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COLDR: AS6E11: The Charisma Uniqueness Nerve Talent Monologues

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon snap their fingers in celebration as the top four..err top five tell their drag-spiration stories. While the All Stars do some monologuing then strut the runway in some fashion oopsies, the guys applaud their actions and give their thoughts on who makes it into the top four (again). Which queen talks their way into the finale and which one is left mumbling?

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts: The C.U.N.T. Monologues

  • [Damon] – Familiar but Different
  • [Gary] – Different and Still Challenging

Cruise the Runway:

Category/Theme: Oops I Did It Again

  • [Damon] – Odd Category
  • [Gary] – How Did They Get Different Takeaways?

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Ra’jah on Brand
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ginger’s Attention to Detail
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… I’m a Little Mad Ya’ll…
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Huh…
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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

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LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

Weekly Topic

BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

I’ll Tumbl For You:

Links:

  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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