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COL393: Happy Furry-days

col393In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are ready fur the holidays..maybe? Listen in as the cubs talk about the upcoming holiday season and how they feel about its approach. Are they full of holiday spirit or just waiting for it to be over?

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Critical Binge
  • Damon: Road-Tripping & New Phone
  • Gary: One down, more to go

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  • SigmaWolf: Started listenin’ little under a month ago…. Y’all ROCK!!! funny, informative, “out there” am on the road 6+ hours/ 6 d/w helps the day go by faster!!! WERF!!! -Σ

Weekly Topic

It’s the holiday season. Yay…?

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COL364: Gary & Damon’s Excellent Adventures

COL364In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys get back together to discuss the trips that Gary and Damon went on recently. Damon’s trip took him to Detroit for a nerd convention and Gary went to see a band, a TV host, and a bunch of leathermen and women.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Diablo and More Pokemon
  • Damon: Kiltin’ It Up/Phone Woes
  • Gary: Happy Mama’s Day!

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Re: COL ROADTRIP CLAW16

  • Chester Beltowski: One word… “Muggle.”
    • Gary: #hater
    • Chester Beltowski: *cough* show topic *cough*

Re: COL363

  • AJ Lewis: Was this the article you guys were talking about? Racism in the bear community- More prevalent than ever
    • Gary: That’s the one AJ. We linked on the podcast website for folks to click thru and read if they wanted. smile emoticon
  • RJ: Great episode…and i applaud you guys taking on some of the “untold” truths and issues within the community..keep up the good work as always…HUGS fellas
  • Don Collymore: I loved this last podcast. Bravo for daring to talk about racism in the Bear Community. I know someone ask if their si a group talking about this subject. There actually a Bear Podcast that does that. Male Media Mind Podcast is one that I listen to. A podcast for “is a blog that harnesses the collective creativity of nerdy black bears. ” They cover very thought provoking subjects and have great conversations on these subjects. Perhaps you could contact them and have a joint podcast on these topics.

 

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  • Tony Bossaller: Awesome. Was fun to have been there for a few segments. (I was Mr Shoulder.)

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Weekly Topic

WTF have we been doing away from home?!?

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COL350: LTAS: Gimme a Hand

COL350In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex! We are joined by special guest Hadrian to talk about choking the chicken, spanking the monkey, and making baby butter, otherwise known as masturbation and handjobs. From its humblest beginning as a guy’s first sexual experience to its usage in the sex game. Listen and watch as we lend a hand to this touchy subject.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Disappointment, and Taco Soup
  • Damon – So My Phone…
  • Gary – Blizzard Jonas
  • Hadrian – Indianapolis and Chicago

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Urbandictionary with Gary

  • handy comeback – When one shoots their load directly into their mouth so they don’t have to get a snack when they’re done masturbating.

Tony called me a jizz loving faggot that can’t have his twinkies, but the jokes on him because I already had a handy comeback.

Weekly Topic

Discussion on masturbation/handjobs; likes, dislikes, pros/cons, benefits

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COL288: Let’s Talk About Kink – Protocols

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome back Ches and Matt to discuss the topic of protocols in a BDSM power exchange. From examples in their relationship, the cubs get to learn more about what protocols actually are and the benefits they serve the dom/sub relationship

What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – Molten Corgi
  • [Damon] – Housebuying…meh
  • [Gary] – FOOD, FRIENDSHIP, and SNOW
  • [Ches] – Went to Makers Mark distillery with the huzbear yesterday; judged Mr. Crossings Leather last night – whip gone missing; getting excited for Midwest Bearfest
  • [Matt] – Too good for AT&T

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From Anthony:

I am in love with this podcast! You guys are super funny and give really good advice. As someone who is young and came out fairly recently you guys have really helped me be informed I never knew I should know about as a gay man. You’re like the gay dads I wish I had. I love you guys a lot, keep doing what you’re doing and I look forward to whats next. ;3

P.S. You guys should do more stuff with Gabe, Matt, and Hadrian. And more on the road stuff with Gary. Please and thank you!

[Cubs Out Loud] Comment: “COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!”

From Reggie S.

