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COL653: WGO: June 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of June. As Pride Month comes to a close, the guys colorfully express their goings-on. From celebrating pride at home to hitting the festivals and parades, the cubs are learning just how aged they have become.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  WFH, Hybrid, and Internet Issues
  • Damon: Pride Concert/Pride Festival/Heated! 
  • Gary:  Pride, Pride, and Work

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  • COL651: LTAS: Internet Security – Tony B: “Adorkable? I resemble that comment!”
  • Gabe Horner liked – COLDR: AS7E02: The Realness of Fortune Ball & Fairy Tale Justice 
  • Paul Lanner loved our post – “Hey all! Previous guest Paul Lanner has an event coming up soon and would love to see you there. Check out the info below and head to https://www.hahtheevent.com/ for more information about attending.”

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  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons! 
    • Cubsters: Charles W. 
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Recent Shows

  • COL650: WGO: May 2022
  • COL651: LTAS: Internet Security
  • COL652: ATNS: Pride in 2022

Reminders: previous guest Paul Lanner has an event coming up soon and would love to see you there. Visit HAH The Event.com for info for support and attending.

Previous guest Joshua Pangborn from SideKick Productions has a new project underway with their film “A Taste of Youth” where a fundraising campaign has been launched with Indiegogo. Consider supporting Queer Horror and Fat Positivity content by visiting A Taste of Youth.com to see how you can help make this horror feature happen.

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COL589: Losing Our ‘Gay’ Spaces

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Jeff forgets to turn on his mic and the cubs are joined by returning guest Drew to discuss a rather impactful topic. Before and during the pandemic, LGBTQ+ spaces have been shutting their doors as it becomes financially difficult to maintain them. Listen in as the guys share their thoughts on what the true cost of losing these spaces might be and how others may be able to survive post-COVID.

Show Topic

As the pandemic swept across the globe, LGBTQ+ spaces in the US faced financial devastation. From online fundraising, new owners, to closures – what have we lost? Will the community be able to recover in the future when pandemic is behind us? 

Some of the known closures include:

  • Cuties, Flaming Saddles, Gold Coast, Gym Bar, Rage – West Hollywood, California, USA
  • Menz & Mollyz Bar – Halifax, Alberta, Canada 
  • Boom! Nightclub – Fredericton, New Brunswick, Canada 
  • DC Eagle – Washington, D.C., USA
  • Stud, San Francisco, California, USA
  • Parliament House, Orlando, Florida, USA

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COL573: What is… NCOD?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present another “What is…” show. For this episode, the cubs talk about National Coming Out Day, celebrating its 32nd anniversary on October 11th. Listen in as the guys break down the doors of what this special day is all about and how much progress has been made since for the LGBTQ+ community.

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What is…NCOD? – National Coming Out Day

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COL515: What’s Going On – June 2019

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the month of June. This time around, the guys talk about butt stuff, and dungeons, and sexual positions and more….Wait, is this an episode of Let’s Talk About Kink? Not really.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Night Shift & Dragons
  • Damon: Job News & Colonoscopy & Yesterday
  • Gary: New Stuff is Rough

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  • @jkiykvgi
  • @PardueJeffery ‏
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  • @RealMenFullBush ‏
  • @Tend2DillyDally ‏

Recent Shows

  • COL511: WTG – May 2019
  • FB215: Black Shirt Friday
  • COL512: What is. . . Pride?
  • COL513: 50 Years From Now
  • COL514: Trans Bear Listener

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Name: Howard N

Message: Hey guys. Wanted to write an email. Pride month is coming up and I wanted to talk a little bit about it, if I may. Pride can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, and I know the holiday is more specifically concerning lgbt+ persons, but I wanted to say a little bit about what Pride is to me. My coming out is a little different from regular coming outs, with bits being thing that are the same. I remember being so ashamed of who I am, as my background was heavily influenced by the Christian religion. I remember my first boyfriend, and the way he sat on my bed in my college paid apartment room and stated, “I’m not shy”. And the way I walked toward the bed and sat down and being instantly drawn to be felt against his body as he kissed my forehead. Cut forward a bit, I remember being angry with my mother on the phone after the day I had come out to her when she had come down for a visit. I remember feeling like she no longer understood me after years of being close (I was 20 at the time). Cut forward a bit more to a Kohl’s clothing store. I remember my first ex telling me to stop following him around as we were walking around the store. Cut to nights of feeling heartbroken and being taken advantage of. Cut to following relationships with guys and wanting to find somebody like him and me wanting to find someone I felt comfortable with again cause I no longer felt at home under the same roof with my mom. Cut to my self-hate and resentment at myself for getting so emotionally attached to people that I can’t let go, they hang around like ghosts in my head. Cut to the realization that my self-hate was more than just the fact that I was gay. And cut to me learning about Neurodiversity and autism. And how suicide ideation is more common in autistics who mask their neurology to suit the needs of the many. And to me realizing why I have such a hard time with understanding the dynamics of relationships. Being autistic is a lot like being gay in the fact that you don’t want to come out of the closet, even when everybody can tell there’s something different about you, wrong even. All through school I wanted to be like others so bad. I did weird stupid stuff to try and fit in with the social norms. But there’s a constant anxiety, and as you grow older, the anxiety turns into what’s called a mental illness (meaning you can be so afraid to the point of paranoia). This paranoia comes around particularly with people I like because I want so bad for them to like me and am so afraid of losing. Friends have lost connection, romantic relationships go sour…….I don’t want this anymore. I don’t want to be ashamed of who I am, the way I act and think differently from others, the way I react or my stimming (a term for autistics to explain the things they do to cope with stress). I want to stop being afraid of being social and being taken the wrong way. I take Pride in the fact that I am wired differently. (Btw, the symbol for Neurodiversity is a rainbow infinity)

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Gents,

Thank you all for doing this show. I so greatly respect your willingness to be public and open about your learning and growth; it’s not easy. The trans community is so important to me (a close partner is trans, long story), and I’m always so happy to see continued growth in the acceptance and support of our trans siblings. More learning for me too.

Some thoughts that crossed my mind while listening:

  • I think Jeff had a great idea; more trans porn! Lots of learning (up close and personal) to be had with more porn. No harm, lots of education, no one feeling under the microscope.
  • I think a guest on the show to talk more about the trans experience is a great idea. And while I love Hadrian, I feel like despite his breadth of experience (no shade!), it should really be a trans-masculine bear to discuss it in more depth.
  • A podcast recently came out called Two Headed Girl, where a trans-masculine person discusses a lot of issues around their transition. The two hosts are great. Might not be the kind of focused piece that’s helpful but it’s a wonderfully personal show.

Anyway, just random listener thoughts. Thanks again for keeping me company.

Best,

/Chris G

New comment on your post “COL513: 50 Years Later”

Author: Patrick B. (bostonareabear) 

Next on COL – episode 3133 (50 years from now in 2069) We will hear Hadrian read from his latest short story titled “Get off my lawn and get into my Craftmatic Adjustable Bed!”

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COL513: 50 Years Later

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys cap off the ending of Pride Month with a look to the future. Stonewall was approximately 50 years ago, so the cubs peer into their crystal balls to imagine what the world will be like in another 50 years. From the good, the bad and the ugly, listen as the guys share their predictions on the status of the GLBTQ+ community as they become bitter old men.

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50 Years From Now

Some might say a lot has happened in the 50 years since the Stonewall Riots; others might say not enough. What if we attempt to shift our gaze into a crystal ball and forecast what may happen in the next 50 years to come?

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