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COL501: LTAS: Bathhouse Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by the multi-talented Daddy Hadrian for another Let’s Talk About Sex. In a follow up on previous episodes, today’s show is all about bathhouse etiquette: some spoken and unspoken rules, and tips and tricks to follow while engaging in the cruisy atmosphere of the gay bathhouse. Learn how to be a prepared bear before, during, and after you put that towel around your waist.

Show Topic

Welcoming back our longest standing guest host for his 28th appearance, Hadrian McQuaig!

Previous Related Topics – COL422: Playspace Etiquette, COL411: Bathhouse Experiences

  • Being invisible is rarely an option; you will probably be seen/watched
  • Respect – how to give and get it
  • Consent  – the subtle and direct moments
  • Get What You Want with Courtesy
  • Safety – yours and everyone else’s
  • Be PrEPared – inside and out
  • Stay Hydrated

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COL416: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this first part of a two-part series, the guys describe what consent is and when and how things can go wrong with it.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Farming
  • Damon: 91st BDay,  Poker and Old Friends
  • Chester: Lots of new music! Chainsmokers and Todrick Hall
  • Gary: SSDD on loop
  • Ches: FUCKING MOVING, but I still love my husband, CLAW
  • Ms. Tammy: Judging Contests, Leather Events, Mr. KY Leather, Mom and grandsons, Hammy
  • Ray: Finally taking some time from traveling
  • Brady: Travel!

Did I Do That?

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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COLDR: S7E12: And The Rest is Drag

COLDRS7-Ep12In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the twelfth episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In tonight’s episode, the guys listen in as the queens worq it in a music video challenge for RuPaul’s next song “Born Naked” (available on iTunes *wink*). Sparks fly in this emotionally charged episode from the start to the finish. The competition is on as the final four give it their all to make it into the top three. Who rises to the occasion and who ends up losing their wig? All will be RU-vealed.

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Anthony Mendoza

I’ve been watching your guy’s recap of the episodes since episode 1 and yours is my favorite by far. And can I just say that Gary gets more and more adorable every time he’s on camera. I just wanna take him home and do horrible naughty things to him. Love you guys!

Weekly Topic

Current episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Talk about emotions!
  • [Damon] – Let’s Git It ON!!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Final Four Focus, FLAWS and All, careful how you answer that loaded question
  • [Damon] – Lots of emotions (Lunch w/Ru, Conversations with your younger self)/Bitter Old Queens vs. Artistic Gurls

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – From the beginning; IT’S A COMPETITION. Ginger’s a pageant girl? Short sightedness…. eeek.
  • [Damon] – That was Explosive!/Every drag queen needs to do a pageant

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – QUAD LIP SYNC?!? Never saw that coming…
  • [Damon] – How far do you go for the WIN?

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for…Honesty on the runway because we are all ‘damaged’, and the hidden gem from Mathu Anderson ‘Isn’t she clever?’
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Pearl’s hair issue, Ginger’s hair issue [did not fly away], Violet’s earring issue [did not fall off]
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Kennedy and Ginger’s runway outfits/Pearl’s honesty
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for…The little problems (Kennedy’s acting/Ginger and Pearl’s hair/Violet’s earring)/Ginger said: “Old school is the only school”

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] – “And if we’re gonna super size our french fries, why can’t we at least super size our next drag queen super star?” – Ginger Minj
  • [Damon] – Who do I want to win and who I think will win

Bonus Material

RuPaul – Modern Love Official Music Video

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COL276: Summer Hits 2014 w/ Guest Tony Banks

billboard_top_10_c9a1201a_1_In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by the multitalented Tony Banks to discuss the top 10 summer hits of 2014! From a fancy hip hop queen to a bopping magic penis, we JUDGE the hell of this top 10.

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Weekly Topic

  • Billboard Top 10 Summer Songs of 2014

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COL232: Barbra … Can You Hear Me, Barbra … Can You See Me?

NoodlesIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the boys discuss how and when they knew they were FAB-U-LOUS. Robert has a problem with physics, Gary gets his “Olivia Newton-John” on, and Jeff has an obsessive bottom. All this and our Feedback section has a new theme.

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What’s Going On?

  • Damon is doing deep field reporting on the leather community in Nova Scotia
  • Eric is at the Morlock City Comic Con.
  • [Gary] The Old Man Still Has It

Did I Do That?

  • [Robert] Gravity, Physics, and Chemistry Oh My!

Weekly Topic

  • [Robert] First time you knew “Yup, I’m gay.” Quoting Yentl in the supermarket? Singing along with The Supremes at the doctor’s office, complete with hand movements? A rainbow flag tattoo? What was your first sign?

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  • [Jeff] ICA 8.3 “Symon Vs Fraser”

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