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COL636: LoR: Love Languages

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

Show Topic

Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

  1. Words of Affirmation 
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service 
  4. Gifts
  5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

  • Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
  • Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
  • Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
  • Give Giving: Give me a sign
  • Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

  • Infodumping
  • Parallel Play
  • Support Swapping
  • Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
  • “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

BDSM and Love Languages  

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COL504: What’s Going On – March 2019

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On episode for the month of March. Here, the guys talk about work, dating and the 90s, as well as an itch that desperately needs to be scratched! Also, feedback, porn stars, and an emotional cameo make the month of March quite intriguing.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: 2nd date, and an itch
  • Damon: Putting on a Show/Work Improvements
  • Gary: Work, Werk, and Woke?

Facebook Likes:

  • Cliff Jumper Jr.
  • Sean Wyse
  • Clint Maillig

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Re: COL500: Cisco Salgado – Congratulations on 500 episodes and thanks a lot for the shout out Damon 😃. I’m honored to be part of COL history
  • Re: COL502: Eric G. – Personally I’d just like to see some new development. There hasn’t been anything added to the app in ages. I still like it for now and will wait and see what happens.

Instagram Followers:

  • Biobehr38
  • Breakthestereotype.info
  • puptibbers

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Jason Johns
  • Robert Fischer
  • Wes

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL501: bossmrg – Everyone looking great! Hope you all feel great!
  • Re: COL502: oscar orozco orejel – My fear is it’s gonna be like tumblr where after it got bought off it just gets worse and worse and eventually killed by its own incompetence
  • Re: COL503: oscar orozco orejel – I wonder if boon cotter means he’s s top

Tumblr Followers:

  • dickdormx
  • kent1191
  • southern-ginger48
  • dionray69
  • borg1990
  • wjsycl

Patreon:

  • Eric [from the Telegram Chat]
  • Li

Twitter Followers:

  • @Herusap09059946 ‏
  • @DCubster ‏
  • @gyedinak ‏
  • @bearlymichigan ‏
  • @Breadwinner_Lit ‏
  • @csiren6809 ‏
  • @racks244 ‏
  • @Walteralven1 ‏
  • @0x90bear ‏
  • @GaryMaccarone ‏
  • @_nostereotype_ ‏
  • @monkeybeetees ‏
  • @ajapa2001 ‏
  • @lovedabear1 ‏
  • @Saltydogusn ‏
  • @rufus278 ‏
  • @WOOFGUYLTD ‏
  • @UnderBearTN ‏

Recent Shows

  • COL500: 500th Milestone!
  • COL501: LTAS: Bathhouse Etiquette
  • COL502: HNU: GROWLr Acquisition
  • COL503: Gayming Characters

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Drag Race

COLDR: AS4E09: Sex and the Kitty Girl

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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, we’re almost to the end! Listen in as Gary and Damon spill all the tea as the queens act their way through a sexy city mockumentary and purr down the runway in their best cat couture. Which queens make it to the finale and which kitty takes a catnap?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 4

Sex and the Kitty Girl Challenge:

  • [Damon] – What…was…this?
  • [Gary] – YIkes…

Runway:

  • [Damon] – Kitty whuh….
  • [Gary] – Predictable, Original, and Confusing Couture

Lip Sync for Your Legacy:

  • [Damon] – Cute and Fun…
  • [Gary] – A Classic and True Lip Sync

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Monet/Monique’s runway
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Latrice’s Delusion
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… The Return of the Hall of Fame Queens
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Michelle’s ‘Mouse Ears’ Comment – It’s Pink Panther Bitch!

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COL443: BEAR: Staying Healthy

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In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we get a little dirty as we have another BEAR show (Bear Experience Action Readiness). In preparation of Midwest Bearfest, the guys talk about maintaining your health during a run. From keeping yourself from getting kennel cough to helping in the prevention of run drop, the cubs exchange some fluids information on how to better prepare for your health.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Shopping is done.
  • Damon: Ready for a vacation.
  • Chester: Cat is sick, interview, Columbus Zoo
  • Gary: December is here?!?

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Facebook Likes:

  • Ray Wallen
  • Terry Carl-Johns

Facebook Comment/Post:

  • Re: COL441: The Fall of Gay Bars – Jay Yospa: Enjoyed this. I keep an extinct bar list of the places I’ve gone to that are no longer there

YouTube Comment:

  • Re: COL421: Couples Age Differences – FURinTeeth: 27yrs apart here, together coming up on 15yrs together.

Blog Comment:

Re: COL442: ATNS: Feedback:

  • Chris: Thank you so much for having this episode! I love that you didn’t sweep it under the rug and called out exclusionary thinking. Done with sass and strength and compassion. Thank you for rocking the boat.
  • James Butterfield: Hey guys, just ordered my COL shirt!  And just to make Jeff happy, I also bought a mug!
  • J-Mo:
    • 1.  I’m glad you like my 12 inch vinyl singles from Janet Jackson and Whitney Houston!  I have another wall devoted to Jody Watley, Patti LaBelle, Madonna and Michael Jackson.
    • 2.  Sorry about the scoutmaster socks and the sneakers, that’s just something I like, one of my kinks is the BSA uniform (as you’ve previously mentioned, thank you again, BTW, THAT full video is available on the aforementioned xtube)
    • 3.  Gary, I’m glad I’ve managed to get back in your good graces, my apologies for anything that might have put you off previously…  🙂

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  • Fierybiscuts – RE: COL442: ATNS Feedback – “Gosh I love this podcast. :D”

Show Topic

BEAR: Staying Healthy: How to be prepare for a successful experience mentally, physically, spiritually.

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