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COL385: LTAS: Weirdest of All

col385In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by Hadrian for another Let’s Talk About Sex! This time around, we get a little weird. Based on the book “The 9 Weirdest Dicks I’ve Sucked”, the guys talk about their weirdest, freakiest, and oddest cocks, orgasms, and fucks. If you’re looking for some strange, tune in.

Introduction Topics

  • Jeff: Find out next week
  • Damon: Work Work Work (and not the Rihanna song)
  • Gary: Fall is here…as in rain
  • Hadrian: Remodeling and work

Weekly Topic

Let’s Talk About Sex show – Topic is… The Weirdest of All

Discussion could be dicks, holes, sex, dates, interactions, orgasms, etc.

Prompted by the comic-zine by Sina Grace’s ‘The 9 Weirdest Dicks I’ve Sucked’

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COL325: Summer Reading: An Older Man by Wayne Hoffman

AnOlderManCoverIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we crack open a book and enjoy some summer reading. While experiencing some technical difficulties, the cubs are joined by author Wayne Hoffman to discuss his latest book “An Older Man”. A standalone sequel to his other book, “Hard”, Wayne tells the story of his main character, Moe, as he traverses the highs and lows of Bear Week in Provincetown.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Got a job, and an interview.
  • Damon – Columbus Weekend Fun with Pups and Board Retreat and Roseland
  • Gary – Summer is here!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

shirt cocking – Men who go about their day with a shirt on, but no pants or underwear.

“Cocking” can be used with other terms. Example: Cowl Cocking, when a man wears only a super heros cowl, much like Batmans cowl, but no pants or underwear.

Look at that dude, he’s totally shirt cocking.

Weekly Topic

Discussion of Wayne Hoffman’s newest book, An Older Man.

Cooldown Topics

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COLDR: S7E6: The Bitches of Untucked

COLDRS7-Ep6In this episode of Cubs Out Loud Drag Race, Damon and Gary talk about the sixth episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7! In tonight’s episode, the drama becomes real as the queens spill the tea on each other. Who’s to blame for the stirring the pot: Ginger or Max? Also, the cubs tackle the acting challenges, the bullshit and more. And, will Miss Fame ever SHUT UP?!?!

Weekly Topic

Episode 6 of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7

First Impressions:

  • [Gary] – Hacks… poor acting jobs
  • [Damon] – Give Violet a chance?

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary] – The bitchiness has arrived
  • [Damon] – What’s with all the acting challenges?

Thoughts on Untucked:

  • [Gary] – Ginger tastes nasty and Max is hated
  • [Damon] – The Stitch & Bitch Club (Ginger, Katya, Kennedy)

Cooldown Topics

Take Aways:

  • [Gary] – Snaps for… Ross Matthews trying to work
  • [Gary] – Eyerolls for… all the shade and shit stirring aka ghosts of drama past
  • [Damon] – Snaps for…Merle Ginsberg is back/Ariana Grande during LSFYL/Untucked
  • [Damon] – Eyerolls for … Max poking the fire (at Kennedy)

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary] –
  • [Damon] – SNATCH GAME!!

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COL295: LTAK: Pup Play

PupPlayAOn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we have another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time, it’s pup play! We are joined by Chester/AlphaShutter, Daniel aka BearberlyCrusher, and pup Jericho to discuss this aspect of kink.Grab your favorite chew toy and cuddle up.

What’s Going On?

  • [Jeff] – 7/7 Heroic
  • [Damon] – Louisville Trip
  • [Gary] – No NY Crud!
  • [Chester] – There’s No Place Like Home
  • [Daniel and Jericho] – In Bed

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  • COL287: Canadian Extravaganza!: Thomas Hammond: listened to show at work with my headphones, made my monday enjoyable

Weekly Topic

  •  Pup Play – definition
    • A ‘fetish’ derived from Dom/Sub side of BDSM where the sub counterpart takes on behaviors of a dog, a Dom counterpart takes on a role of “handler/trainer.” Puppies will get into a “headspace” where it is easy for them to shed their human self and accept their puppy self.
  • Roles/Duties
    • As with any fetish, there is no black and white.  It’s not uncommon for pups to take on a slave type of role.
  • Reasons for experience
    • Chester: For me, it allows me to express myself with a different persona. Being obedient is very easy for me, and I enjoy the interactions of a Dom counterpart treating me as a pup.  I also have more self confidence when I am in a public space like a bear run or gear night, I also draw attention to myself and I get hit on quite a bit more.
  • Prevalence/Awareness
    • It is becoming more and more accepted throughout the BDSM/Fetish community, especially at events like Folsom, IML, and CLAW. Particularly “Puppy Moshes.”
  • Outside misunderstanding [what people think it is vs. truly is]
    • As with most BDSM/Fetishes, people not familiar with the community often believe that the “sub” counterpart is not a strong person and enjoys being abused. Puppy play is very much the opposite. Trainers/handlers often treat pups with more caring and playfulness than a regular BDSM/Fetish relationship. It’s very similar to how a person would treat a biological puppy.

 

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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

Weekly Topic

BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

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  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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