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COL681: WGO: January 2023

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of January. As winter chills the air, the guys warm you up with their monthly shenanigans. From new podcasts to new jobs they didn’t want, slide along with the cubs through another month.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Forced Focus
  • Damon: New Podcast / Home Repairs
  • Gary: Ok-yeah, coulda been bettah

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Submission from BuilTABear:

Hey Guys! I am listening to your podcast COL514: Trans Bear Listener. 

First — GOOD JOB! Thank you for bringing up the topic of trans guys! Please note — not all trans guys are the same or have the same needs, critiques or sensitivities. MANY (not all) guys who are earlier in the process (first 5 years) can be SUPER SENSITIVE about just about everything and often have NO idea they are being that way.  I know it’s not politically correct to say that – but it’s the painful truth. After a handful of years living life passing as a cis man we learn to understand the whole world is not out to make us all miserable or be disrespectful to us. ugh. Some guys can really be hard work. Just like any other community, there are some cool guys and some really ODD guys.  Mileage may vary :-0   

I thought I’d share some of my thoughts about what your email guest had to say: 

  • FEMALE genitalia = In my general experience I agree, we usually prefer words like birth born parts, genetic bits, front business, ANYTHING but being reminded about the emotionally painful word “female” when you are talking about a trans guy. Testosterone makes some pretty significant changes to it and it’s not “standard issue female parts” after a short while anyhow. 
  • JUNK = agree, just ask the guy what he wants his junk called (don’t offer options – just ask) 
  • Bottom Surgery = not being attracted to someone who has had bottom surgery. 

Again, those who HAVE HAD bottom surgery are often super sensitive about rejection (as might be expected!). There are some trans guys who have had bottom surgery realizing folks (including other trans guys) are NOT into them BECAUSE of the lower surgery choice. VERY ouchie. Very VERY ouchie (I’d imagine). That’s a lot of work mentally, surgery and money to go through to realize you just put yourself into a VERY narrow date scene.  I know of two trans men who committed suicide because of this topic. Saying I’d never have sex with a trans guy who has had bottom surgery is simply unnecessary and rude. It’s like saying “i’d never have sex with a guy with a small penis”  — you might think it in your mind and maybe have a general desire for guys 6” or more, but going around admitting you’re a size queen is not pretty. Hope this helps!

Kindly, BuilTABear

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Recent Shows

  • COL677: WGO: December 2022
  • COL678: LTAF: New Year, New Dishes
  • COL679: 15 Years and Counting
  • COL680: LoR: Parasocial Interactions

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COL627: What’s Going On – November 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of November. As the cubs approach the end of 2021, listen in as they bring you up to speed on their month of Thanksgiving. From Final Fantasy to contest fantasy scenes, the guys share what’s been up with them.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Vacation/Endwalker
  • Damon: AJ / Staying Home / Cinci Leather 
  • Gary: Year End Slide after the BUSYNESS

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YouTube Comment:

  • COL582: R.I.P. XTube/Pornhub? – xyz: Rip. What happened to xtube?
  • COL622: LTAS: Horror Stories – Oan R.: Lol, Gary’s story was weird. Aww, that was a nice little wrap up from Gary. 
  • COL623: What’s Going On – October 2021 – Oan R.: To be clear, I wasn’t saying I wanted to make Gary a pie. Although that’d be one hot pie. Sticky sweet….I need to go now. Watched the reactions again about the Gary-apple thing, it’s just interesting to see how different the responses are. Like am I talking about baking a pie, baking Gary into a pie, or turning Gary into an adult fantasy where he’s the main part of a pie with his torso covered in pie filling and surrounded by an outline of pie crust? … … Again, I need to go now and…do things. 
  • COL624: LoR: Unfriending – Oan R.: Lord of the rings, unfriending. Like when the fellowship fell apart
  • COL625: LTAK: Gear – Part 4: Oan R.: Claw la la la law…

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Recent Shows

  • COL623: WGO: October 2021 
  • FB338: TTO: From the Waist Down
  • COL624: LoR: Unfriending
  • COL625: LTAK: GEAR – Part Four
  • COL626: LTAF: The White Stuff

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COL583: What’s Going On – December 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. This month, the guys celebrate the holidays and the ending of the hell of a year that was 2020. From Christmas gifts to holiday hurrahs, the cubs get festive and share their joy with you.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Themed Christmas
  • Damon: Holiday Hoorays
  • Gary: Hours to go

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YouTube Comment:

  • COL580: LTAS: Sides 
    • by Oan R.: “I’m gonna have to look up that Facebook group.” “Interesting conversation. I’ve never really been interested in penetration myself.” “‘What are you….sided-ness?’ Oh I hope we get to a point where someone asks me this question.”
    • By dindin mooshi: “the way i be having conversations I’m a Gemini 😩 and shading y’all ❤️I need to catch y’all live. i might be side-puss-? Omg”
    • By Rangersking669: “Just for reference the h-word is considered a slur for intersex people just letting y’all know. Great show!” – Oan R. responded “Huh, I didn’t know that.”

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  • (from Dec 15 before COL582) @FishFuff: @cubsoutloud this is dindin mushi calling honorable panel members for an emergency meeting regarding @Pornhub’s latest fuckery…?

Recent Shows

  • COL579: WGO: November 2020
  • COL580: LTAS: Sides
  • COL581: Our Favorite Things 2020
  • COL582: R.I.P. XTube/Pornhub?

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COL577: LTAF: Thanksgiving

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. For this one, the guys bring back a familiar topic on the show: Thanksgiving! From tasty turkey to perfect pies, listen in as the cubs gobble up their faves and also discuss Turkey Day during a pandemic.

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COL552: What’s Going On – April 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of April. For this month, the guys bring you up to date on their continuing “new normal” during the pandemic. From D&D to looking at D, the cubs give you some insight on themselves, the podcast and more.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  WoW, Lots of D&D
  • Damon: The Good News
  • Gary: Pandemic Be Damned

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Recent Shows

  • COL548: What’s Going On – March 2020
  • COLFB012: Nakiarama 
  • COL549: LTAK: Gear – Part 1
  • COL550: The Blood Ban
  • COL551: Sex Needs vs COVID-19

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