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COL647: Consent in 2022

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys return to a previous topic. It’s been almost five years since they produced episodes on Consent and Respect. So here in 2022, a number of years later, it’s time to revisit this important conversation. Since the COVID-19 pandemic, it seems that people are living their most bold lives when it comes to opinions and actions. The US political landscape is looking divisive between the majority conservative and progressive parties. How much do the cubs think the practice of recognizing and giving consent plays a factor outside of kink and sexual activities? Have any of their thoughts changed in the years since the previous debate?

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Consent in 2022

Con·sent   /kənˈsent/

  • Noun
      • noun: consent; plural noun: consents
      • permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.
  • Verb
    • verb: consent; 3rd person present: consents; past tense: consented; past participle: consented; gerund or present participle: consenting
    • give permission for something to happen.
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COLDR: S13E04: RuPaulmark Channel

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon change the channel as all 13 queens come together to spread some holiday cheer. As the Winner’s Circle and the Pork Chop Queens clash, which ones keep the audience applauding and which queens have them reaching for the remote. Listen in as the guys share their trains of thought on the first elimination of the season.

WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts

  • [Damon] – We’re Gathered Together to Slay?
  • [Gary] – All Together Now, Beat It Toots

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Trains for Days

  • [Damon] – Interesting Takes and Some Mistakes
  • [Gary] –  Some Wows and Some Owws..

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Symone is Serving IT!
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Utica’s “Have you ever toked?” Response
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… When Does She Shut Up?
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for…  Stop Making the Boy Toy a thing
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COLDR: S10E13: Reunited

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Chester and Gary are back to discuss the now infamous reunion of Season 10 queens. From the Vixen walkout and Asia’s tears, to Monique’s callout of Kameron’s reaction, they have plenty to say!

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WEEKLY TOPIC

RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 10

Playback Moments:

  • [Chester] – We could have been here all night!
  • [Gary] – The night of so many hashtags #SeasonOneMotherRuIsBack #MeJesusGlitterAndRhinestones  #MinistryOfDrag

Snatched:

  • [Chester] – Extreme ends of confrontation: Kameron vs The Vixen
  • [Gary] – Sisters that support each other…?

Last Call:

  • [Chester] – I don’t care who wins, let’s get it over with…
  • [Gary] – Manufactured winner?

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COL422: LTAS: Playspace Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex! For this topic, we start the discussion about playspace etiquette. Listen in as we give the dos and don’ts about your favorite back bar space, dark room, bathhouse, frolic and mingle rooms. So, should you enter a playroom chatting on your cellphone while eating a plate of nachos?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Back in Action/W Bear
  • Damon: Glamping Trip
  • Chester: Apt Approved, packing, and Evan’s first drive-in
  • Gary: July is here!

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  • Ches Clark SHOW NOTE [re: COL421]: I realized after the fact that I didn’t get in the whole story about my birthday dinner. (I think I cut myself off because I felt like I was monopolizing and rambling on.) That being said, I wanted to make a small addendum, especially given that I was giving someone who wasn’t present to defend himself a bit of a hard time. Brady *did* sincerely apologize for initiating the song and spectacle debacle as part of owning up to it, and had no idea beforehand that I was so vehemently opposed to that sort of public display. He truly did feel terrible about it afterward, but I was just in no mood to hear it at the time. He was just trying to be playful and funny, and so for those who might be worried about him getting “two black marks in my little book,” have no fear–most of that accounting business is tongue-in-cheek. Brady and I are very much okay with each other. Cheers!
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Article from Bear World Magazine website interview re: the W Bear app

Let’s Talk About Sex: Playspace Etiquette

  • You may/will be seen/watched – not possible to be invisible
  • Always be respectful
  • Consent needs to be given, whether subtle or pronounced
  • You know what is best for yourself, not anyone else
  • Keep safety in mind, yours and everyone else’s
  • Be courteous to others in the space
  • Prepare yourself; mentally and physically

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COL419: This Is The Way We Genetically Role

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by our SCIENCE expert, Mr. (soon to be Dr.) Cisco, to talk about a recent Jezebel article indicating that you may be  born a bottom? Cisco breaks down the facts and figures and gives the guys the bottom line. Also, Chester is on assignment drinking around the world.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Diabloing
  • Damon: CMC/Being Low Key
  • Gary: The challenge of PRIDE
  • Cisco: “Job” at UTHSC in Memphis, I am a US resident, visiting hometown after 6.5 years, new furry baby, about to finish internship and become a doctor, still no balloon ride.

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Weekly Topic

Discussion of a recent study about genetics/biology and our sexual role.

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