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COL724: WGO: December 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. The holidays are here and the guys are feeling jolly? From stuff with cars to stuff for Christmas, listen in as the guys catch you up on their last month of 2023.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: WoW, Car Trouble
  • Damon: Holiday Shows & Time w/Family
  • Gary: New Car, Busy 2024

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  • Jonathan Luca Lorruso
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  • Paul Rail

YouTube Comment:

  • COL709: WGO: August 2023 ~ goody2toad: I just saw my name tagged in this podcast…. Y’all are invited to try the machine anytime

Patreon Updates

  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
    • Cubsters: Charles W., Daniel C., and Michael K.
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    • plus our Buddies: Hadrian, Lloyd G. and Michael V!

Recent Shows

  • COL720: WGO: November ‘23
  • COL721: LTA… Adulting, Redux
  • COL722: 2023 Look Back
  • COL723: Jingle Mingle 3

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COL675: Our Fave Things ’22

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs come together to share a few of their favorite things. With the holidays fast approaching, the guys give you some ideas of items they have enjoyed this year as potential gifts for your friends, co-workers or, hell, even yourself!

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Our Fave Things ‘22

It’s the holiday season once again and the COL hosts are offering up some ideas for potential items to share or gift to loved ones. Heck, you could even give something to yourself. Think of it as a precursor to what’s in Santa’s sack. [Not like that, you dirty bearcubs; or maybe..] 

Damon

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COL631: What’s Going On – December 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. With winter blues and holiday tunes, listen in as the guys wind down the year 2021 and look ahead into 2022. Find out how the frosty, frigid last month of the year affected the cubs (mostly because it wasn’t).

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: BEST D&D EVAAAAR!!!!!
  • Damon: Cincinnati Leather, CMC Holiday LIVE, Holiday Lulls
  • Gary: Ending, Transitioning, Beginning

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  • Charles Levere
  • Seth Allen
  • Jimbo Mineer
  • Jake King John
  • Adam Timothy Moliwell
  • Bill Van Dyke

YouTube Comment:

  • COL629: It’s the Holiday Season – Oan. R.: The day wasn’t just chosen. Christmas, like a lot of other Christian holidays, appropriates a lot of things from pagan rituals and beliefs most likely because they wanted to cater the holiday to encompass other’s rituals (stopping now because I really don’t want to get anybody in trouble with the Christian’s)

Twitter Followers

  • @gemini_cub
  • @JeepDaddy3
  • @Sameerdick0101

Recent Shows

  • COL627: WGO – November 2021
  • COL628: LoR: In-laws
  • COL629: It’s the Holiday Season
  • COL630: Jingle Mingle

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https://twitter.com/Bornwithadarkt1/status/1473116478698401795

 

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COL628: LoR: In-Laws

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. For this episode, the guys discuss the often dreaded in-laws. As media seems to make it seem that most straight couples have to deal with their in-laws and spouse’s families, the cubs review how this translates into the relationships of the LGBTQ+ community. Are they really that different or can similar tactics, communication and boundaries help ease the potential tension?

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Landscape of Relationships: In-Laws

Lots of research and media about how in-law relationships are really difficult.  That may be the case as some research out there says 3 out of 4 couples have difficult relationships with heterosexual in-laws.  Is that the case with same-sex relationships? 

Meeting the In-Laws

  1. Every family is different with a different rulebook that has been in creation for possibly generations.
  2. Possibility for conflictual interactions, difficult pasts, and crunchy presents.
  3. BOUNDARIES!!!!!
    1. Know your values
    2. Stay true to you.
  4. Brene Brown’s BRAVING…specifically the Generosity part.  
    1. Keep those conflict skills in check.

LGBT in-laws (2019) 400 interviews from children in law who identified as gay or lesbian.  Describe relationship with same sex in law parent.

  1. Many of those interviewed struggled with acceptance by one or both of their parents-in-law.
  2. Relationships usually improved with time
  3. While parents-in-law became increasingly accepting, there was often someone else in the family who was not accepting
  4. Acceptance by the mothers-in-law, according to the daughters-in-law, came as more of their friends and social circle either had children who were lesbian or gay, or their friends and social circle became more socially aware.
  5. Feelings of ambivalence toward family members are typical.

Be the subject of your life, not the object.  

  • You become an adult child the moment you set boundaries with your family (and in-laws).
  • What do YOU want to do with your partner in relation to each other’s families?
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COL583: What’s Going On – December 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. This month, the guys celebrate the holidays and the ending of the hell of a year that was 2020. From Christmas gifts to holiday hurrahs, the cubs get festive and share their joy with you.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Themed Christmas
  • Damon: Holiday Hoorays
  • Gary: Hours to go

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  • Gryph1024
  • Garth_jensen
  • Boxcub_col
  • Pcunclepete
  • The_gochenour
  • Tagsbear 

YouTube Comment:

  • COL580: LTAS: Sides 
    • by Oan R.: “I’m gonna have to look up that Facebook group.” “Interesting conversation. I’ve never really been interested in penetration myself.” “‘What are you….sided-ness?’ Oh I hope we get to a point where someone asks me this question.”
    • By dindin mooshi: “the way i be having conversations I’m a Gemini 😩 and shading y’all ❤️I need to catch y’all live. i might be side-puss-? Omg”
    • By Rangersking669: “Just for reference the h-word is considered a slur for intersex people just letting y’all know. Great show!” – Oan R. responded “Huh, I didn’t know that.”

Twitter Followers

  • @BobbyBear2300
  • @LthrLvrNE
  • @Awq_Oan

Twitter Tags:

  • (from Dec 15 before COL582) @FishFuff: @cubsoutloud this is dindin mushi calling honorable panel members for an emergency meeting regarding @Pornhub’s latest fuckery…?

Recent Shows

  • COL579: WGO: November 2020
  • COL580: LTAS: Sides
  • COL581: Our Favorite Things 2020
  • COL582: R.I.P. XTube/Pornhub?

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