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COL732: WGO: February 2024

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of February. As winter draws to a close and love is in the air, listen in as the cubs talk about bear runs and going up, down and back again for more. The guys bring you up to speed as they continue their training on the skills.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: The Once and Future Trainer
  • Damon: NABW 2024 / 20 V-Days
  • Gary: Up, Down, and Back Again

CDC Adult Vaccination Schedule online PDF

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  • Happy 6 Year Anniversary to Cubster level Patron Charles! They joined 3/4/18 and we thank them for six years of dedication and support.
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  • BIG BEAR CUB HUGS to our Patrons: 
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Recent Shows

  • COL728: WGO: January ‘24
  • COL729: LTA… The Love Bug
  • COL730: LoR: Tolerance vs Acceptance
  • COL731: Bears in the Future

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COL688: LoR: Sexual Desire

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Landscape of Relationships. Dr. Edward Angelini-Cooke joins the cubs again to discuss sexual desire. While not a usual LoR topic, it can be part of the conversation. Listen as Ed speaks on the complicated definition of sexual desire, where it comes from, and what impacts it in our day-to-day lives.

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Landscape of Relationships: Sexual Desire

First, sexual desire is complicated. 

  • Is it an emotion? Yes
  • Is it a motivation? Yes
  • Is it a state of being? Yes
  • Is it required to have sex? Not necessarily

Sexual desire is the interest (or lack of interest) toward engaging in sexual activity.  This presents itself with thoughts, feelings, and fantasies.   Some people look at sexual desire existing on a spectrum from disgust to neutral to excited.

One way I have heard sexual desire described is akin to hunger.  And I like this analogy for a few reasons that we will discuss.  

Let’s go back to the idea of a smorgasbord….let’s imagine that there is not a Golden Corral that can hold the variety of sexual desire (Rule 34 of the Internet).  So when we talk about sexual desire, the limit does not seem to exist.  

What impacts sexual desire?

  • Biology/Evolution
    • Age can be a factor, Propagation of the species (sex as a reward); amygdala (emotional center) and hypothalamus (responsible for sexual arousal) Men’s desire is more based on visual cues when compared to women, cued interest “we don’t know why we desire something” v. uncued interest “has an origin story”; the “absolute territory” (Japanese zettai ryouiki), the band of skin between the bottom of the end of the skirt and the top of the socks.  Disclaimer: this is based on statistics and not all human behavior can be reduced to statistics.  If this isn’t your experience, it does not mean you are not valid.  
  • Medical
    • Low testosterone, heart disease, Cancer, physical pain, psychotropic medications
  • Relational
    • Relationship conflict, and sexual scripts 
  • Intergenerational
    • Abuse and religiosity and culture 
  • Psychological
    • Anxiety, Unhelpful body/sexual narratives, other sexual disorders
  • Social
    • Cultural sexual narratives and scripts 

“For most of Western Civilization low sexual desire has been a goal, not a problem.” – David Schnarch 

  • In a sex negative world, no wonder people are so confused about their sexual desires or lack thereof.  Remember the sexual smorgasbord idea?  If dominating cultural narratives created the smorgasbord, then there would only be a few options for a few people….the rest would be closed.

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COL631: What’s Going On – December 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of December. With winter blues and holiday tunes, listen in as the guys wind down the year 2021 and look ahead into 2022. Find out how the frosty, frigid last month of the year affected the cubs (mostly because it wasn’t).

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: BEST D&D EVAAAAR!!!!!
  • Damon: Cincinnati Leather, CMC Holiday LIVE, Holiday Lulls
  • Gary: Ending, Transitioning, Beginning

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  • COL629: It’s the Holiday Season – Oan. R.: The day wasn’t just chosen. Christmas, like a lot of other Christian holidays, appropriates a lot of things from pagan rituals and beliefs most likely because they wanted to cater the holiday to encompass other’s rituals (stopping now because I really don’t want to get anybody in trouble with the Christian’s)

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Recent Shows

  • COL627: WGO – November 2021
  • COL628: LoR: In-laws
  • COL629: It’s the Holiday Season
  • COL630: Jingle Mingle

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COL588: What’s Going On – January 2021

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of January. This month, the guys talk about their roleplaying activities during the first month of 2021 (say what?!?). From political transitions to vaccinations, the cubs celebrate all things new in the new year.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff:  Lack of Motivation except for WoW
  • Damon: Some Time Off/D&D Machine  
  • Gary:  One Month into 2021

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  • @eactherapyllc mentioned you in a comment: Had the great pleasure of speaking with @cubsoutloud about “Authenticity”. Stay tuned for more information! #authenticty #brenebrown #therapy #vulnerability #psychotherapy #courage #empathy #compassion
  • @acruz197421 commented: Wishing you all and your families a Merry Christmas as well as a joyous New Year.

