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COL442: ATNS: Feedback

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another cup of tea as the guys present an All T, No Shade show. This time around, the cubs read and respond to your feedback on some of our most recent episodes. Also, some Thanksgiving leftover conversations and the guys thirsting on some pics.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Marriage & Adoption in Stardew and lazy grocery shopping
  • Damon: I’m Back! ATL and Thanksgiving.
  • Chester: Banned, Birthday, Visitors, Escape Room
  • Gary: Recovery Mode Engaged

Feedback:

Facebook Likes:

  • Mark Wolf
  • Nick DeCoopman
  • Drew Littlefield
  • Bob Green
  • Boy Quinton
  • Lovel Trahan (Pugsley’s BF)
  • Princess Baron
  • Milady Lyn
  • Tom Wray
  • Donnie Royse
  • Morgan J McChurch

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Zak Jackson
  • Brian McGee

Blog Comment:

  • Re: COL430: TTO: Labor Gay: @twatTUBBS’ comment: “just catching up on this show after I been doing alot of travelin, Im the “cigar at work” guy and it made my day that you liked my post. I watch your show all the time guys, love it and thanks for the shout out. O and to the points broght up about the pics, I am faily built but I am a foodie, it was a great cigar yes.  (Alec Bradley) and its not sweat it was oil, those are clips from a vid I made on youtube, let me know if you want the link. TUBBS”
  • Re: COL437: Old School Bears Online: tnliving’s comment: “Having a different view in some part of one’s personal life shouldn’t disqualify them from being a valued member of a community.  Just like we don’t want to be excluded or discriminated from normal civic life because we are gay, we also shouldn’t exclude others based on their political views in general. As with most issues there are plenty of grey areas but being a Donald Trump supporter is not comparable to maybe being a founder of a gay reformation group.  Being an active participant in the Westboro Baptist church should probably preclude somebody from  being taken seriously leading a gay social group.  Being a Republican (even a Trump Republican) certainly should not in my opinion.”

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Tumblr Comment:

  • Mapleleafcub: Thank you so much for the bear of the day
  • wingmandbq to foxbear: Not An Ask but a thanks
    • Not an ask but a thanks … It was great to hear you on the latest episode of Cubs Out Loud!! I kinda fan boyed a bit and may have even did a bit of a squeeeee!!!! too!! Thanks for being involved, it was great to hear you share your knowledge, experience and perspective.
    • Sure, bub!  I’m a semi-regular guest host with the boys from @cubsoutloud, and have probably been on eight or ten episodes–including at least three video episodes that are available on their YouTube channel.  You can probably find them all using the tag cloud over on the COL website.

W Bear – Chester:

  • Rootbeer Pup and Grizzly: You guys are awesome, I love your shows. Keep up the good work. I love listening to you guys when I can.
  • (We then got into a discussion about cigars from COL436: Smokin’ in the Bears Den

W Bear – Gary:

  • Cody says “Hey I love your pictures handsome and I relly like your podcast it got me through my weekend cleaning job and now my commute 😉
    • Yay! Thanks for letting us know. We’re glad it helped you pass the time. 🙂

Show Topic

ATNS: Feedback

  • Re: COL440: The Klondykes: From [Redacted]: This is NOT a comment of hate, this is a comment of reality……I 1st saw pics of this “contest” on the old (better) Bear Underground site. They were posted by the winner of the “Glitter Bear” title, ya know, the guy who is dolphin smooth and not bear like in any way.. After looking at these very disturbing pictures I simply asked- What do the red\pink stripes stand for then? Of course he replied that he didn’t know and that they were just shades of red and pink. So one can only figure the color stripes stand for the “Klondikes” heavy to lite flow days. The True Bear Community has been being tainted for years and years. This is the straw that breaks the community and welcomes camel toe. Bear means hair, with that in mind I wonder, do these so-called lesbian bears not shave and grow huge bushes?? This entire Bear’s Welcome Everybody thing has gone way too far. There is a line, and the Klondikes are it. Sad to see so many forget their roots.
  • In show response regarding the colors in the logo: Per our guest Courtney Chesser: “I’m so glad someone asked! The logo was made by local Aly shine. It is a mixture of the bear pride flag and femme flag on our behalf. The pinks are the bear pride “skin” colors translated into shades of pink. Pink is traditionally displayed in the femme pride flag so it’s accepting of all ranges of skin as well as ranges of femininity.”
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COL421: Couples Age Differences

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud,  we are joined by Ches to talk about intergenerational relationships: the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable. We get it on with the May-December, throw down with All the Young Dudes, dust off our Silver Daddy/Santa fantasies, and talk about how cubs and Daddy bears make age-gaps in relationships work.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Computer Down, Repeat, Computer Down!
  • Damon: Part of an panel
  • Chester: It’s been a hell of a month!
  • Gary: Guess who’s back in the house?
  • Ches: Pride; Birthday; Welcome baby Finnian!

