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COL383: All T, No Shade: Biphobia

col383In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we present a new series of shows. This one is called “All T, No Shade” and allows the hosts to provide a more frank opinion on some potentially polarizing subjects. For this first show, the cubs discuss biphobia. From our personal dealings with bisexuality to admitting our personal biphobic tendencies, the cubs keep it real about their feelings.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Pain in the Butt
  • Damon: Being Sick
  • Chester: Back in the USA
  • Gary: Living with parents

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GROWLr:

So I just finished listening to episode 374 of COL, and I’d just like to thank you Sir. It was a touching conversation and many good points were brought up in the discussion.

You are most welcome. I’ve been a longtime listener but during that episode the discussion shifted to include someone in my situation. Which unfortunately, I find is rarely addressed since for many it isn’t an issue.

I will say that y’all were spot on when discussing how many of my generation are more aware of who they are attracted to at a much younger age.

Oh, I would just like to thank you again, the podcast has helped me a lot over the years. Whether it was for entertainment (comedic or sexual), informative, or just something to detract from the loneliness.

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Weekly Topic

  • Biphobia definition: Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality and bisexual people as a social group or as individuals. People of any sexual orientation can experience or perpetuate such feelings of aversion. Biphobia is a source of discrimination against bisexual people, and may be based on negative bisexual stereotypes or irrational fear.
  • Bi-now, gay later.
  • Bisexuals are just plain selfish!
  • Is there Biphobia in the kink community?
  • I’m Bisexual, But I’m Not Buzzfeed Video:

  • Opinions on choosing the label of bisexual, how people act towards them, and personal experiences.

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COL380: Power Hour 4: Jeff’s Birthday Bash, Again

COL380In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we celebrate host and producer Jeff’s birthday for the fourth year in a row with ANOTHER Power Hour! We are joined by several special guests, including Drew, Bruce, Dozor, and AJ. So line up your shots and join the fun at home ‘cause.

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COL325: Summer Reading: An Older Man by Wayne Hoffman

AnOlderManCoverIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we crack open a book and enjoy some summer reading. While experiencing some technical difficulties, the cubs are joined by author Wayne Hoffman to discuss his latest book “An Older Man”. A standalone sequel to his other book, “Hard”, Wayne tells the story of his main character, Moe, as he traverses the highs and lows of Bear Week in Provincetown.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Got a job, and an interview.
  • Damon – Columbus Weekend Fun with Pups and Board Retreat and Roseland
  • Gary – Summer is here!

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Urbandictionary with Gary

shirt cocking – Men who go about their day with a shirt on, but no pants or underwear.

“Cocking” can be used with other terms. Example: Cowl Cocking, when a man wears only a super heros cowl, much like Batmans cowl, but no pants or underwear.

Look at that dude, he’s totally shirt cocking.

Weekly Topic

Discussion of Wayne Hoffman’s newest book, An Older Man.

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COL321: Goldilocks and the Three Bears

321In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the guys are joined by the lovely Ms Tammy to chat about “Goldilocks”, women who are friendly with the bear community. As we discuss the idea of allowing biological women into bear clubs and bars (& even Growlr), we learn more about why Ms Tammy got involved in the community.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Contract ended
  • Damon – First Holiday at the House…sort of
  • Gary – Gay camping recovery mode

Urbandictionary With Gary

sausage fears – a term to describe the actions of straight men who are afraid of showing any physical or emotional bond to the men they are friends with. This is akin to saying “no homo,” and is a result of toxic masculinity and homophobia

“Why is Derek afraid of hugging Jonathan?” “He’s got mad sausage fears, bro.”

Weekly Topic

Goldilocks [women in the bear community]

  • History
  • Involvement
  • Representation
  • Experience
  • Future outcomes

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