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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

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COLDR: S9E06: Snatch Game

In this episode of COL Drag Race T Time, it’s time for a little Snatch Game! That classic RuPaul staple makes its way into Season 9. Hear what the guys  have to say about the gurls’ impersonations. Plus, it’s more Madonna than you can shake a coned ta-ta at!

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  • Paul Hobby: Yay! I love this series. Kinda glad you guys did 2 twofers, partially because Gary didn’t get to compare every new queen on their entrance to a past queen(s). Love you girl, but your not good at it ?
  • Paul Hobby: The rest of your commentary is always entertaining and thought provoking btw

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 6

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – How much did you prepare?
  • [Damon] – You know it’s coming…
  • [Chester] – Lots of good points, very little bad points

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – Farrah said what we were thinking/Something Jim said
  • [Chester] – Safe… or not?
  • [Gary] – The real show is online

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Chester] – No middle of the road left
  • [Gary] –  Have a plan, Keep it simple, Perfect it
  • [Damon] – Don’t Fuck It Up

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Valentina’s Miss Columbia & Madonna Sex Book Runway
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Peppermint’s NeNe
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Alexis’ Breathless Mahoney/”In Memory of…”
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Aja’s runway
  • [Chester] –  Snaps for… Cynthia’s wardrobe malfunction
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Cynthia’s Sophia Vergara

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – Queens playin’ other queens
  • [Chester] – Alexis is comin’ for ya’ll
  • [Gary] – The competition is about to begin

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COLDR: S8E09: The Realness

COLDRS8-Ep9In this week’s episode, it’s time to get real as we take the final lap of RuPaul’s Drag Race! Gary and Damon discuss this episode of music videos, final runways, and emotional baggage as one queen fails to make it to the finish line. The Realness is real alright.

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 9

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Glamazon Episode?
  • [Damon]: Fixing the Flaws

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Mild Music Video Challenge
  • [Damon]: “The Realness” was okay…/Jayson Whitmore WOOF daddy

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Truest Sisters
  • [Damon]:  Loving the Camaraderie!

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Carson’s Question/Ross’ Conversion
  • [Damon]: Definitely got real

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… RuPaul’s Dress!
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for…
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Kim Chi’s emotions  
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Bob’s “Very Best Drag”

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: We now have a Top 3
  • [Damon]: Be who you are…

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COL301: Jeff Rockcub, Dirty Water Revival Album Release

DWRcover_artIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we sit down with Jeff Rockcub to discuss the release of his newest album, Dirty Water Revival. From his creative process while writing music to getting the band together, we interview Jeff as he tells the story behind the album on the heels of his CD release party. All this and more.

What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – Caffeine!
  • [Damon] – Cell Phone Story
  • [Gary] – Stuff

Did I Do That?

  • [Damon] – Whoops!

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Weekly Topic

Jeff (Rockcub) Workman – Dirty Water Revival Release

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