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COL572: What’s Going On – September 2020

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s our What’s Going On for the month of September. This month, it’s another gentle reminder that there is still a pandemic going on. Listen in as the cubs share their opening up to friends and also having to quarantine after exposure. Plus, lots of super sentai, more COVID-19 talk, and enjoying the COL Entourage being master debaters.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Tokusatsu ga oitsuku (Tokusatsu catch up)
  • Damon: Friendly Visits and a Change for Fall
  • Gary: QUARANTINE!!

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Instagram Followers

  • Pupzeo

YouTube Subscribers:

  • Jesus U. BettaWork

YouTube Comment:

  • COL568: What’s Going On – August 2020King R2K commented: “Good topics this video great stuff guys!!”
  • Re: COL B&D008: On the Road Pt 2 – Oan R. commented: “Another good name for this would be Bear Dens & Dragons.”
  • Re: COL571: ATNS: Pedestal 2 Cancel – dindin mooshi commented: “i didn’t like this episode, cancel culture is not a real thing because it’s doesn’t apply to melanin deficient ppl.”

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Recent Shows

  • COL568: WGO: August 2020
  • COL569: LTAS: Bubbles/Pods
  • COL570: LTAF: Pumpkin Spice
  • COL571: ATNS: Pedestal 2 Cancel

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COL569: LTAS: Bubbles/Pods

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s time for another Let’s Talk About Sex show. For this one, the guys discuss the concept of sex bubbles or sexpods, a safer sex practice of maintaining social/sexy time with a smaller group of people to help keep yourselves protected during the pandemic. Listen in as the guys tell more about “quaranteaming” and debate on its potential effectiveness. When thinking about it, is it really new or just necessary?

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Sex Bubbles/Pods 

  • Definition?
  • Safety?
  • Potential?
  • Interest?

How to Form a Pandemic Pod | Greater Good 

“quarantine pods” as an effective way to get our social, emotional, familial, and sexual needs met without unnecessarily endangering ourselves or others. Pods are small, self-contained networks of people who limit their non-distanced social interaction to one another—in other words, they’re the small group of people with whom you share air without using breath-control precautions such as masks.

Pods (or “bubbles” or “containers” or “quaranteams”) aren’t just ways for people to have social connections within a pandemic. They also serve an important epidemiological purpose—they help limit the size and spread of outbreaks. That’s one reason why in the Bay Area, where the authors live, public health officials recommend that pods be no larger than 12 people who live across three households, and that pods limit their non-distanced social contact to one another for at least three weeks.

Despite the centrality of sex to our lives, many of us are ashamed of having sexual needs. This is tragic, because we should be no more ashamed of needing sexual contact than we should be of needing food. So, be honest with yourself and others: If you want to form a pod to meet sexual needs, say so, rather than concealing or minimizing that purpose.

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COL539: What is. . . Partying?

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys continue their “What is…” series with an episode on parties. From dinner engagements to orgies, the cubs define partying in the general sense, determine whether bears party differently, and discuss the issues of PnP.

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What is. . . Partying?

  • Do Bears Party Differently?
  • Social vs Private Events
  • PnP anybody?  
    • NOT to be confused with Plug and Play
    • Also called ‘chemsex’ or ‘wired play’
    • Usually means ‘party and play’ 
    • ‘Party’ means to take illegal/recreational drugs such as meth/speed/tina/ice as well as Ketamine/K/Special K, cocaine, G/Gina/GHB GBL/Liquid E/Liquid Ecstasy, or ecstacy
    • ‘Play’ means to engage in high-risk sex activities, including unprotected sex or group sex

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COL498: BEAR: Being a Virgin

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, North American Bear Weekend is just around the corner! So, it’s time for another Bear Experience Action Readiness show! For this BEAR, the cubs prepare you for your maiden voyage to your first bear event or run. The guys share their first time experiences and give some tips to navigate the choppy bear seas.

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Anon Porn and Sexuality Research Survey – by Edward Angelini-Cooke from COL441: The Decline of Gay Bars

Bear Experience Action Readiness: Being a Virgin

We discuss what to expect as a virgin at a bear event/run and what our personal experiences were like.

Audience Questions/Feedback:

  • Baron W.: My first big event was GLLA, and I really didn’t know what to expect! It was exciting yet terrifying all at once. I guess what I wish I had known is that people are (usually) very warm and welcoming and if you put yourself out there you’ll usually find a new friend or five!
  • Joshua P. [Skeleton Crew]: Hmmm…I have never been to an event. From what I see and hear, they are very cliquey, and a fear I have is I would end up spending the time mostly by myself, or just with the people I attend with (which seems to defeat the purpose of attending these events).

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COL445: OTR: Midwest Bearfest 2017

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, Chester, Damon and Gary are ON THE ROAD! The guys make their way to Midwest Bearfest as it celebrates its 21st year. The cubs bearly make it through all the benefits of the weekend.

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Midwest Bearfest 21: Bearly Legal – Our experiences

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