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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!


Facebook Comment:

  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

Twitter Followers:

Twitter Messages:

  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

Cooldown Topics

I’ll Tumbl For Ya:


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COLDR: S9E07: 9021-HO

Hey dudes and dudettes, it’s time for another episode of COL Drag Race T Time. Radical! SO, like in this episode, the queens turn back time to 1993 and take the guys to Beverly Hills, 9021-HO. Find out who was “all that” and who wasn’t “fly”.


Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 Episode 7

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – Comedy & Acting Challenge!!
  • [Damon] – Bitter Bitches get Bagged
  • [Chester] – Yawn. Another filler episode

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Damon] – Memories
  • [Chester] – Aja gifts Nina some dresses
  • [Gary] – Keepin it 100 & Family Values

Cooldown Topics


  • [Chester] – Strongest look for Aja, I mean Adore 2.0
  • [Gary] –  Too little, too late
  • [Damon] – High School can suck

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Drama Slaps & Aja’s Runway
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… The gawd damn production crew
  • [Damon] – Snaps for… RuPaul’s crack at Farrah being born in 93
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Aja & Nina’s 9021-Oh no she better don’ts
  • [Chester] –  Snaps for… Sasha’s on-point look
  • [Chester] – Eyerolls for… Alexis and perfecting 90210

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Damon] – Shine when you can, or you just might lose
  • [Chester] – Numbers Game: Shea/Trinity w/ 2 wins
  • [Gary] – Eight remain, let the nitpicking begin

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