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COL569: LTAS: Bubbles/Pods

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex show. For this one, the guys discuss the concept of sex bubbles or sexpods, a safer sex practice of maintaining social/sexy time with a smaller group of people to help keep yourselves protected during the pandemic. Listen in as the guys tell more about “quaranteaming” and debate on its potential effectiveness. When thinking about it, is it really new or just necessary?

Show Topic

Sex Bubbles/Pods 

  • Definition?
  • Safety?
  • Potential?
  • Interest?

How to Form a Pandemic Pod | Greater Good 

“quarantine pods” as an effective way to get our social, emotional, familial, and sexual needs met without unnecessarily endangering ourselves or others. Pods are small, self-contained networks of people who limit their non-distanced social interaction to one another—in other words, they’re the small group of people with whom you share air without using breath-control precautions such as masks.

Pods (or “bubbles” or “containers” or “quaranteams”) aren’t just ways for people to have social connections within a pandemic. They also serve an important epidemiological purpose—they help limit the size and spread of outbreaks. That’s one reason why in the Bay Area, where the authors live, public health officials recommend that pods be no larger than 12 people who live across three households, and that pods limit their non-distanced social contact to one another for at least three weeks.

Despite the centrality of sex to our lives, many of us are ashamed of having sexual needs. This is tragic, because we should be no more ashamed of needing sexual contact than we should be of needing food. So, be honest with yourself and others: If you want to form a pod to meet sexual needs, say so, rather than concealing or minimizing that purpose.

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COL360: Bear Perception

File_000In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by the ever interesting Hadrian McQuiag to discuss how we perceive ourselves in the bear community and beyond. From two articles, we springboard into self-identification and our perception from others. What labels do we self-identify with and what does that mean to ourselves and those around us? And where will this take us as we move forward into the mainstream?

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Hearthstoned
  • Damon:  What  Are You Doing, Weather?/Contest of Champions,
  • Gary: Spring Break Fever
  • Hadrian: Mannequin Party

Feedback:

Google +: Chris Ransdell 

Bear Underground:

  • gingercubguy: You make me blush I’m just a normal ginger cub

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From: Ryan Coulson: Re: Game Streaming

Hey guys,

YES!

Love the show though

Ryan

Ps. If you wanted to stream WoW I’d definitely watch that too.

Urbandictionary with Gary:

Electric HammerWhen you touch someone or something with your erect penis and it releases static electricity.

I accidentally gave my spouse the electric hammer and now I can only pleasure them after rubbing my stocking feet against a carpeted floor.

Weekly Topic

Can a bear see the trees for the forest if he defines his surroundings?

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COL341: The Santa Claus Interview

IamSantaClaus-poster-jimIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we spread a little Christmas cheer early as  the cubs have an interview with Jim Stevenson, one of the professional Santa Clauses in the 2014 documentary ‘I Am Santa Claus’. In the interview, Jim shares stories about his life as a gay bear and what it was like to be a Santa Claus.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Keeping Myself Busy
  • Damon – TABLE! & TSL/R/P
  • Gary – So many things are here! [Snow, Cold, F4, Mockingjay Part 2, Adele, and more]

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Gary: Facebook Likes:

  • Christiano Olina Fernandes

 FB Comment

RJ Stratton: great episode and hope you guys are well from your unofficial “fan boy”…wink emoticon

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RevGay Magazine‏ – @RevGay

@cubsoutloud Hey guys thanks for covering our “Common Relationship Mistakes Gay Men Make” on your podcast. Let’s Continue the convo!!! xo

Urbandictionary with Gary

santaclausaphile

Somebody who is sexually attracted to Santa Claus

OMG Did you see her eying up Santa? Shes such a santaclausaphile

Weekly Topic

“I Am Santa Claus”

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From the documentary’s website:

Santa Jim Stevenson

Santa Jim Stevenson resides in Ft. Worth, TX and is the proud winner of ‘Mr. Texas Bear Round-Up,’ the largest gathering of hairy homosexual men in the country. He is in a relationship with a Denver Colorado man 30 years his junior whom he calls ‘his special elf’.

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