COL115: Fisting While Partnered

Feedback from Darnell gets us talking about HIV in relation to dating. Would you knowingly date an HIV+ man?  Would you tell a friend if they were dating one and didn’t know? We talk about that and our “Amazing Weekends”!

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  • Hello COL,
    I wanted to let you guys know I really enjoyed the last show. The segment of finance was very informative and cool. Now I have a question I would like to pose to the group. I recently meet a guy on adam4adam. He is very nice, good looking , stale and has most of the qualities in a partner I am looking for. Well on the third date he brings up that he is HIV +. So my question to the group is would you date someone who is HIV +?
    Take Care
    Darnell

Topics:

  • Would you date someone who is HIV+?
  • Would you tell a friend he’s dating someone positive? (reference to Cubby House)
  • Would you meet a guy from Adam4Adam, Manhunt, Craigslist, etc.?

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  1. Hey Guys

    Just thought I would drop you a line to say hi, thanks for the great discussion especially the one about the HIV+ partnering. I was with someone for 4 years who was HIV+ and I swore I would never be with someone who had HIV again, it ripped me apart, and still to this very day 15 years later I still feel a void where he should be. But I have dated since so I've not totally kept in the past except for learning about my own limits.

    So I was wondering if I could propose a topic to you guys, So I've been in a relationship for 10 years and recently its come to a mad screaming holt (Since December last year). I've started going out again dating, and I've noticed that the dating-scape has changed considerably. Is it the norm that people have forgotten how to do romantic thing (dinner and a movie, coffee dates etc), most people I meet just want to traverse the quick hook up thing. I want to meet someone likes romance, is romantic and will reciprocate in kind when I am romantic. Does this idea make me too gay to function? Is romance dead in the bear community?

    Your loyal listener here in Adelaide, Australia

    Gryphon Jackson
    iCub_2010

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