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COL298: Hostful News Updates

COL298In this episode Cubs Out Loud, we bring you special news bulletins. It’s just the hosts this time around and we share a sampling of recent articles we found online. From boner fitness and butt loving to the potential dangers of poppers, the cubs give their insights and opinions to these hot topics. These headlines and more on COL298.

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  • Brandon Balke
  • Manu Stern
  • Tampa Oso

Episode COL 297- Sounds of Sex:

  • Jon Fritch

Heh. I really hate talking in porn – can be insanely cliche and annoying. I much prefer growling and deep moaning – trying to sound like a real bear.

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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

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BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

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  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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COL228: “A-List” Bears, Fact or Fiction?

the-a-list-attOn this weeks COL, the guys join together to discuss this thing called “A-List” Bears, which is perhaps more about labeling, or ‘Plastics’. Listen in as we discuss if this is important, or if we even care.

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What’s Going On?

  • [Damon] – Drag Battle with Friends
  • [Gary] – Being Lazy Is Okay-ish

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Ches: Awww. You guys… No apologies needed. All is well. ;^)
Cubs Out Loud But what if we want to get on knees and beg forgiveness?
Ches Clark Mmmmm… That will also be acceptable. I certainly offer penance and reconciliation mechanisms for those who desire or require them. >;^)
Cubs Out Loud I vote Jeff to serve penance.

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kabutocub: Holy crap! The guys from CubsOutLoud talked about me and Clif in one of their podcasts! ^_^ (it happens at the 38:22 mark)

Weekly Topic – [Damon] A-List Bears: Fact or Fiction? – Is there really such a thing as “A-List Bears” or is it just a state of mind?

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COL004: BACON!

Finally got the next episode up. Check it out here.

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The Slow Death of HD-DVD

Valentine’s Day

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Jeff’s Porn – Sorry no link to this one

What We Did This Last Week

New Site

IBR

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