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COL600: Achievement Unlocked, Now What?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys have reached yet another milestone: 600 EPISODES!!! From its humble beginnings to the forging of new frontiers as the show becomes one of the longest running bear podcasts ever, listen in as the cubs share some stats about its 13 year history.

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Recognizing achieving the 600 episodes of Cubs Out Loud.

Some Original Series Stats are:

Patreon Update

Potential Future Topics

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COL584: 2020 Year in Review

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs continue their annual tradition of doing another year in review. And what a year it was!! Listen in as the guys give the stats and dish the dirt on the hell of a year that was 2020.

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2020 Year in Review – we survived!

  • 2 – ATNS
  • 3 – What is. . .
  • 3 – LTAK
  • 4 – LTAS
  • 4 – LoR (new mini-series: Landscape of Relationships)
  • 5 – LTAF (new series: Let’s Talk About Food)
  • 5 – FlashBack episodes
  • 12 – WGO

Non-series topics included: RIP GROWLr?, Return of Bathhouses?, The Blood Ban Issue, 

LTA COVID-19, Sex Needs vs COVID-19, COVID-19 & Semen, Aging Cubs, 8th version of Jeff’s BDAY, NCOD, Our Favorite Things, RIP XTube/Pornhub?

Top Downloads:

    • 2020
      • COL Flashback COL247-1: World Class Kisser Part One – 376
      • COLDR: AS5E08: Clap Back – 127
  • All Time
    • COL403: Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 – 1,601
    • COLDR: S11E14: Grand Finale – 164

Top Views

  • 2020
    • COL542 – RIP GROWLr? – 175
    • COLDR – S12E01: I’m That Bitch – 132
  • All Time
    • COL280: LTAS – Digital Release – 4143
    • COLDR: AS3E03: The Bitchelor – 1532
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COL580: LTAS: Sides

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Let’s Talk About Sex!  The guys are joined by resident Sex Therapist Edward Angelini-Cooke to discuss “sides”. You know of tops, bottoms, and versatiles; but do you know about sides? Listen in as the cubs define this role in the MSM community and what it means in the sexual spectrum.

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Sides 

  • Definition?

Joe Kort developed the term in 2013 after not engaging in anal intercourse and feeling frustrated answering the “top or bottom” question.  “Can I be a side?”

A side is typically a man who has sex with another man (MSM) who does not engage in anal intercourse or penetration as it is not part of their erotic orientation.  Erotic orientation reflects your sexual fantasies, desires, and sexual behaviors.  

Self-labels (labels used to describe anal sex behaviors….or does it):

  • Top 
  • Bottom 
  • Versatile 
    • What if you don’t fit into any of those groups?  shame…guilt….FOMO…et al. 
  • Sides 

Articles:

Videos: Barry Birkholz

Book: Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment 

Podcast: Smart Sex, Smart Love: Episode 50 Side Guys

  • Awareness?
    • Side Guys Facebook Group  (currently 323 members)
    • Many different presentations of sides 
    • Sex is not just penetration 
    • Navigating conversations about being a “side” 
    • Inclusive language verse exclusive language 
  • Acceptance?

Backlash from gay community…

  • Interest?
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COL574: LTAF: Spoopy Edition

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Food. For this time around, the cubs give you their fill of their fall/Halloween faves. From sweet eats to savory soups and stews, the guys discuss the foods that get them in a “spoopy” mood.

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Let’s Talk About Food: Spoopy Edition 

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COL569: LTAS: Bubbles/Pods

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex show. For this one, the guys discuss the concept of sex bubbles or sexpods, a safer sex practice of maintaining social/sexy time with a smaller group of people to help keep yourselves protected during the pandemic. Listen in as the guys tell more about “quaranteaming” and debate on its potential effectiveness. When thinking about it, is it really new or just necessary?

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Sex Bubbles/Pods 

  • Definition?
  • Safety?
  • Potential?
  • Interest?

How to Form a Pandemic Pod | Greater Good 

“quarantine pods” as an effective way to get our social, emotional, familial, and sexual needs met without unnecessarily endangering ourselves or others. Pods are small, self-contained networks of people who limit their non-distanced social interaction to one another—in other words, they’re the small group of people with whom you share air without using breath-control precautions such as masks.

Pods (or “bubbles” or “containers” or “quaranteams”) aren’t just ways for people to have social connections within a pandemic. They also serve an important epidemiological purpose—they help limit the size and spread of outbreaks. That’s one reason why in the Bay Area, where the authors live, public health officials recommend that pods be no larger than 12 people who live across three households, and that pods limit their non-distanced social contact to one another for at least three weeks.

Despite the centrality of sex to our lives, many of us are ashamed of having sexual needs. This is tragic, because we should be no more ashamed of needing sexual contact than we should be of needing food. So, be honest with yourself and others: If you want to form a pod to meet sexual needs, say so, rather than concealing or minimizing that purpose.

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