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COL501: LTAS: Bathhouse Etiquette

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs are joined by the multi-talented Daddy Hadrian for another Let’s Talk About Sex. In a follow up on previous episodes, today’s show is all about bathhouse etiquette: some spoken and unspoken rules, and tips and tricks to follow while engaging in the cruisy atmosphere of the gay bathhouse. Learn how to be a prepared bear before, during, and after you put that towel around your waist.

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Welcoming back our longest standing guest host for his 28th appearance, Hadrian McQuaig!

Previous Related Topics – COL422: Playspace Etiquette, COL411: Bathhouse Experiences

  • Being invisible is rarely an option; you will probably be seen/watched
  • Respect – how to give and get it
  • Consent  – the subtle and direct moments
  • Get What You Want with Courtesy
  • Safety – yours and everyone else’s
  • Be PrEPared – inside and out
  • Stay Hydrated

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COL478: LTAS: Discreets / DL

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Sex show! We’re joined by special guests AJ and Drew to talk about those men that play on the downlow. Listen in as the guys share their experiences with discreet and DL men.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Toku Catch Up
  • Damon: Labor Day Stay-In
  • Gary: MD Labor Getaway

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  • Discreet [urbandictionary.com definition] – A word gay/bi men use to describe themselves in a cool way that they are closet cases and have no intention of coming out soon. This allows them to maintain perceived heterosexual privilege while engaging in their true sexual desires.
  • DL [urbandictionary.com definition] – A gay male who claims to be straight but nevertheless frequents gay clubs and bathhouses to score gay sex.

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COLDR: S10E13: Reunited

In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Chester and Gary are back to discuss the now infamous reunion of Season 10 queens. From the Vixen walkout and Asia’s tears, to Monique’s callout of Kameron’s reaction, they have plenty to say!

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RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 10

Playback Moments:

  • [Chester] – We could have been here all night!
  • [Gary] – The night of so many hashtags #SeasonOneMotherRuIsBack #MeJesusGlitterAndRhinestones  #MinistryOfDrag

Snatched:

  • [Chester] – Extreme ends of confrontation: Kameron vs The Vixen
  • [Gary] – Sisters that support each other…?

Last Call:

  • [Chester] – I don’t care who wins, let’s get it over with…
  • [Gary] – Manufactured winner?

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COL425: Dear Gay Men

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, the cubs (sans Chester) take some time to review a recent op-ed article addressing the use of “chubby” in the gay male lexicon. The guys give their thoughts on the issue of using certain words to describe our brethren of size. Also, Maxine Waters doesn’t have time for bullshit, road head, and eye color.

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What’s Going On?

  • Jeff: Money Makes the World Go Round
  • Damon: Some time off

Chester’s on the road relocating from the north central plains to the heartland of Ohio

  • Gary: It ends!

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  • COL424: Greg Ballard: So much fun being on the show! Great group of guys!

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COL417: LTAK: Consent & Respect 2 Part 2

In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, it’s another Let’s Talk About Kink. This time around we bring back an old topic in light of recent discussions on social media. The guys are joined by kink favorites Ms Tammy and Ches as well as Brady, Mr. North American Bear Cub 2017 and Ray, Mr. North American Bear 2016 to contemplate consent and respect. In this second part, the guys talk about how to stop things from going wrong with consent and what to do when things do go wrong. Listen in as we continue talking about this deep subject.

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Let’s Talk About Kink: Respect and Consent

Our previous episode COL314 [found here] was nearly two years ago. Some things though do not change with time…

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