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COL422: LTAS: Playspace Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this topic, we start the discussion about playspace etiquette. Listen in as we give the dos and don’ts about your favorite back bar space, dark room, bathhouse, frolic and mingle rooms. So, should you enter a playroom chatting on your cellphone while eating a plate of nachos?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Back in Action/W Bear
  • Damon: Glamping Trip
  • Chester: Apt Approved, packing, and Evan’s first drive-in
  • Gary: July is here!

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  • Ches Clark SHOW NOTE [re: COL421]: I realized after the fact that I didn’t get in the whole story about my birthday dinner. (I think I cut myself off because I felt like I was monopolizing and rambling on.) That being said, I wanted to make a small addendum, especially given that I was giving someone who wasn’t present to defend himself a bit of a hard time. Brady *did* sincerely apologize for initiating the song and spectacle debacle as part of owning up to it, and had no idea beforehand that I was so vehemently opposed to that sort of public display. He truly did feel terrible about it afterward, but I was just in no mood to hear it at the time. He was just trying to be playful and funny, and so for those who might be worried about him getting “two black marks in my little book,” have no fear–most of that accounting business is tongue-in-cheek. Brady and I are very much okay with each other. Cheers!
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Article from Bear World Magazine website interview re: the W Bear app

Let’s Talk About Sex: Playspace Etiquette

  • You may/will be seen/watched – not possible to be invisible
  • Always be respectful
  • Consent needs to be given, whether subtle or pronounced
  • You know what is best for yourself, not anyone else
  • Keep safety in mind, yours and everyone else’s
  • Be courteous to others in the space
  • Prepare yourself; mentally and physically

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COLDRAS: S2E07: Family That Drags Together

coldras-s2e7In this week’s episode of COL Drag Race T-Time, Gary, Damon and Chester breakdown this emotionally sickening show. As family come to the workroom, the drama kicks it into high gear just in time for the finale. Sistuhs these gurls are not, as it’s every queen for herself! Who becomes the rotten fruit on this family tree?

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 2 Episode 7

  • Maxi Challenge: Drag Family Vogueing
  • Runway/Main Stage: Drag Royal Family

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: Makeovers….again
  • [Damon]: There’s a definite vibe…
  • [Chester]: Alyssa looks concerned

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: It’s the Emotional Challenge
  • [Damon]: Rising to the Challenge
  • [Chester]: Alaska wins! Power to the people?

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Stars Burn Out
  • [Damon]: Real family can matter
  • [Chester]: Katya should be VERY concerned

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Detox’s Vogue
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Alaska.
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Katya’s Mother
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for…Alaska’s trainwreck
  • [Chester]: Snaps for… The Moms!
  • [Chester]: Eyerolls for… Fuck RoLaskaTox?

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Krazy vs Rolaskatox
  • [Damon]: Who Do You Think Will Win?
  • [Chester]: Team Katya

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COL386: Fan Interview: Cisco Salgado

col386In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by fan Cisco for an interview and to take time to discuss another medical study we found. The cubs talk about Cisco’s life and the Bearing Bodies report. What did the guys agree and disagree with about the study and what insight can our new “expert” provide?

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  • Jeff: House-athon
  • Damon: Some C&A and Some R&J
  • Gary: Busy weekend
  • Cisco: Balloon Fiesta

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Fan/guest interview show! Cisco Salgado

Bearing Bodies: Physical Activity, Obesity Stigma, and Sexuality in the Bear Community

Shaun E. Edmonds, University of Maryland and Susan G. Zieff, San Francisco State University

This study explores the ways in which Bears negotiate physical activity and body image within the ostensibly fat-positive Bear community.

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COLDRAS: S2E02: All Star Snatch Game

COLDRAS-S2E2In this week’s episode of COL Drag Race, Today’s category is… Snatch Game! For this emotionally charged episode, the guys begin to talk about the game itself and the highs and lows of being an All-Star. Do these gurls have what it takes to snatch the crown? It’s a Ru-capping Eleganza.

Weekly Topic

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 2 Episode 2

  • Challenge: Snatch Game
  • Runway/Main Stage: Latex Eleganza

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: The drama returns
  • [Damon]: Impress each other
  • [Chester]: One week you’re up, the next week you’re down

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Underestimating
  • [Damon]: How do you play the game?
  • [Chester]: Why are you queens not ready?

Cooldown Topics

Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Tapping Out; Mentally and Physically
  • [Damon]: RuPaul’s speech
  • [Chester]: Is Ro-laska-tox still alive?

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Alyssa’s Joan Crawford as Faye Dunaway, Detox’s Runway Look
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Phi Phi’s Runway Look, Roxxy’s Alaska 5000
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Alaska’s Mae West/RuPaul’s look
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for… Tatianna and Roxxxy’s Snatch Game
  • [Chester]: Snaps for… Michelle. Detox’s runway.
  • [Chester]: Eyerolls for… Phi Phi playing “the game”

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Let’s Move On
  • [Damon]: “Don’t be sorry, be fierce” -RuPaul.
  • [Chester]: I am dying to know what’s happening to the eliminated queens.

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COL333: LTAK: Chastity

keep-calm-and-love-chastity-3In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, It’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. The cubs are joined by guest hosts Bruce, Shutter, and Rockcub as we discuss chastity. From keeping your cock locked to keeping your hands off, we run through the different dynamics of chastity.

 

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  • Jeff – Third Server is feels pretty good
  • Damon – Moving along nicely/Pup Contest
  • Gary – NOLA
  • Chester –  First full month of living in London. Adjusting to school, I hate my classmates, and having a blast going to all the free art museums.  Next weekend we are going to BearScots!

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Urbandictionary with Jeffery

itisThe drowsy sleepy feeling you get after eating a large meal. Usual meals like big Sunday dinners, Thanksgiving and Christmas meals.

Man that itis done got me. I’m fixin’ to take a nap.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Chastity

Butt Chastity

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