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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

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COL409: Drummerboy North America 2017

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys (sans Chester) get together to do an interview with David, the current Drummerboy North America. From his humble beginnings to coming out kinky, listen in as  the guys learn more about this adorable cub/pup/boy.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Parental Units
  • Damon: Preparing for Concert/Hubby’s Away
  • Gary: It’s here! Actually, it’s over…

Weekly Topic

  • Interview with David Duelwood, Drummerboy North America (http://drummerna.com/)
    • Title Journey (Mr. Argos, Ohio Valley Drummerboy, Drummerboy NA)
    • Fun/Funny/Embarassing moments during contests
    • How did you get involved?
    • Any fun stories?
    • Basics (Who are you? Where are you from? Partnered? Family?)
    • What is Drummer?/Leather Journey
    • Fetishes?
    • Hobbies/Talents/Special Interests
    • What are you plans for your title year?
    • FInal Thoughts/comments

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COL349: The Biggest Lover

TheBiggestLover-RJacksonIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Ron Suresha, to discuss his new anthology “The Biggest Lover.” This grouping of erotica stories for chubs and their admirers goes from the lustful to the exotic, with tales of fantasy and fetish. It’s a good book to read while hard.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Digivolution
  • Damon – Working…
  • Gary – 2016’s Dancing with Death aka Fuck Cancer [Jan 10th David Bowie, Jan 14th Alan Rickman, Jan 15th Dan Haggerty]

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Charles S. Scott: Another fun episode! Thanks again for the shoutout, it’s a pleasure to mention you gentlemen on Twitter!

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Thanks for the shoutout BearMuffins!

Listening to SpidersOutLoud….I mean@cubsoutloud, podcast episode 347!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

Big Mac’d

  1. SPECIAL sauced” by two “all-beef patties”
  2. To be jizzed on by two guys at once

“Dude, did you hear what happened to Sarah last night?”

   “No, what?”

“Me and Jason Big Mac’d her!!”

   “NICE!!!”

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The Biggest Lover by R. Jackson

Interview with Ron Suresha

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COL320: HNU: Our Changing Landscape

COL298In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another hostful news update! In today’s episode, the cubs discuss bear pool parties, weight shaming, and the status of the gay bar. Listen in as the bears share their opinions. Also, shameless plugs, laundry day, and we put a new bear on the COL pedestal! Who will it be?

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Back To Frost!
  • Damon – My Gay Ass is TIRED (Pride and other stuff)
  • Gary – Veg week; returning to watching entertainment

Urbandictionary.com

gay crashing (phrase): for a heterosexual to enter an LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) event such as a Pride parade or festival. Coined by Natasha Bedingfield in an interview about Milwaukee’s Pridefest in Summer of 2008, referring to gate crashing, but the interviewer heard “gate” as “gay,” which was equally appropriate.

Weekly Topic

Hostful News Update!

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COL281: Rise of Bear Awareness

pawdrip_bellyshirtIn this episode, the hosts are joined by recurring guest Gabe for a frank discussion on blogs, articles, and posts regarding being a “bear”. From fat shaming to belly loving, we talk about labels and choices when it comes to this thing called ‘being a bear or cub’.

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BU Group: Zerocub: I love this podcast! I’d just like to thank you guys for making slow days at work bearable. 🙂

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Rise of Bear Awareness

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