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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S9E12: Category is…

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Category is…FINAL FOUR! We’re in the home stretch of Season 9, and the game is just about over! Listen in as the guys take it to the runway in this rapping, dancing, slay-filled episode. Who has what it takes to make it to the finale?

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 12

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – The SHADE of it all!
  • [Damon] – Familiar Challenge
  • [Chester] – No ups, no downs
  • [Brady] – Wow…my state of mind has been altered

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – What they learned
  • [Chester] – Balls of the Hamburger Mary’s variety
  • [Brady] – Comfort food!
  • [Gary] – We 4 Queens

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Chester] – No clear top/bottom
  • [Brady] – Babashook!
  • [Gary] – ‘Heart wrenching’ to ‘Has the show gone soft?’
  • [Damon] – Game Changer

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Brady] – Snaps for… Sasha
  • [Brady] – Eyerolls for… the blue wig
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Maxi Challenge Performance
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… “podcast” interview & Shea’s ‘chest’
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Peppermint’s advice to herself
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Shea’s chest and wig/Squatty Potty
  • [Chester] – Snaps for… Sasha’s confidence/Sasha’s Brand
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… _____

Closing Thoughts:

Miss Congeniality…

  • [Gary] – Trinity
  • [Damon] – Trinity or Eureka
  • [Chester] – Trinity
  • [Brady] – Valentina

Overall Winner…

  • [Gary] – Confidence vs Attitude
  • [Damon] – Who I Want To vs Who I Think Will
  • [Chester] – Sashea
  • [Brady] – Sasha!

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COLDRAS: S2E07: Family That Drags Together

coldras-s2e7In this week’s episode of COL Drag Race T-Time, Gary, Damon and Chester breakdown this emotionally sickening show. As family come to the workroom, the drama kicks it into high gear just in time for the finale. Sistuhs these gurls are not, as it’s every queen for herself! Who becomes the rotten fruit on this family tree?

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 2 Episode 7

  • Maxi Challenge: Drag Family Vogueing
  • Runway/Main Stage: Drag Royal Family

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Makeovers….again
  • [Damon]: There’s a definite vibe…
  • [Chester]: Alyssa looks concerned

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: It’s the Emotional Challenge
  • [Damon]: Rising to the Challenge
  • [Chester]: Alaska wins! Power to the people?

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Stars Burn Out
  • [Damon]: Real family can matter
  • [Chester]: Katya should be VERY concerned

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Detox’s Vogue
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Alaska.
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Katya’s Mother
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Alaska’s trainwreck
  • [Chester]: Snaps for… The Moms!
  • [Chester]: Eyerolls for… Fuck RoLaskaTox?

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Krazy vs Rolaskatox
  • [Damon]: Who Do You Think Will Win?
  • [Chester]: Team Katya

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COLDR: S8E7: Shady Politics

COLDRS8-Ep7Hold onto your ballot boxes cuz it’s another episode of COLDR! In this week’s episode, Gary and Damon race to the poles..I mean polls…as the gurls campaign for the drag queen presidency. It’s a lot of smearing and shade as the T gets spilled, ladies.

Feedback:

  • AJ Lewis Just listened the podcast of the snatch game episode and I have come to conclusion that you guys are anti-Bob. frown emoticon. We all have our favourites, which is fine mine are Bob and Kim chi. I have wondered why when giving the recap, why do you guys talk around the subject as though no one has seen it or that you are afraid of releasing spoilers? Any rate, nice job.

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Only 1 Top?!? LOLz
  • [Damon]: Here Comes Thorgy!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: BLACK AND WHITE CHALLENGE!
  • [Damon]: Do You Know What Smearing Is?/LSFYMFL!!

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: They didn’t see the team bottom two coming
  • [Damon]: Jealousy shining through/Naomi can’t sit down!

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Quality Six Pack
  • [Damon]: Jack Of All Trades/Editing

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Blackie Onassis! And Chi Chi’s Lip Sync for All Time!
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Thorgy’s no-shade ad
  • [Damon]: Snaps for… Derrick and Bob campaign
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Thorgy’s “gift” to Chi Chi

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Safe doesn’t last forever
  • [Damon]: Was this a surprise?/We’re closing in-Predictions

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COLDR: S8E6: Wizards of Drag

COLDRS8-Ep6Ease on down the road as it’s time for another episode of COLDR. In this week’s episode, it’s a design challenge based on The Wizard of Oz. Gary and Damon spend a little time going through it. Which queens make it to the Emerald City and who ends up with a house on their head.

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Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 8 Episode 6

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: The pressure is on
  • [Damon]: Someone “deserved to go”

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Verbal stress spews forth
  • [Damon]: Remember what the challenge is…/The Question

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary]: Emotional Defensiveness
  • [Damon]: The “odd release”/Payless

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Rules vs Expectations
  • [Damon]: Drama No Matter Who

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Naomi’s comeback
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Derrick’s not listening
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Bob making it through
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for… “flattering” Ms. Derrick

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Moving in on the top contenders
  • [Damon]: Stop Saying “You’re Not” and “You Can’t”

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