Great job!  I’m really a bit sad I listened to this in the car on my way to work this morning as there were so many things I wanted to write down and say here in the comments.  I still have about 20 minutes more to listen to but I figure why not get it all down while it’s still got that hot french fry feeling!  First of all, thank you for doing this show, you’re providing a great service.  Secondly, thanks for having fantastically educated guests who don’t pull punches but delivered digestible doses of truth and education on a topic I am still coming to understand myself.  I’m still new to my life as a sub; being a black man in the United States who has race play as one of his kinks has taken some getting use to. That being said, your guests made one point that resonated deeply with me and I wanted to thank them and the show for it… Function over Form.  There have been many situations in my life as a gay man where I have felt very “on the outside”. Sir has proven to me that, despite any outside disqualifications I may have to any given group, I do have things to offer. I wouldn’t be so bold as to speak for Sir but he has never denied me. I am his boy. Regardless of whatever preconceived notions I still have of my outside appearance or the validity of this relationship to others, he has never failed to make me feel like his and that has in many ways allowed me to feel what it is like “on the inside”.  Thanks again and keep up the great work.  😀

Weekly Topic

Protocol

  • What is Protocol? [Definition, types, examples]
    • Rules, rituals, formalized behaviors
      • hard and fast rules
      • situational suspension of protocol
      • growth, progress and process
    • Immediate service-based protocol
    • Distance protocols
    • Examples
      • Speech/communication/signals
        • use of titles, names, modes of speech
          • interruptions
        • check-ins, reports, being “on call”
        • hand signals, gestures
        • reflection protocol – diary, blog, vlog, etc.
      • Clothing
        • by setting
        • prohibited/required items
      • Body position
        • presentation
        • movement in groups
      • Direct service
        • Sexual service
          • Chastity, orgasm control/denial
        • Situational behavior – social, public, private
      • Prohibited behaviors
      • Assigned tasks/programs of behavior
    • Creating/Implementing protocols in a power-exchange dynamic
      • purpose (narrow vs. broad)
        • personal development
        • communication purposes
        • expression of power imbalance
      • effectiveness (review, feedback)
        • periodic, contingency
      • changes to protocol
        • protocol stagnation, when protocol becomes habitual
      • pacing: too much, too little, too fast, too slow
  • What is it good for? (ie. What does everybody get out of it?)
    • What subs take away from protocols…
    • What Doms take away from protocols…
    • What outsiders take away from seeing the protocols of others…
  • What happens when protocol breaks down?
    • Keep it, fix it or scrap it?
    • Remember to focus on purpose and effectiveness at achieving that purpose

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COL198: Do Aliens Date? Who Cares.

Mario and DatingOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, The cubs delve into the sticky topic of dating and relationships. alien abductees and penis apps. Just in time for Valentines Day, it’s our salute to Romance!

So what the F did you do this week?

Facebook: Peter Genco, Erik Hill
Bear Underground: abangbear, wolfmutt89, TrekieBearCub

Ben’s Bitch of the Week: MLA, APA and Chicago – CAN WE FIND ONE SET STANDARD TO WRITE A FRIGGIN’ PAPER IN PLEASE!
Jeff’s Movie Moment:
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Topic: Dating and Relationships – Ben Says UGH!

Last Weeks Poll: Can You Go 2 Weeks Without Sex And Masturbation? Yes, No, 1 week, Are you FUCKING crazy?!?, Other

  • Aaron Sobczak (G+) Voted yes! Though… after about a week, it REALLY starts to mess with my mood. I can tell you that after blowing a REALLY nice load afterwards though, is one of the best things in the world 😀
  • Mrkash Guy (FB) NO, i cant stand 12hours( or a day ) without masturbation and/or sex

This Week’s Poll: What’s Your Dating Status? Single and not looking, single and looking, Dating and exclusive, Dating and open, Partnered – Monogamous, Partnered – Open, Partnered – Opened with Partner, Triad, Open Hole

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Damon: Random Sexting – m4w – 29
Eric: Anus Baby From Aliens – m4mw – 28
Gary: The Toy Box Is Open
Ben: SODOMY -M4? – 40

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