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COL299: TTO: Chocolate, Vanilla, Swirl?

COL299In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, It’s another This, That, or Other. This time, we are inspired by ice cream to discuss some of our favorite flavors of bears. So, do we like our Chocolate bears, our Vanilla cubs or those flavors in between? Come check out our picks and have a lick.

What’s Going On?

  • Jeff – Overtime
  • Damon-Cabaret & Gaming
  • Gary – Work Changes, Run Stuff

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TTO: Chocolate, Vanilla, Swirl?

Chocolate

Vanilla

Swirl

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COL282: Let’s Talk About Kink – Dom/sub, you don’t say!

LTAKIn this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we welcome Ches and Matt to lead an in depth discussion on Dom/sub relationships. From defining some of the terms to offering their takes on the dynamics, the guys exchange insights and provide an intriguing dialogue on power exchange and control.

What’s Going On?

  • [Damon]-Where I Have Been (Comic Con, Bluegrass Leather, Ren Fair)
  • [Gary] – Getting Older

Weekly Topic

BDSM Discussion: Dom/sub Dynamics

  • Dom/sub, Daddy/boy, Sir/boy, Master/slave
    • Role play vs Power Exchange
    • Power Exchange
      • Dom/sub – umbrella
      • “With great power comes great responsibility”
        • Master/slave – focus on pleasure of Master; steward/guardian of slave
        • Daddy/boy & Sir/boy – conditional submission; varying kinds
          • Daddy/boy – mentoring, growth and nurturing for better service in and out; temporary relationship with a defined beginning and end
          • Sir/boy – personal service tailored to the Sir ; extended dynamic with long term possibility
  • Labels, Identities & Titles
    • Look at the power exchange
    • Self-identification
    • Thoughts on Being a Bear
    • “Respect somebody else’s kink”
      • Needs, Activities, Experiences
    • “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” – old mantra?
    • “RACK – Risk, Aware, Consensual, Kink” – new mantra?
  • Play Dynamics vs. Scene Dynamics vs. Relationship Dynamics
    • Play – experiencing with known boundaries
    • Scene – substantial power exchange; individuals familiar with aspects of time, players, experience levels
    • Relationship – extend outside of private settings, more public appearance
  • Closeness of Leather/BDSM Community
    • Support structure for others
  • Respect, Reciprocity and Abuse
  • Personal Responsibility in Representation
  • Local Community Reaction
  • For Da Noobz

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  • [Gary] – No Boyfren Bon Qui Qui feat. Tammy

  • [Jeff] – Matt Alder – Handsome Man

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COL278: What About the Children?!?

dreamstime_8229454In this episode of Cubs Out Loud, we are joined by the cutie couple Gabriel (MrMajors) and Matt (fuzzbutt) to discuss charity. Does the bear community do more now than ever? What do we do about burnout?

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  • [Jeff] – 5/14 Heroic 25 man
  • [Damon] – Flogging Switch
  • [Gary] – Roadtrips

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  • [Gary] – Shots!

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  • Rockafire – Fuzzbutt has an interesting blog, made me understand a lot of things about the BDSM community that I potentially never would of known!

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Weekly Topic

  • Bear Charity: Giving time, money, and energy?
  • ALS Ice Bucket Challenge effect

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  • [Damon] – Weird Things All Couples Fight About

  • [Gary] – Sam Smith covers Tracy Chapman’s Fast Car in the Live Lounge

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