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Facebook Comment:

  • Andrew Ealy ordered a COL T-Shirt and sent us a photo with the message “How YOU doin’ !!! Got my new COL shirt today!”

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Twitter Messages:

  • @dftbapaul in re: to
    • COLSP06: Daddy’s Day Storytime
      • “Whew that was sexy. Blushing at work
      • In a reply to @fyzzgiggidy
        • Btw a good way to get more info is to go to the @cubsoutloud podcast and use the search feature and look up the ltak (let’s talk about kink)
    • Missing COLDR tweets.

Weekly Topic

Relationships with Age Spans between the Partners

  • Age is a number… Generational Gaps no longer defined
  • Values, Morals, and Ethics.
    • Values: Are having an emotional investment (either for or against something)
    • Morals: Are your ideas of what is right and what is wrong
    • Ethics: Are a set of rules which are explicitly adopted by a group of people
  • Age, Maturity, Life Experiences
    • Older Age =/= Mature, just as Younger Age =/= immature
  • Friends and Family Reactions/Acceptance
  • Challenges
    • Lack of life experiences can be frustrating
    • Facing down the question of mortality
  • Advantages
    • Experiencing new things together
      • Sharing our favorite things
        • music, movies, Gaming/TTG
      • Seeing things “new” again
      • The ability to help teach

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COL409: Drummerboy North America 2017

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys (sans Chester) get together to do an interview with David, the current Drummerboy North America. From his humble beginnings to coming out kinky, listen in as  the guys learn more about this adorable cub/pup/boy.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Parental Units
  • Damon: Preparing for Concert/Hubby’s Away
  • Gary: It’s here! Actually, it’s over…

Weekly Topic

  • Interview with David Duelwood, Drummerboy North America (http://drummerna.com/)
    • Title Journey (Mr. Argos, Ohio Valley Drummerboy, Drummerboy NA)
    • Fun/Funny/Embarassing moments during contests
    • How did you get involved?
    • Any fun stories?
    • Basics (Who are you? Where are you from? Partnered? Family?)
    • What is Drummer?/Leather Journey
    • Fetishes?
    • Hobbies/Talents/Special Interests
    • What are you plans for your title year?
    • FInal Thoughts/comments

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COL349: The Biggest Lover

TheBiggestLover-RJacksonIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by Ron Suresha, to discuss his new anthology “The Biggest Lover.” This grouping of erotica stories for chubs and their admirers goes from the lustful to the exotic, with tales of fantasy and fetish. It’s a good book to read while hard.

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Digivolution
  • Damon – Working…
  • Gary – 2016’s Dancing with Death aka Fuck Cancer [Jan 10th David Bowie, Jan 14th Alan Rickman, Jan 15th Dan Haggerty]

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re: COL347

Charles S. Scott: Another fun episode! Thanks again for the shoutout, it’s a pleasure to mention you gentlemen on Twitter!

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Charles S.

Thanks for the shoutout BearMuffins!

Listening to SpidersOutLoud….I mean@cubsoutloud, podcast episode 347!

Bear Underground Group:

  • GbearTrekker65

Urbandictionary with Gary

Big Mac’d

  1. SPECIAL sauced” by two “all-beef patties”
  2. To be jizzed on by two guys at once

“Dude, did you hear what happened to Sarah last night?”

   “No, what?”

“Me and Jason Big Mac’d her!!”

   “NICE!!!”

Weekly Topic

The Biggest Lover by R. Jackson

Interview with Ron Suresha

The Biggest Lover: Big-Boned Men's Erotica for Chubs and Chasers (Hot & Hairy erotic series)

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COL320: HNU: Our Changing Landscape

COL298In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another hostful news update! In today’s episode, the cubs discuss bear pool parties, weight shaming, and the status of the gay bar. Listen in as the bears share their opinions. Also, shameless plugs, laundry day, and we put a new bear on the COL pedestal! Who will it be?

Introduction Topics

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Back To Frost!
  • Damon – My Gay Ass is TIRED (Pride and other stuff)
  • Gary – Veg week; returning to watching entertainment

Urbandictionary.com

gay crashing (phrase): for a heterosexual to enter an LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) event such as a Pride parade or festival. Coined by Natasha Bedingfield in an interview about Milwaukee’s Pridefest in Summer of 2008, referring to gate crashing, but the interviewer heard “gate” as “gay,” which was equally appropriate.

Weekly Topic

Hostful News Update!

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