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COL416: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 1

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this first part of a two-part series, the guys describe what consent is and when and how things can go wrong with it.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Farming
  • Damon: 91st BDay,  Poker and Old Friends
  • Chester: Lots of new music! Chainsmokers and Todrick Hall
  • Gary: SSDD on loop
  • Ches: FUCKING MOVING, but I still love my husband, CLAW
  • Ms. Tammy: Judging Contests, Leather Events, Mr. KY Leather, Mom and grandsons, Hammy
  • Ray: Finally taking some time from traveling
  • Brady: Travel!

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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COL411: LTAS: Bathhouse Experiences

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by the sexy Mr. Hadrian to do another round of Let’s Talk About Sex. This time around, the cubs throw their towels on and discuss bathhouses. From their historical beginnings to their height in gay culture, the guys splash about with this steamy subject.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Two interviews and a boss kill.
  • Damon: CMC CMC CMC and bears
  • Chester: Drenched Fur over, CLAW up next! +Moving
  • Gary: It’s over, I took a break, not really
  • Hadrian: Western Exposure 3

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Let’s Talk About Sex: Bathhouse Experiences

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COL407: All T, No Shade: Racism & Sex

In this episode Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined again by two CA pups, Pup Beacon and Pup Yoshi, to continue an “All T, No Shade” episode about racism and the gay community. In part two, the guys get onto the topic of racism and sex. From marketing to porn, the guys take time to discuss issues of stereotypes and how they affect perspectives.

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Racism & Sex

Discussion points:

  • How minorities are sexualized and desexualized
    • Wanting a black man cause he has a big dick
    • A Latino cause he’s spicy
    • An Asian man because he is submissive
  • Minorities not being seen in marketing as often as white men
  • Minorities aren’t seen in porn as often as white men, and when they are…
    • Black men are thugs
    • Latinos are cholos
    • Asians are subs

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COLDRAS: S2E05: Revenge of the Queens

coldras-s2e5In this week’s episode of COL Drag Race, the bitches are back! Chester, Damon and Gary recap the most twisted, the most shocking and the most drama-filled episode of All-Stars 2 EVAH! With the eliminated queens returning, the stakes have never been higher. Buckle up, folks, ‘cause it’s gonna be a bumpy ride.

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 2 Episode 5

Challenge: Drag Queens of Comedy Show

First Impressions:

  • [Gary]: D.R.A.M.A. = Defend, Rationalize, Argue, Mirror, Attack
  • [Damon]: Defenses are up!
  • [Chester]: Lackluster performances, but the twists!

Thoughts on This Episode:

  • [Gary]: Emotional Rollercoaster
  • [Damon]: What a TWIST!
  • [Chester]: It’s not the editing, it’s just you.  Lip Sync battle greatness?

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Takeaways:

  • [Gary]: Your Mental/Psychological State is Everything
  • [Damon]: Who’s Playing the Victim?
  • [Chester]: I’m so lost on who’s on top!

Snaps / Eyerolls:

  • [Gary]: Snaps for… Alaska’s Underestimated Intelligence
  • [Gary]: Eyerolls for… Roxxxy’s Jokes [nerves aside]
  • [Damon]: Snaps for…Lip Sync for your LIFE!!!  
  • [Damon]: Eyerolls for… Roxxxy’s Emcee Choices
  • [Chester]: Snaps for… Coco’s shutdown of Phi Phi
  • [Chester]: Eyerolls for… Coco as a whole

Closing Thoughts:

  • [Gary]: Was this episode just filler? AKA Now the Competition Begins?
  • [Damon]: It’s been a winding road, but now we’re back on track
  • [Chester]: Rigor Morris and Clef Notes

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COL371: HNU: State of the Community 2016

COL371In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by special guests from across the pond, Bruce and Shutter, to speak on the state of our community. In a year of highlights and lowlights to the LGBT community, the cubs gather together to share their perspectives on US marriage equality, the Orlando shooting, and the UK’s recent vote to potentially leave the EU. It’s a Hostful New Update special edition.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Welcome to Quarter End.
  • Damon: Pride and OMGKC
  • Gary: Holy Rainbows Batman
  • Bruce: Traveling for work (Austria, Switzerland), Alton Towers
  • Chester: Tidal Wave, Men of the Den, came back to England for a few months

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Hi again, cubs!

First, I would like to thank you for giving me a shout out in your last episode. I am glad my email was able to clarify some of your questions and I hope your episode was able to answer other people’s questions as well. Second, I was gladly surprised to receive a public invitation to your podcast! I’d be happy to try it out as I have never been invited to a podcast before. I am going to be moving to Albuquerque, NM this Friday and will not have internet at home for a few days… or many (if you have comcast you may know what I mean). However, let me know how you’d like to start this.

Best,

Francisco Salgado-Garcia (aka Cisco)

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  • LGBTQIA status today – one year ago on June 26th, 2015 the US Supreme Court made Marriage Equality a reality.
  • June 12th, 2016 – Pulse Orlando

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Rex Rivers:

I will not be silenced by fear.

The father of Omar Mateen, the suspect who shot and killed more than 50 people at Orlando’s gay nightclub Pulse, said that his son didn’t like it when he saw two men kissing recently in Miami.

Go out and kiss. In public. Make seeing a kiss a common thing. Take away it’s “shock” value. Do it for those who died, and those who won’t because you had the courage to express your love.

  • UK referendum decision to leave the European Union and its impact on the global society

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