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COL678: LTAF: New Year, New Dishes

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. As the new year has begun, the guys are already hungry for something different. With a new year comes new food trends, and the cubs whet their appetites on the current cravings. Which foods are they hungry for and which ones will they pass on?

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Let’s Talk About Food: New Year, New Dishes

Each year we find new food trends grabbing our collective attention. Of course there’s some new stuff coming up in 2023 that we probably have some thoughts on. Plus, we have a whole year of eating ahead of us. What are we looking forward to this year that isn’t the same old same old?

 

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COL600: Achievement Unlocked, Now What?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys have reached yet another milestone: 600 EPISODES!!! From its humble beginnings to the forging of new frontiers as the show becomes one of the longest running bear podcasts ever, listen in as the cubs share some stats about its 13 year history.

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Recognizing achieving the 600 episodes of Cubs Out Loud.

Some Original Series Stats are:

Patreon Update

Potential Future Topics

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COL592: What’s Going On – February 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. This month, the guys get snowed in and deal with some wintery fatigue. From binging shows and geeking out over DnD, listen as the cubs bring you up to speed as we continue through the 2nd month of 2021.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  It Was A Cold-Hearted State
  • Damon: 2nd Verse, Same as the First! 
  • Gary:  February Fatigue

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Facebook Likes:

  • Gian Carlo Durland
  • Dominic Joseph
  • Chris Armo Dmirjian
  • Patrick Temple
  • Eric Jenkins

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Robert Miller – Happy 13th guys
  • Joshua R. Pangborn – Happy Anniversary!

Instagram Followers

  • I2cngo2002
  • Mattkyle9
  • richardmu

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Ju Glar

YouTube Comment:

  • COL589: Losing Our ‘Gay’ Space  
    • Eduardo Maciel: Top left corner bear has no audio. 
    • Oan R.: Waiting to see if Jeff’s audio was fixed. 
  • COL Gaming – WOW: Covenant Transmogs
    • Ridouan Roukbane: Good game

Twitter Followers

  • @zhangbi29030433
  • @UKHairyBear1992
  • @bearpig1781
  • @ericwood48231
  • @pdx_new
  • @Rich_Cub
  • @Abel73164833

Recent Shows

  • COL588: WGO – January 2020 
  • COL589: Losing Our ‘Gay’ Spaces
  • COL590: HAH: The Event
  • COL591: LTAS: Orgasm vs Ejaculation

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COL561: LTAS: Asking and Receiving

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this episode, the guys are joined again by COL Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss the concept of asking and receiving. As we explore romantic relationships, the cubs review negotiations, consent, and getting your needs met and fulfilled. Also sandwiches, pizzas, and tea and what they mean in the grand scheme of things (Don’t worry Gary, there’s no food play involved).

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Let’s Talk About Sex – Asking and Receiving

  • Why is it so hard to ask for something during sex?
  • Are you being rude if you don’t show appreciation for the other participant during sex?
  • What do you do if you wanted a blow job but they aren’t doing that thing that you really like when you are getting a blowjob?  You know that thing…

The Good Touch Games….Drenched Fur….Gabe and Edward

Consent 

  • “An agreement between two parties who are about to engage in sexual activity”-RAINN
  • Consent is just as much about no as it is about yes.  
  • Consent is about both parties getting what they want
  • Consent Tea Video 

Asking 

    • Asking leads to intimacy

Receiving 

  • Periodic Checking in (Verbal and non-verbal)
  • How to receive (Compliment Sandwich)
  • Show appreciation 
  • Room for improvement 
  • Show appreciation again
  • Repeat till orgasm (if that is what you want on your pizza)

NPR Safe Sex Communication Skills and COVID-19 Social Bubbles

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COL515: What’s Going On – June 2019

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the month of June. This time around, the guys talk about butt stuff, and dungeons, and sexual positions and more….Wait, is this an episode of Let’s Talk About Kink? Not really.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Night Shift & Dragons
  • Damon: Job News & Colonoscopy & Yesterday
  • Gary: New Stuff is Rough

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  • Steven Maxwell
  • สามารถ สมาธาร [Thai – Able to Stream]
  • Anwar Lordsire