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  • COL587: Happy 13th!  
    • By TheNaishproductions: Age has been kind to you three. Woof.
    • By dindin mooshi: Gary’s wig was serving ABBA like dancing queen.
  • COL586: What is. . . Authenticity? 
    • By Berty Bertface: Great show again guys. Being authnetic is the fastest way to know who your people are and those that aren’t. Not everyone has to like you and not everyone will. People pleasing only attracts users. This in no way advocates being horrible to anyone, just be open, honest, and extrememly mindful of own heart and who you choose to give it to.
    • By dindin mooshi: I have to say i rolled my eyes when i read the title of this episode but i’m glad i watched, i disagree on some points on the concept of authenticity based on the definition mentioned because it sounded like “in a perfect world” type of a statement, and I don’t believe saying it’s a “choice” is fare because then other factors come to play like age, time and social status, nonetheless it’s an interesting topic, and i like it when ED is around. P.S. Garry laughs like Nicki Minaj, it’s giving very much roman revenge, and the answer is YES to that question Garry
  • COL585: ATNS: LGBTQ Being Messy 
    • By Berty Bertface: It’s a real shame that the there are adults who continuously refuse to think rationally and with compassion until it’s too late. And they’re not only rolling the dice for themselves but every single person they are in close proximity to. Selfish is as selfish does i guess? Hang in there guys the vaccine is coming, sadly only for COVID and not for stupidity.

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Recent Shows

  • COL583: WGO – December 2020 
  • COL584: 2020 Year in Review
  • COL585: ATNS: LGBTQ Being Messy
  • COL586: What is. . . Authenticity?
  • COL587: 13 Years

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COL432: Summer Hits ’17

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs celebrate the end of summer with another Summer Hits show. The guys humbly present to you our wild thoughts on some unforgettable hits. Are the guys believers in these songs and providing congratulations or will they tell them to hit the back road?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Star Trekin’
  • Damon: Ginger Minj!!
  • Chester: Life Sucks but I at least I’m enjoying my job.
  • Gary: Work is work, DF14 planning begins, Cincy again!

Did I Do That?

Jeff: Paw’d toe

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  • Met James in Lexington last night!

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  • COL427: LTAK: Flogging – Ches Clark A pal said we look like a K-pop group. 

  • COL430: Labor Gays – Henry Mazade Sometimes a man in a suit will turn my head especially if his pants are real tight and you can see an outline of his goods. Working in home improvement I always enjoyed contractors who would come in with holes in their pants at the right spots or they come in commando showing the head of their cock. Always a good time for drooling. Great for fantasies
    • Tony Bossaller In general, the uniform is what it portrays in a guy. I’ve seen some blue collar and white collar which are both awesome.  Blue collar just tends to be a big snug. White collar can be made tailored to be even moreso.
    • Jeremiah Adams Blue collar.
    • Pugsley Michael Urness Oh yes. An average guy in a military uniform is much more likely to get my gaze..
  • COL431: OTR: Amusement Park – Cisco Salgado I will definitely watch later. Now, we are celebrating our wedding anniversary. Hugs for all the cubs.
    • Chester Beltowski We had some technical difficulties with the sound, but eventually it got ironed out. -chester
    • Cisco Salgado No wonder! I started watching but couldn’t hear anything and then we started brunching. I’m glad it got fixed

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  • GBearTrekker65: @cubsoutloud The Twitter link @WoodsCampground is indeed where Bear City 3 was filmed. I was there the Saturday they showed it by the pool.

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Weekly Topic

Billboards Summer Songs ‘17

The summer’s most popular songs across all, based on cumulative performance on the weekly Billboard Hot 100 chart from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Rankings are determined by radio airplay audience impressions as measured by Nielsen BDS, sales data as compiled by Nielsen and streaming activity data from online music sources tracked by Nielsen BDS.

  1. Despacito – Luis Fonsi & Daddy Yankee Featuring Justin Bieber
  2. That’s What I LikeBruno Mars
  3. I’m The One – DJ Khaled Featuring Justin Bieber, Quavo, Chance The Rapper & Lil Wayne
  4. Wild Thoughts – DJ Khaled Featuring Rihanna & Bryson Tiller
  5. Shape Of YouEd Sheeran
  6. Believer Imagine Dragons
  7. HUMBLE.Kendrick Lamar
  8. Unforgettable – French Montana Featuring Swae Lee
  9. Body Like A Back RoadSam Hunt
  10. Congratulations – Post Malone Featuring Quavo

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