules, judging, and other aspects of not only NAB Weekend, but other contests and competitions.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Night Attack and Light
  • Damon: Best Laid Plans/Celebration of Life
  • Gary: Now onto DF
  • Aaron: unpacking from NAB/Wedding/EPA Audit

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Title Competitions

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COL436: Smokin’ in the Bears Den

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are without Gary, but are joined by Ches and Tony aka cubziz. The guys pull out their pipes and take some good long draws on the topic of smoking. From cigars and pipes to smoke and ash play, breathe in all the knowledge as these aficionados show the cubs how it’s done. So, cut off your tips and light them up.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Washing clothes is better when you can be nekkid
  • Damon: Stingerfest
  • Chester: Dog problems, lots of gaming, Mask or Raid,
  • Ches: GLLA Bootblack Judge, Leather History, and FLEAS!!
  • Tony: Just started cpap this week. Avoiding Facebook.

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‘Bears that Smoke’ cigars and pipes tabacco recreationally, and for kink/scene play.

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