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COL427: LTAK: Flogging

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the knowledged Ches aka Foxbear for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this kinky-go-round, the cubs discuss the impact play known as flogging. Listen in as the guys give some tips, tricks and technical tools on floggers and flogging. It’s an impactful conversation.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Downtime
  • Damon: Jocks on, Asses Out!
  • Chester: Settling in, a broken window, Cap City Pup Night
  • Gary: Good and Disappointing Foods

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Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Co-hosts Damon, Gary, and recurring guest Ray (aka Karen Forecox) take a quick selfie at the Gem City Bear 2017 contest. Congrats to the winner Benjamin Benton!
    • Benjamin Benton – Thank u!

YouTube Subscribers:

  • André Ferreira
  • Kadin Wilson

YouTube Comment:

  • re: COL425: Dear Gay Men – Randall Stratton – American gods is done for the season and yes the sex scenes were hot.

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Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion. Topic is a part of impact play, flogging.

  1. Vocabulary [descriptions not definitions]
    1. Impact Play
      1. Flogging
    2. Sensations: Sounds & Feelings
      1. Thud
      2. Sting
      3. Bite
  2. D/s relationship
  3. Implements Involved
    1. Flogger Types
      1. Different hides yield different results
      2. Different shapes of falls yield different results
      3. Different fall counts yield different results
    2. Not limited to floggers
      1. Paddles
      2. Crops
      3. Wartenberg wheel
      4. Breath
      5. Hands
  4. First Time Expectations

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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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Facebook Comment:

  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

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Twitter Messages:

  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

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COL412: Full on Feedback

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys take some time to review some of our listeners’ feedback. After a couple of months of bear runs, crossovers, and interviews, the cubs share the shit ton of responses they have received from you. There’s also a sexy voicemail message!

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Some leads
  • Damon: Night at the Symphony
  • Chester: I’m in Columbus, looking for an apartment/job
  • Gary: Still recovering from DF13 and BBM6 [David Duelwood]

Weekly Topic

  • Lots of Feedback Update [items re: our racism shows will be discussed when we return to the topic in an upcoming episode]

Feedback:

Facebook Follows:

  • Bradley Chester

Facebook Likes:

  • Max Castillo
  • Tom Burske
  • David Duelwood
  • Julio Salgado
  • Gilbert Vasquez
  • Cody Globig
  • Richard William Kopf
  • Dick Salami
  • Cory Richard
  • Joshua Driscoll
  • Timothy G Wong
  • Anthony Monster Parker
  • Wayne Hogue Jr
  • Donald Lee Jr
  • Larry Perkins
  • DeDe Kupps

Facebook Comment:

  • Re: COL411: LTAS: Bathhouse Experiences
    • (Pronounced Tay) Teigh Ferguson: Chester is moving to Columbus?!? Oh My! And what is this bear pot luck Damon Babbage speaks of? Sound like fun.
      • It’s been in the works for about 4 months. – Chester
  • Michael Quinichett: I look forward to listening to this one.
  • Re: COL408 – WYR5: Hardest Sex Ever
    • Ches aka Foxbear: Hey guys. Catching ip on all the shows since January this week, felt I needed to respond to COL408.  Nah, those were pretty easy! 
    • PS I should totally come on the show again sometime, it’s been awhile.
    • Listening to all these podcasts in rapid succession has really made me miss you guys!

YouTube Subscribers:

  • CruzeTheBear
  • Max Wei
  • Nick Strain
  • Cody Globig

Voicemail:

  • WE GOT A MESSAGE!

Email:

  • erick ‘Σ’ Lundgren aka SigmaWolf76: Really love the cast guys!!! live in a BFE area… y’all help give me some sanity!!! (i said ‘some’) have heard y’all talk about clickin’ an Amazon link on the COL page, and y’all get a kickback. Can’t find the link… let me know,  ’bout to do some ‘power shoppin”!

 

BearUnderground:

  • RevBear & Troubadork joined the COL Entourage
  • OtterDave: Hi, I just wanted to let you know I really enjoy your podcasts. I’m realitively new to BU and the bear community, and the episode you did on bifobia really touched me. The issues you discuss are exactly what I have dealt with identifying as a bi otter. Those assumptions about bisexuality are why I have struggled with and chose not to come out. I appreciate your willingness to discuss the topic and how understanding you all are. Thanks for making all these great podcasts and not being afraid to talk about taboo topics. Congrats on the 400th episode. Woof, Dave
  • Tibbers: Grrr!

Twitter:

  • From March 19th, possibly re: COL407 ATNS: Racism and Sex or COL408 WYR5: Hardest Sex Ever? – GBearTrekker65: Gary is looking really cute with the headshave and beard trim! #WatchingLive
  • From March 27th: @dftbapaul: how soon after rpdr airs do you guys do the coldr episode? I need your review lol
    • @cubsoutloud: COLDR is on a temporary delay for a couple of weeks due to Drenched Fur and a CMC Concert.
    • @dftbapaul: that’s it. This is how I die.
  • From April 3rd @GBearTrekker65  re: COL409: Drummerboy North America 2017 David Duelwood interview: Enjoying the hot manly woofness of @cubsoutloud podcast episode 409!
    #BenFranklin

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  • Lots of feedback from COL407: All T, No Shade – Racism & Sex:
    • achub117 said: Great discussion and glad to hear input from everyone. Makes me want to educate myself even more and make changes for the better for everyone
    • Rotundaplomb said: Thanks for making the effort to have the uncomfortable conversations we need to have. Also, thank you for having bears of colour (in addition to @theatrecub79) to speak to the subject! [It is] Recommended listening for all LGBTQ+.
    • socalchubbybear98 said: Check this out… it’s real and needs to be discussed!
  • rotundaplomb said RE COL409: Drummer Boy North America 2017:
    • Nice bonus clip at the end! And Gary, as a man married to a big woman, the sex may not be frequent, but she’s sexy for the same reason bears are – love ‘em thick! 💜🐻
  • achub117 said RE COL408 WYR5: Hardest Sex Ever
    • Hardest Sex of All: Shower sex FTW!!!!

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COLSP02: Supreme’s Ruling

COLSP02In this special episode of Cubs Out Loud, the hosts reflect on the Supreme Court’s ruling on 6/26/2015 that legalized same-sex marriage in the United States. With this sweeping change in the nation, the guys offer their personal stories and victories and discuss how they feel the ruling affects the community.

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