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  • bronparty

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  • @jkiykvgi
  • @PardueJeffery ‏
  • @cockeyekink ‏ 
  • @cenlapup ‏
  • @thetalentedpen1 ‏
  • @Lukys3189 ‏
  • @vidaeuorg ‏
  • @RealMenFullBush ‏
  • @Tend2DillyDally ‏

Recent Shows

  • COL511: WTG – May 2019
  • FB215: Black Shirt Friday
  • COL512: What is. . . Pride?
  • COL513: 50 Years From Now
  • COL514: Trans Bear Listener

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Name: Howard N

Message: Hey guys. Wanted to write an email. Pride month is coming up and I wanted to talk a little bit about it, if I may. Pride can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, and I know the holiday is more specifically concerning lgbt+ persons, but I wanted to say a little bit about what Pride is to me. My coming out is a little different from regular coming outs, with bits being thing that are the same. I remember being so ashamed of who I am, as my background was heavily influenced by the Christian religion. I remember my first boyfriend, and the way he sat on my bed in my college paid apartment room and stated, “I’m not shy”. And the way I walked toward the bed and sat down and being instantly drawn to be felt against his body as he kissed my forehead. Cut forward a bit, I remember being angry with my mother on the phone after the day I had come out to her when she had come down for a visit. I remember feeling like she no longer understood me after years of being close (I was 20 at the time). Cut forward a bit more to a Kohl’s clothing store. I remember my first ex telling me to stop following him around as we were walking around the store. Cut to nights of feeling heartbroken and being taken advantage of. Cut to following relationships with guys and wanting to find somebody like him and me wanting to find someone I felt comfortable with again cause I no longer felt at home under the same roof with my mom. Cut to my self-hate and resentment at myself for getting so emotionally attached to people that I can’t let go, they hang around like ghosts in my head. Cut to the realization that my self-hate was more than just the fact that I was gay. And cut to me learning about Neurodiversity and autism. And how suicide ideation is more common in autistics who mask their neurology to suit the needs of the many. And to me realizing why I have such a hard time with understanding the dynamics of relationships. Being autistic is a lot like being gay in the fact that you don’t want to come out of the closet, even when everybody can tell there’s something different about you, wrong even. All through school I wanted to be like others so bad. I did weird stupid stuff to try and fit in with the social norms. But there’s a constant anxiety, and as you grow older, the anxiety turns into what’s called a mental illness (meaning you can be so afraid to the point of paranoia). This paranoia comes around particularly with people I like because I want so bad for them to like me and am so afraid of losing. Friends have lost connection, romantic relationships go sour…….I don’t want this anymore. I don’t want to be ashamed of who I am, the way I act and think differently from others, the way I react or my stimming (a term for autistics to explain the things they do to cope with stress). I want to stop being afraid of being social and being taken the wrong way. I take Pride in the fact that I am wired differently. (Btw, the symbol for Neurodiversity is a rainbow infinity)

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Gents,

Thank you all for doing this show. I so greatly respect your willingness to be public and open about your learning and growth; it’s not easy. The trans community is so important to me (a close partner is trans, long story), and I’m always so happy to see continued growth in the acceptance and support of our trans siblings. More learning for me too.

Some thoughts that crossed my mind while listening:

  • I think Jeff had a great idea; more trans porn! Lots of learning (up close and personal) to be had with more porn. No harm, lots of education, no one feeling under the microscope.
  • I think a guest on the show to talk more about the trans experience is a great idea. And while I love Hadrian, I feel like despite his breadth of experience (no shade!), it should really be a trans-masculine bear to discuss it in more depth.
  • A podcast recently came out called Two Headed Girl, where a trans-masculine person discusses a lot of issues around their transition. The two hosts are great. Might not be the kind of focused piece that’s helpful but it’s a wonderfully personal show.

Anyway, just random listener thoughts. Thanks again for keeping me company.

Best,

/Chris G

New comment on your post “COL513: 50 Years Later”

Author: Patrick B. (bostonareabear) 

Next on COL – episode 3133 (50 years from now in 2069) We will hear Hadrian read from his latest short story titled “Get off my lawn and get into my Craftmatic Adjustable Bed!”

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