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COL551: Sex Needs vs COVID-19

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Edward Angelini-Cooke of EAC Therapy and COL’s resident sex therapist. For this episode, the cubs acknowledge their thirst due to many states’ social distancing regulations during the COVID-19 pandemic. Because of this, we bring in the good doc to discuss the sexual needs during this crisis. We all have needs and need to find ways to address them safely.

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COVID-19 isn’t going away. And now more than ever we’re facing challenges with having our sexual needs met. What’s a person to do?

This is an extended traumatic experience….which means that people are going to have traumatic reactions to this.  Here are some common traumatic reactions and ways to address them sexually:

IMPORTANT: Our reactions to this may be different therefore we may have different sexual libidos during this time (that is normal).

Overview:

The 5 Love Languages

    • Phone Sex 
    • Video sex
  • Looking into the future 
    • Research is seeing a decrease in STI rates
      • Decrease access to testing sites
    • Re-entry 
      • Sexual risk taking 

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COL467: No Text, No Chat

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys give the lowdown on how to make the most perfect online profile. To catch the bear you have to have the right honey trap, so the cubs give some tips and tricks of the trade to make your profile delectable. In this second part, we talk about your profile text. While a picture is worth a thousand words, the text can be quite noteworthy. Listen in as the guys give you some do’s and don’ts on what to put down in your profile.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Moving
  • Damon: Working/CMC/Vacation
  • Chester: Pride is here! NoFOMO. and a new photo space?
  • Gary: FOOD

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Ramp up hits on your online profile by creating one that has captivating intro text.

  • Including profile text is an art form, text leads to interpretation (absolutes) by the viewer
  • Extra features…
  • Things to Avoid

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COL156: Tea Time Anyone?

On this episode of COL, we talk about Tearooms, Golden Shower Girls, and how not to advertise on Craigslist, especially if your a M4M CD F2M who likes a booty bump. All this and Dan just wants salad.

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So what the F did you do this week?

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  • Phil from Bear411 (BIGBOYSTL) – Ok, so when I listen to COL and I hear about you (Jeff) and Ben being tops, I really REALLY wish I lived in Texas so I could help take care of your needs 😉

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