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COL636: LoR: Love Languages

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined once again by Edward Angelini-Cooke to continue our Landscape of Relationships series. In this episode, the guys show how they feel the love within the five love languages. From learning what the languages are to sharing their results, listen in as the guys gift us some touching acts of quality words to help understand how these languages affirm the love and affection one can feel for their loved ones. In addition, learn more about more recent developments in the love languages from neurodivergent to kink play dynamics.

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Landscape of Relationships: Love Languages

Love Languages (Gary Chapman):

  1. Words of Affirmation 
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service 
  4. Gifts
  5. Physical Touch 

The 5 Love Languages (according to Britney, Bitch!):

  • Physical Touch: My loneliness is killing me
  • Words of Affirmation: I must confess I still believe
  • Quality Time: When I’m not with you I lose my mind
  • Give Giving: Give me a sign
  • Acts of Service: Hit me baby one more time

The 5 Neurodivergent Love Languages:

  • Infodumping
  • Parallel Play
  • Support Swapping
  • Please Crush My Soul Back into My Body
  • “I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it”

Comparison of Results:

Gary Chapman, PhD, 1992, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts 

Fear not: John Gottman and the Gottman approach, which I reference often, is a good overlap with the 5 languages of love….and allows some flexibility with the concepts.

BDSM and Love Languages  

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COLDR: S13E16: RPDR Grand Finale

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon have reached the end of Season 13 as they recap the Grand Finale!! In this hybrid pandemic-fueled finale, listen in as the guys spill the tea as the top 4 sashay, shimmy, and slay their way to the crown. With sickening looks and legendary lipsyncs, which queen has all the charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent to snatch the crown?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – Hybrid Version 2021

  • [Damon] – I’m Not Sure How I Feel…
  • [Gary] – Familiar Yet Awkward

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Black & White, Red All Over, & Grande Finale Eleganza Extravaganza

  • [Damon] – Where Did They Get the Coint?
  • [Gary] – Everybody Was Serving [mostly]

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… The Tribute to Chi Chi
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Olay Body-ody-ody
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… The Opening Number 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Weirdness on Display
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COLDR: S13E13: Henny, I Shrunk the Drag Queens

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon reach into their hot pockets as the queens live their sci-fi fantasy in an acting challenge. The guys share their tiny thoughts and give pocketfuls of shade and tea. Which queens make it to the final lap as the top 4?

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Sharing any feedback on the prior week’s shows or other comments

YouTube Comment:

  • COLDR S11E03: Diva Worship
    • Michael Ewing: “If I were on Rajah’s team, I would choose Cher because of Chad Michaels, Madonna or Lady Gaga” & “RuPaul should’ve made them apologize to Mariah Carey for that performance”

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – Acting Challenge Redux

  • [Damon] – You Gotta Take Risks  
  • [Gary] – It’s About Growth

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Haute Pocket

  • [Damon] – What’s in the Pocket?
  • [Gary] – Glow Ups and a Week 1 Throwback

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Rose’ Rising
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Gottmik’s Revelation on Trans Barbie/Ken & Scarlett Johansson Married Colin Jost!!
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Predictability 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… The Outcome, She’s Bound for All Stars
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COLDR: AS5E01: All Star Variety Extravaganza

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon are back again as All Stars returns for its time around the track. As the queens from past seasons compete for a place in the Hall of Fame, they sure are thrown for a loop this season. Listen in as the guys get critical on the queens as they werq the stage with their many talents. Which queen has to lip sync for her legacy and what other twists and turns await the racers?

NOTE: Our apologies for the freezing cams and the abrupt cutoff of the end of the show. Not sure what happened there.

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 5

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Reading Mini-Challenge and Werq the World Variety Extravaganza Show Main Challenge

  • [Damon] – Some Faves/Some Disasters
  • [Gary] – Who’s Producing Whom?

Stomp the Runway:

No Runway Theme?

  • [Damon] – I Expected More 
  • [Gary] – Huh…

Lip Sync for Your Life:

Bottom Two: Derrick Barry and Mayhem Miller

Top Two…Wait, The Top Queen is. . . India Farrah

The Lip Sync Assassin is. . . Yvie Oddly 

“Livin La Vida Loca” by Ricky Martin 

  • [Damon] – Funky Twist
  • [Gary] – My my my…

Derrick Barry sashays away

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for…RICKY MARTIN!/India Slaying 
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Talent Abounds
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Hey Derrick 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Drama Wah-ma
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COLDR: S11E02: Good God Girl, Get Out

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, it’s Lights, Camera, Action! The queens parody box-office smash hits and stomp the runway in their zodiac couture! Gary and Damon go to the movies and give their critique on the queens’ attempts to make movie magic! Which queen ends up on the cutting room floor?

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 11

Mini Challenge:

  • [Damon] –  Ummm…that was a choice
  • [Gary] – Extreme Limits? Never Hearda Her

Maxi Challenge:

  • [Damon] – Take Direction/Acting Lessons
  • [Gary] – Some Got It, Some Don’t

Stomp the Runway:

  • [Damon] – Step it up
  • [Gary] – Leave Prints Behind or Wear Them

Let It All Hang Out Hunty:

  • [Damon] – Size is NOT an excuse
  • [Gary] – Drama with Resolution

Lip Sync for Your Life:

  • [Damon] – Someone shines, someone fades…
  • [Gary] – It Felt Oddly Normal

Snaps & Eyerolls:

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Scarlet’s Acting
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Little Boy in a Dress, Why You Cryin’?
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… All of Nina’s Faces
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Ditto…What She Said

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