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COL498: BEAR: Being a Virgin

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, North American Bear Weekend is just around the corner! So, it’s time for another Bear Experience Action Readiness show! For this BEAR, the cubs prepare you for your maiden voyage to your first bear event or run. The guys share their first time experiences and give some tips to navigate the choppy bear seas.

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Anon Porn and Sexuality Research Survey – by Edward Angelini-Cooke from COL441: The Decline of Gay Bars

Bear Experience Action Readiness: Being a Virgin

We discuss what to expect as a virgin at a bear event/run and what our personal experiences were like.

Audience Questions/Feedback:

  • Baron W.: My first big event was GLLA, and I really didn’t know what to expect! It was exciting yet terrifying all at once. I guess what I wish I had known is that people are (usually) very warm and welcoming and if you put yourself out there you’ll usually find a new friend or five!
  • Joshua P. [Skeleton Crew]: Hmmm…I have never been to an event. From what I see and hear, they are very cliquey, and a fear I have is I would end up spending the time mostly by myself, or just with the people I attend with (which seems to defeat the purpose of attending these events).

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COL455: Title Competing

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by Aaron Hudd, Mr. North American Muscle Bear 2017, to talk about title competition. In light of our recent NAB conversations and confusion about the running, the cubs invited Aaron on to discuss the rules, judging, and other aspects of not only NAB Weekend, but other contests and competitions.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Night Attack and Light
  • Damon: Best Laid Plans/Celebration of Life
  • Gary: Now onto DF
  • Aaron: unpacking from NAB/Wedding/EPA Audit

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  • Re: COL350: LTAS: Gimme a Hand. oscar orozco orejel: Hay I’m 25 and I know everything you guys are talking about

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Title Competitions

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COL381: LTAK: Boy vs Pup

COL381In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this one, the guys are joined by Ches (Foxbear), Ray (Mr. North American Bear), and pups Beacon and Dozor to talk about boys and pups. What common features do these roles play under the grander kinky umbrella and where do they differ? Listen in as the cubs break down these two similar, yet very different identities.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Legion has arrived!
  • Damon: IndyFurCon briefly
  • Chester: Mancs Pride
  • Gary: Bestie Time
  • Ches/FoxBear: WORK!  NEED VACATION!
  • Ray: Imperial Court of Indianapolis
  • Pup Dozor: Softball and Hockey end of season! Prep for BtW.
  • Pup Beacon: Busy summer. All the new things. Job, home, car, pup, member of Onyx, etc

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  • Randall Stratton: Just finished listening to the podcast..and I agree with Gary none of these songs did it for me..like it was said on the show they seemed to follow a formula..so I was like..meh next.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Boys vs Pups

COL314: LTAK: Respect and Consent

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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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  • COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!: Thomas Hammond: listened to show at work with my headphones, made my monday enjoyable

Weekly Topic

  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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