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COL419: This Is The Way We Genetically Role

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by our SCIENCE expert, Mr. (soon to be Dr.) Cisco, to talk about a recent Jezebel article indicating that you may be  born a bottom? Cisco breaks down the facts and figures and gives the guys the bottom line. Also, Chester is on assignment drinking around the world.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Diabloing
  • Damon: CMC/Being Low Key
  • Gary: The challenge of PRIDE
  • Cisco: “Job” at UTHSC in Memphis, I am a US resident, visiting hometown after 6.5 years, new furry baby, about to finish internship and become a doctor, still no balloon ride.

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  • Xavier Champion

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  • larstul744

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  • Hit Me Baby One More Time!

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Discussion of a recent study about genetics/biology and our sexual role.

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COL360: Bear Perception

File_000In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by the ever interesting Hadrian McQuiag to discuss how we perceive ourselves in the bear community and beyond. From two articles, we springboard into self-identification and our perception from others. What labels do we self-identify with and what does that mean to ourselves and those around us? And where will this take us as we move forward into the mainstream?

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Hearthstoned
  • Damon:  What  Are You Doing, Weather?/Contest of Champions,
  • Gary: Spring Break Fever
  • Hadrian: Mannequin Party

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Google +: Chris Ransdell 

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  • gingercubguy: You make me blush I’m just a normal ginger cub

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From: Ryan Coulson: Re: Game Streaming

Hey guys,

YES!

Love the show though

Ryan

Ps. If you wanted to stream WoW I’d definitely watch that too.

Urbandictionary with Gary:

Electric HammerWhen you touch someone or something with your erect penis and it releases static electricity.

I accidentally gave my spouse the electric hammer and now I can only pleasure them after rubbing my stocking feet against a carpeted floor.

Weekly Topic

Can a bear see the trees for the forest if he defines his surroundings?

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COL298: Hostful News Updates

COL298In this episode Cubs Out Loud, we bring you special news bulletins. It’s just the hosts this time around and we share a sampling of recent articles we found online. From boner fitness and butt loving to the potential dangers of poppers, the cubs give their insights and opinions to these hot topics. These headlines and more on COL298.

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Episode COL 297- Sounds of Sex:

  • Jon Fritch

Heh. I really hate talking in porn – can be insanely cliche and annoying. I much prefer growling and deep moaning – trying to sound like a real bear.

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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

Weekly Topic

BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

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  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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COL228: “A-List” Bears, Fact or Fiction?

the-a-list-attOn this weeks COL, the guys join together to discuss this thing called “A-List” Bears, which is perhaps more about labeling, or ‘Plastics’. Listen in as we discuss if this is important, or if we even care.

What’s Going On?

  • [Damon] – Drag Battle with Friends
  • [Gary] – Being Lazy Is Okay-ish

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  • BU: BearBoyCJ, mccallacub
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Ches: Awww. You guys… No apologies needed. All is well. ;^)
Cubs Out Loud But what if we want to get on knees and beg forgiveness?
Ches Clark Mmmmm… That will also be acceptable. I certainly offer penance and reconciliation mechanisms for those who desire or require them. >;^)
Cubs Out Loud I vote Jeff to serve penance.

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kabutocub: Holy crap! The guys from CubsOutLoud talked about me and Clif in one of their podcasts! ^_^ (it happens at the 38:22 mark)

Weekly Topic – [Damon] A-List Bears: Fact or Fiction? – Is there really such a thing as “A-List Bears” or is it just a state of mind?

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