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COL383: All T, No Shade: Biphobia

col383In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we present a new series of shows. This one is called “All T, No Shade” and allows the hosts to provide a more frank opinion on some potentially polarizing subjects. For this first show, the cubs discuss biphobia. From our personal dealings with bisexuality to admitting our personal biphobic tendencies, the cubs keep it real about their feelings.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Pain in the Butt
  • Damon: Being Sick
  • Chester: Back in the USA
  • Gary: Living with parents

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GROWLr:

So I just finished listening to episode 374 of COL, and I’d just like to thank you Sir. It was a touching conversation and many good points were brought up in the discussion.

You are most welcome. I’ve been a longtime listener but during that episode the discussion shifted to include someone in my situation. Which unfortunately, I find is rarely addressed since for many it isn’t an issue.

I will say that y’all were spot on when discussing how many of my generation are more aware of who they are attracted to at a much younger age.

Oh, I would just like to thank you again, the podcast has helped me a lot over the years. Whether it was for entertainment (comedic or sexual), informative, or just something to detract from the loneliness.

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  • Biphobia definition: Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality and bisexual people as a social group or as individuals. People of any sexual orientation can experience or perpetuate such feelings of aversion. Biphobia is a source of discrimination against bisexual people, and may be based on negative bisexual stereotypes or irrational fear.
  • Bi-now, gay later.
  • Bisexuals are just plain selfish!
  • Is there Biphobia in the kink community?
  • I’m Bisexual, But I’m Not Buzzfeed Video:

  • Opinions on choosing the label of bisexual, how people act towards them, and personal experiences.

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COL378: State of the Podcast

COL378In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined again by Chester aka Shutter to discuss some feedback they’ve received from recent episodes. From marriage equality to men on the DL, listen in as the guys dig into some comments from our fans.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: DIABLO! And glasses.
  • Damon: It’s HOT and Suicide Squad
  • Gary: No Gamping but Bestie Time
  • Chester: Pokemon Go can go fuck itself. Brighton Pride. Personal life is being turned upside down.

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Re: COL376: WYR: International Edition

  • Andrew Ealy: Fun show… Made my long road trip more enjoyable!… FYI… Car over Fridge, Muzzle over Glasses, Book over Song, Tape over Tree, Speeding Tickets over Gas, Clean/Colonic over Dirty Toilet, Light Cold over Dark Warm, Facts over Emotions, Push over Pull, Wonder Woman over Batman,

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Re: COL372: LTAS: THE DL DEAL

  • chubnerdchaser:Really loved this episode! As someone who is one of the (mostly) D/L guys, it was good to hear more from the other side of the coin. Also really glad you touched on the type of D/L guys who aren’t “out” about being into chubs or bears, even if they’re otherwise out as gay. It’s one of my pet peeves! Keep up the great work!

Re: COL374: OTR: BEAR ORIGINS

  • chubnerdchaser: Highly recommend listening to at least 374 if you’re not a regular listener. It’s really good. I laughed, I cried, I got a semi. Thanks for recording it!

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State of the Podcast

New comment on your post “COL371: HNU: State of the Community2016″ From Jay

Email feedback from listener RJ:

Hello guys its RJ i thought it was easier to send an email rather than leave a very lengthy message in the comments section, first off one of my earliest experiences with a guy was the DL

Richard and I both worked at Meijer and as time went on we developed a relationship of sorts..which included messing around at work (how we were never caught is an honest to god miracle..LOL) then as time went on we would see each other outside of work once neither of us worked there he was of course married and neglected which his how and why things happened between us (btw even though he is still single we still mess around)

next up is Robert…I actually poached him from another mostly straight fuck buddy and Robert and I still mess around though once i did see him out in public and did not approach him as he was with his daughters girlfriend at the time and did not want to make things odd for him.

Oh i have also managed to play around currently with a guy from Chaturbate..hes married but has a really high sex drive for a man in his mid to late 50s…LOL

And you also asked if there were ever any guys we have hooked up with that were kind of odd or secretive about playing with them…actually Gary there are guys and mutual friends between us i have played with and that have asked for discretion..not sure if its due to me being more effeminate or what but its all about having a good time.

BTW..you had asked me about some show ideas Gary..i was thinking about dating deal breakers…or perhaps how apps are almost eliminating traditional dating..

Stalkers was another show topic i suggested

Thanks guys take care and keep up the good work

RJ

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COL375: Spoiler Alert!

COL375In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Damon takes a vacation leaving Jeff and Gary to hold things down. They invite guest hosts Shutter and RJ for a discussion on social media spoilers and more. Be forewarned as we spoil the shit of things.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Out of Podcasts
  • Gary: Sweaty mess
  • Chester: POKEMON GO! and RuPaul’s Drag Race

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Comment on 372:

  • Randall Stratton: Great show…I’ll have to email you my dl stories…perhaps even send pics…;)

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  • Randall  Stratton: Just a show idea…is it me or are a lot of guys looking for a relationship in 2 dates or less??

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • Spoilmaster: Someone who either intentionally, or unintentionally spoils the end of every book or movie.

Frank is such a spoilmaster. I hate it when he goes to see new movies first because he ruins it for everyone else.

Weekly Topic

  • Spoiler Memes 
  • TBRU Date Change

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COL336: ‘My Three Way Relationship’

COL336In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs have an interview with Jeff Leavell, writer of the Vice article we presented in a previous episode. We take time to discuss Jeff’s relationships and get an intimate portrait of the life he has made with Alex and Jon.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Nothing.
  • Damon – My Birthday
  • Gary – NO PSL Mess Ups

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Re: COL333: LTAK: Chastity

Randall Stratton: great episode…as always

Urbandictionary with Gary

threesome – every man’s dream

Billy Bob’s only desire before he passed away, was to participate in a threesome.

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Interview with Jeff Levell

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COL214: Power Prepping . . . or something like that.

shitshowershaveOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys discuss power prepping…for a date. So drop your shorts, take a shower, and listen!

What the F Did We Do This Week

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Bear Underground: steveybee23

Topic: Power Prepping: How do you prepare for a date? [From William Haight]

This Weeks Poll: How do you prepare for a date?

  • Full Flush and Go (Enema included)
  • Three S’s (Shit, Shower & Shave only)
  • I don’t ‘prep’, I’m a dirty pig
  • Buy Condoms and Lube
  • Haircut and a button down shirt
  • Charge my phone so I can Growlr for someone better if it sucks

Last Week’s Poll: What was your life altering moment?

Love on Craigslist – Bringing the Best of Love and Lust to You

  • [Eric] The pics are YOU – m4m
  • [Damon] Phone oof – 24 (Oahu)
  • [Gary] Free Sexy Photo Shoot Offer

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