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COLDR: S13E15: RPDR Reunited

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon come together as the queens reunite one more time before the finale! With the pandemic still in place, things are little different, so listen as the guys join the queens virtually while they kiki, dance and werk in some fun videos. Have the queens successfully “glowed up” and who’s ready for the finale??

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RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13

Put the Pedal to the Metal:

Overall Thoughts – 

  • [Damon] – Disjointed, but Fun
  • [Gary] – Better Than Last Year

Stomp the Runway:

Category/Theme – Reunion StepUp?

  • [Damon] – Fun Looks/Good Times
  • [Gary] – Ru, What Happened?

Snaps & Eyerolls:

What was a high point and low point for you

  • [Damon] – Snaps for… Rose’ Faux Pas/Lala Ri’s Fast Talkin’
  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Revealing the Finale Format
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for… Someone’s True Colors are Shining Thru 
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… Not Liv’n for that Lace Hunty
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COL517: What is…Self-Hatred?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys present their next installment of the “What is…” series. After COL508, where the cubs talked about self-love, this time they’re talking about the opposite: self-hatred.  What does self-hate involve? Can you truly love yourself and still knock other people down?

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What is…Self-Hatred?

  • Discussion of what ‘Self-Hatred’ encompasses. Does the LGB community truly hate itself? Are our own micro aggressions ways of inflicting self-hatred? Can we talk about ‘love’ and still beat ourselves and others down? And what if you just don’t care? Is that self-hatred?

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COL510: Honesty vs Truth

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys share their honest opinions about the ongoing debate between honesty and truth. Do we really want others’ honest opinions? Listen in as the guys discuss the differences between these two similar but different words. Do they really want to hear the T or are they good with just a little honest-T?

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We say we want people to tell us how they feel. But do we really? And what exactly is the difference between being honest versus telling the truth? Are they the same? Or do we confuse the two?

 

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COL427: LTAK: Flogging

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the knowledged Ches aka Foxbear for another Let’s Talk About Kink. For this kinky-go-round, the cubs discuss the impact play known as flogging. Listen in as the guys give some tips, tricks and technical tools on floggers and flogging. It’s an impactful conversation.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Downtime
  • Damon: Jocks on, Asses Out!
  • Chester: Settling in, a broken window, Cap City Pup Night
  • Gary: Good and Disappointing Foods

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  • Co-hosts Damon, Gary, and recurring guest Ray (aka Karen Forecox) take a quick selfie at the Gem City Bear 2017 contest. Congrats to the winner Benjamin Benton!
    • Benjamin Benton – Thank u!

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  • André Ferreira
  • Kadin Wilson

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  • re: COL425: Dear Gay Men – Randall Stratton – American gods is done for the season and yes the sex scenes were hot.

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Let’s Talk About Kink series discussion. Topic is a part of impact play, flogging.

  1. Vocabulary [descriptions not definitions]
    1. Impact Play
      1. Flogging
    2. Sensations: Sounds & Feelings
      1. Thud
      2. Sting
      3. Bite
  2. D/s relationship
  3. Implements Involved
    1. Flogger Types
      1. Different hides yield different results
      2. Different shapes of falls yield different results
      3. Different fall counts yield different results
    2. Not limited to floggers
      1. Paddles
      2. Crops
      3. Wartenberg wheel
      4. Breath
      5. Hands
  4. First Time Expectations

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COL384: Title Holder Experience

col384In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by Mr. COL Bear and Mr. NAB 2016 Ray to talk about contests, titles, contestants, and winning (or losing). What does it take to be in a contest? Listen in as the guys tally out the ins and outs of running for–and being–a titleholder.

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Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Too Much To Do!
  • Damon: Another Puppy contest
  • Chester: Busy bee
  • Gary: When your body gets old

Weekly Topic

What experience has taught former title holders others can do to prepare for entering a title contest and then the year following a win.

Cooldown Topics

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